Do you cum harder when you wear diapers and with sharky between you legs, than without the two?

This is private between my shark and me ^^

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Have you ever thought about going or been to any ABDL events? I know they’re more popular in the USA but wondering if there’s any in Europe at all

I would rather not attend such real-life things. As far as I know there’s no big events around abdl in Europe. If there are, please tell me! There’s smaller gatherings of abdl internet forums, for sure. @emma-abdl organizes small gatherings in Amsterdam, if you’re interested in that

Do you think diapers will play a part in any future relationship(s) you have? Or if they are vanilla would you try to hide it until the right moment to tell them

I’ll probably be a lil closed-minded bitch and show anyone who isn’t okay with my diapers the door :/. You don’t need to diaper me if you don’t want to, but it’s part of my life and it’s not going away just because you think that it’s weird.

The biggest question that I have for myself is whether I would continue with my tumblr blog, if someone is eventually crazy enough to be my partner. Would that be okay?

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When you’re age playing, do you ever act out any particular scenarios or imagine a storyline that excites you?

It’s not an act, it’s real 💕! The diapers I wear are real, the onesie is real, my soft socks are real, my shark plush is real, the pacifier is real !! Everything that I use for my ageplay was actually made to mimic baby stuff, but for adults!! With so many real things, I don’t need to pretend. When I ageplay, I really am just a big baby

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Do you ever feel like you will grow out of diapers? I want to be able to but whenever i try i just end up falling back into abdl harder.

XD I don’t want to, so I’m not gonna try. I like wearing diapers and it doesn’t harm my body. 

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Are you always wearing cosplays when little

Not always, right? You can see in lots of my pictures that I’m just wearing pajamas or a onesie ^^

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Would you say you’re good at cooking? And what is the best dish you can cook?

There’s still a lot that I need to learn about cooking ^^;; Luckily, there’s very few ingredients that I dislike. I avoid onions and garlic, that’s all. Aside from those two things, I can experiment with whatever recipe that I can find. The other constraint is time, but everyone has this constraint.

I tend to cook curries most of the time, because they’re easy to take with me to work (for lunch), and I can prepare them in a big batch so that I can eat it for 2 days. Though, the things that I prepare as curries probably would not be considered as such by others ^^;;

Anyway, if I ever get a job where I have normal working hours, I would for certain cook more elaborate meals. Maybe I could even cure my underweight !!

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What do you like to do in your free time beside taking picture and ageplaying?

Nowadays I don’t do that much aside from working in the lab and sitting at home. When I’m at home, I try to balance my time between cooking, keeping the place and my stuff clean, and having my fun. Hm I wish that I could answer this in a more excited way, but in reality I’m quite a boring person. I chat a lot on discord, there’s a few computer games that I play, I read a lot of stuff, watch informative videos on YouTube, and there’s a few other things that I try to produce in my free time. Those things are too boring to describe here ^^;;;

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Hiii!! What’s your favorite genre of music, an do you have a favorite artist, band, or song??

I like listening to piano music when I want to feel at ease. My fav artist is Ludovico Einaudi, when it comes to piano music. I do listen to all sorts of other music. I am a big fan of Nightwish. But I also listen to a lot of Touhou music ^^. If you don’t know what Touhou means in this context, then I can strongly recommend it !!

What aspects of ageplay do you enjoy most?

When I’m surrounded by soft clean things, I feel really good and comfortable. I’ll be in my bed, with lots of blankets, hugging my plushie, sucking on a pacifier, wearing a diaper and pyjamas and soft socks. I think that doing these things in a crib would only amplify the feelings.

I can’t explain it very well. There’s a thing inside me that compels me to pretend to be a baby. Initially it’s not even about sexual arousal. I sleep with a plushie because I want to ageplay. I want to put on a diaper because I want to ageplay. I don’t necessarily put on a diaper because I want to masturbate, I can also masturbate with a vibe or whatever. When I’m wearing a diaper, I pee myself because that’s what adult babies do, not per se for sexual reasons. I do get horny when I’m diapering myself, because there’s such a strong association for me. After I’ve diapered myself, the horniness is replaced with a strong feeling of letting go of my adult thoughts and desires. Towards the end of my ageplay session, I do get super horny and I really have to masturbate, and the orgasm in my diaper is very very strong.  On this blog, I want to focus on the non-sexual parts of ageplay. I think it’s very cute and it highlights that ABDL is a completely harmless way to have fun by yourself, with your partner or even with a close friend ^^. 

I’m single so there’s limits to what I can do by myself when I’m ageplaying. What I would like most, I think, is to play baby together with someone, without any humiliation and shame. I’d need to trust the person fully, and it shouldn’t be a sexual thing (until the very end of it, anyway). The thought of wearing my adult baby stuff and snuggling with someone as I fall asleep seems so warm-hearted and loving. I’d love to wear a Bambino Cloudee, comfy socks, and a kigurumi pyjama as I hug someone and fall asleep in my comfy bed, surrounded by cute soft blankets and my shark plush.  ❤️

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Please send Asks (9 may 2021)!

If you want to, could you send an Ask to this diapered shark?? You can do it over here: https://coucherequin.tumblr.com/ask , or if you’re on mobile, click on the (+) on the top of my profile page, and then write your Ask! You can do it with your own account or Anonymously. 

Waiting for your Asks °^°

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You have mentioned occasional ageplay with others. Do you find you enjoy that more than solo ageplay? I have tried it, and I find it never synchs up well. Maybe our lottle ages are too far off, or we just play different. Never satisfying unless one partner stays in a parent role.

I can’t answer this in detail. The few times I did this, it was kinda awkward. I’ll probably try it again if there’s an opportunity, but maybe it will be just as awkward :/ 

why costumes for toyosatomimi no miko and utsuho as opposed to, say, sanae, or chen or aya?

Thank you for this Ask! I need to answer a lil carefully again. The things I’m about to say mostly reflect my own decision-making process and my opinion. I would not want to make cosplayers feel uncomfortable ^^;;. I like cosplay and when anime conventions used to be a real thing, I did attend them while wearing a costume. I also like the Touhou franchise a lot. So, the cosplay outfits that I have include Utsuho and Miko ^^. The character designs of these girls are so cute! 

Choosing which cosplay outfit to purchase (or make, if you’re into that) is kinda complex because it can be quite costly. You need to feel comfortable wearing it, otherwise it’s a waste. By comfortable, I mean that (to me) you shouldn’t feel like the outfit doesn’t fit your body type. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed. Besides BMI, there’s a lot of stuff that you can’t really control; your shoulder width, waist/hips/thighs circumference, body length.. You can see what my body is like in my pictures; I am a fairly average Dutchy, though my legs are a little muscled due to cycling. To me, thereby I shouldn’t cosplay characters which are supposed to be small or child-like. Nor should I cosplay tall characters or muscled men xD. 

Regarding the three Touhou girls you mentioned specifically. I feel that at 1M75 I’m too tall to be Chen (or any child-like character for that matter). Sanae and Aya, I’ve not thought much about these girls. So far there’s no connection between me and these characters. I do want to purchase a new cosplay outfit at some point, but I was kinda looking at Gawr Gura rather than Touhou XD. This shark v-tuber has gotten way too popular, and I approve of sharks

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Hello, I am wondering why do you love to take pictures while age playing, doesn’t it distract you? Also if fine by you to answer, what do you feel at the thought of people seeing you in a vulnerable state? Thank you

It is very distracting to take pictures of myself when I’m ageplaying. Also, it is tiring and it takes away some of my time when editing those pictures and when compiling them into tumblr posts. For that reason, I don’t take pictures during every ageplaying session. So there will be lots of sessions where I don’t take any pictures. The reason that I can post every day is because during one of those ageplay picture sessions, I will take around 100 pictures, which I can choose the best from and post those gradually. I would definitely have a lot more pictures to post, if I did take pictures every single time I wear diapers. However, that would take away some of the fun of ageplaying for me.

As for why I take these pictures at all.. I’m not sure. I can’t remember why I started this blog. I guess that people fap to those pictures of me, that’s okay. I don’t specifically take pictures with the intent that others can fap to me. I’ve been told many times that I look vulnerable in my ABDL pictures.  I’m not exactly sure why. Maybe it’s because I’m fairly thin and fragile-looking, and the pictures show my half-naked body up close in bed. The bed adds to the atmosphere that I am letting you into my private life. Know that I don’t mind. I don’t feel like I’m in danger. As long as I hide my face (and thereby identity), I doubt that anyone would ever harm me for this. The ill-intended messages I do get, I can just ignore them (and I do). That I look vulnerable is maybe a sign that my pictures are well-taken ageplay pictures! When my diaper is on display, and I am wearing a cute outfit that no adult would wear, I am fully admitting myself to ageplay!

Taking ABDL pictures and publishing them here has become a habit for me. I enjoy interacting with others here, and helping them to feel more at ease with diapers and adult baby stuff. I am your (catless) crazy cat lady that you can write to (via Asks) for emotional support ^^

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Comment more than an ask: I appreciate your comments on the problems of incontinence. I have been AB/DL for decades, but a mild spinal injury combined with age has left me with moderate incontinence issues. VERY difficult, and I don’t mind diapers. I cannot even imagine full incontinence, especially for someone outside the community.

Thank you for this serious Ask. I want to write a more elaborate answer this time, because I have a few minutes to spare.

I’m 30 years old right now, and I’ve been using the internet since I was around 12. I mention this because as a teenager I found the internet fascinating. In those years, forums were much more commonly used compared to right now (as opposed to new websites like Yahoo Answers, Quora, or even Discord). I looked up so many topics and keywords, sometimes just to see what was written on it. Occasionally I combined keywords like “diapers”, “masturbation”, “fingering”, “fapping”, “bedwetting”, and “incontinence”, (or the Dutch equivalent of those terms) just to see what was written about it on various forums. I thought it was questionable and kinda appalling to see that there was clear sexual roleplay (or roleplay soliciting) going on at forums involving incontinence, secondary school education, and magazines for teenagers. The roleplay soliciting usually involved some form of description involving “I was forced to wear diapers by my mom for bedwetting, but I ended up really liking it, is this normal, what should I do??” There is a slim chance that some of these messages were genuine. Though, especially now that I’m a little bit older, I suspect that these messages were most likely written by horny adults. Don’t get me wrong; there’s nothing wrong with being a horny adult among other horny adults XD. Stories can be a big turn-on, and there are dedicated platforms for exchanging erotic (ABDL) stories and for roleplaying. However, typing out horny (ABDL) messages on support forums for teenagers, bedwetting, or for incontinence is unacceptable, in my opinion. The former is problematic due to the presence of minors. The latter two is (in my opinion) problematic because it confronts people who have a medical issue with the fact that others enjoy diapers for non-medical reasons. Although that latter part is not bad per se, I suspect that it’s in the best interest of everyone that ABDL only minimally interacts with the bedwetting/incontinence people, to avoid any conflict. The reason that I have this opinion is that I would most likely not want to interact with anyone who has an amputee fetish, if my leg is amputated for medical reasons. 

Going back to the original point on incontinence; I want to be supportive when needed and otherwise not mention it. I suspect that adults who become incontinent probably at some point find out that ABDL is a real thing. It’s then their choice to read into it, or ignore it. I would not want to be incontinent, I would not wish incontinence onto anyone else. ABDL and incontinence can co-exist without ever interacting. Nowadays, the existence of ABDL-themed diapers underlines my opinion about this. How I understood it, incontinent folks prefer fabric-backed diapers. Plastic-backed diapers are mostly a fetish thing. So, the existence of ABDL-themed (plastic backed) diapers (to me) means that ABDL and incontinence has diverged their separate ways and are not reliant on one another. If a cure-all for incontinence was discovered tomorrow, and incontinence-oriented diapers would disappear, then ABDL would not necessarily be affected by this. If ABDL were to disappear, then incontinence-oriented diapers would also not be affected. Likewise, the design decisions in either only minimally affect one another. When it comes to AB stuff like onesies, adult pacis, I suspect that there’s even less interaction with the non-ABDL side as these products are uniquely made for ABDL. 

All in all, it’s my opinion that I shouldn’t purposely interact with non-ABDL incontinence folks, because I don’t wish to bother others. My ABDL blog should not interact with minors at all (and I don’t, AFAIK). If my presence on tumblr would bother others, then I should change the way that I write my posts. Right now, I think I’m doing okay in that my followers specifically follow me because they want to see my ABDL-themed pictures. Before I contact someone (on tumblr), I do check if they have 18+ in their description. That’s the least I can do

How much Money do you spend on diapers, onesies etc. per month? I find it really hard to justify spending money for things like that (and things that are solely for pleasure in general) since I don’t make that much in the first place… So I thought you might be able to share a little bit of life experience with the younger adults that follow you :)

I’ve learned to take “I don’t make that much” with a grain of salt. Especially when I see other people using crazy expensive phones and laptops. But anyway, what people actually mean when they say that phrase is that they don’t want to spend a lot of money on the topic that they were discussing. It’s perfectly understandable that someone has a 1500€ telephone, but thinks that the €2 dishwash soap is expensive. In reality, that’s absurd, but in human psychology I guess it makes sense. Money is a weird thing, you know. Some people will spend all their lives chasing it, and others spend all their lives swimming in it. If you think too much about it, maybe you’ll turn into a scrooge !

What I’m getting at is that ageplay is important to me. I don’t mind spending money on the things that I enjoy. I’m not going to use numbers to indicate what I spend on my little side. Instead, let’s say that I tend to use around 4-10 diapers per month, and my AB clothing (onesies, cloth diapers, plastic pants) are maybe 5% of my total wardrobe ^^. That last part, I do cheat a little bit. I tend to look for clothing that I can wear casually but are still kinda childish, and every soft pajama is an AB outfit to me. 

My advice is to prioritize, anyway. Life necessities go first; housing, food, your health, travel (to see family and friends), internet connectivity. Fun things should take second place to necessities. If I had less money available for abdl, I would probably only use cloth diapers instead of disposable ones.  

Hm yeah, as a side note, make sure that you’re an adult if you do follow me on tumblr. I don’t check who follows me, but it’s best that minors don’t interact with me. I’m not a pornblog, and technically I’m SFW, but I do tend to discuss 18+ topics occasionally. 

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If you could, would you like to be able to age play 24/7 or at least more often than not?

No, I wouldn’t like to wear diapers all the time. I really don’t want to anger anyone who is incontinent with what I’m about to write. I genuinely feel sorry for incontinent people, and I hope that they can find ways to improve their situation. I pray for their recovery in the long term.

Diapers are very inconvenient when you’re commuting, working a (semi-) active job and doing stuff around the house like hoovering or doing the dishes. My own work is semi-active in that I do a lot of walking, getting up from one place and sitting down at another, etc. Unfortunately it does make me sweat a lot during the day. I can understand that people want to extrapolate the brief moments of fun that they have with diapers to a whole day, and maybe for others this does work out. For me, it just wouldn’t be practical ^^…

That said, I would definitely like to ageplay a little bit more often. When I’m particularly busy, sometimes I could go 3-4 weeks without ageplay. If I had a little bit more control over this, I would like to have less working hours during the week, so that I can relax a bit more. Then I would definitely ageplay on a weekly basis ^^, and maybe I would even be able to take pictures every week! Right now, I don’t take pictures during every ageplay session. Sometimes, I run out of new pictures xD

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I ask not a question but a favour. one day please enjoy a lovely Lambic and some Leonidas chocolate. for I miss them so

Thank you for the favour. You’re talking about Lambic-style beer? I like Lindemans Kriek; this is a lambic-style beer containing bittery cherry. There’s many other Lambic beers, but I have not yet tried them. Now that I am living in the world capital of beer, I should probably try out more different ones xD. I love Leonidas chocolate. 

So many exciting new flavors to try out and share with friends ^^. I hope that you can visit Belgium and experience its beverage/chocolate culture at some point soon!

Have you told someone you know IRL about your little side?

Yes ^^. My previous partner knew about it and we ageplayed together a few times. Right now, there’s also a close friend who knows about my ageplay; we have done it once together! Maybe if I can gather enough courage, I’ll tell another close friend, who once told me one of his super secret fetishes. Well, it’s not that I’m ashamed about ageplay, but I don’t want to bother people with it. Friends don’t need to know my fetishes. They’ll start to ask themselves whether I poop myself or something like that. That could really change friendships for the worse. Anyway, I (fictionally) compare it with a friend telling me that they’re into dragon dildos. Unless they’re super-super close friends, that’s probably not something that I would want to know 

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Have ever wore a diaper outside of your home? If not, would you to try someday?

Usually I do make it clear that I don’t ageplay outside of my home. Ageplay is like a mental thing that you need to fully devote yourself to, and embarrassment would prevent me from fully indulging myself. But well, aside from ageplay, I do like the feeling of diapers by themselves, as well. So occasionally when I am at an anime or comic convention cosplaying a character with a big dress or skirt, I’ll wear a diaper under my cosplay uniform ^^. That said, I haven’t been to an anime convention since 2019, for reasons that won’t have escaped you. I wonder if conventions will ever be a thing, again. I’m sorry, I think it is so sad.