Hm tbh I’d really have to look back at all the questions and answers from the past few years. It doesn’t seem like it but this blog has over 2150 posts right now, of which around 350 were Asks. I can actually look at all of them on my website ( coucherequin.com ), which is a more-easily browsable mirror of my tumblr blog ^^. Maybe one day I’ll find a way to more easily show all my posts cus my website is slow af. But at least there the post tags work properly.
I think the most often ‘Ask’ are comments of people who simply want to say Hello or that they like my blog or my pictures. I do answer these Asks despite them not really being questions. I think these messages are very kind and it feels like a gift to receive them cus I don’t request to be sent praise (whereas I do request people send me an Ask if they want to). If you’ve been following me for a while, you might have seen that I sometimes say negative things about myself. I don’t do this to get attention or to get people to send me positive messages. but nonetheless there’s a lot of Asks that seem to specifically call out me being negative about myself. I’m really sorry for this.
Actually unsurprisingly a lot of Asks that I get are about my shark plushie. I never planned on this but the Shark has become like my “thing” so to speak. People Ask where they can also get one of those sharks, whether the shark wears diapers (XD). There was one Ask which said I shouldn’t molest my Shark so often XD oops.
I do get asked sometimes whether I go #2 when ageplaying. The answer is always ‘no’ and that I don’t really wanna talk about that on my blog ^^;;.
Some Asks were about my blog name (coucherequin), like what it means, why it’s in French or whether I speak French. When people sent me Asks in French I did have to ask one of my friends to help me out with it.
Of course I do get Asks which I don’t feel like answering.. but it’s really only been a few of them. Maybe 20 in total? Usually when it’s very sexual then I don’t answer it.
I really don’t know what would be the most thought-provoking one. Maybe the one I appreciate a lot are the few Asks that I’ve received about how I got into ABDL. I totally understand that my answer isn’t very useful, but this is intriguing, right? Why does abdl exist? What compels people to do this? I can’t answer this and I’m afraid the answer probably is not very easy.
This is me wearing a Bambino cloudee; probably one of my most fav diapers:
Hm well I probably do, compared to others. But this is a baby blog so I don’t think it’s the right place for me to spew my stupid opinions on random topics XD. It’s not why people visit my blog. I’m not even sure if anyone would read a piece of text on my blog if it was too long.
This is me wearing a Drylife super:
If I’m interested in the topic, I would definitely read a post from you of any length. But I agree with the lack of politics right now. Every news source is exploding with “OH! POLITICS ARE HAPPENING HERE!” It’s like, can we NOT politics right now? Thanks.
Thank you for saying that!
However I really can’t expect people to read long blog posts on this particular blog ^^;;;. Also politics is kinda useless to discuss unless you do it in special interest groups or something. I wouldn’t discuss scientific findings with my neighbor (and expect it to have an impact on a scientific manuscript) and I wouldn’t discuss the ethics of abortion at a first date. Every topic probably has its place and politics doesn’t go on my baby blog xD.
It’s a lil unfortunate that ‘small’ sized diapers are really small whereas ‘medium’ size is quite large (at least on me). I think this is what you’re referring to? I think the tapes aren’t supposed to be all the way to the front, but should really be more towards the sides for a nice fit. On the two pictures below, you can see that the top tapes on my diaper are all the way to the front.
What I’ve noticed is that some people paste the bottom-tapes also on the front of the diaper. I don’t know how you’re supposed to put them, but I tend to fasten them in such a way that the diaper is tight around my thighs, if that makes sense? My thighs are kinda big so the diaper never quite sits flat on that part of me. It’s also usually where it leaks on me.
applying a little bit of clear packaging tape makes the diaper fit more tightly and I like that feeling. Also it makes it impossible to take off the diaper without scissors so I’m stuck in it x_x. Hope this answer is helpful somehow
xD I don’t know. I was probably horny af when I was doing that. I do enjoy masturbating in diapers. When I look back at these pictures right now I think it looks really silly and stupid (and not sexy at all). I’m such a weirdo, sometimes.
But you’re right.. diapers are for ageplay for me. I really wish I didn’t feel the sexual arousement and I could focus on the fun of my littlespace exclusively. but this is an unfortunate part of being an adult; living orgasm to orgasm.
kimimerc: coucherequin: I reveal my diaper to you ^^, a Bambino classico v2! Mmmm that’s so lovely too see Li Yeah, it was a really fun diaper to wear, I thought ^^ So unusual for me to show myself in … Continue reading →
Thank you for this Ask! I should probably marry one day xD. But I think I need a partner before I can marry. I don’t have a partner right now.
Hm but in seriousness. I really don’t know. When I try to think about these topics my mind kinda wanders between the immense responsibility I’d have to carry when I’m in a relationship with someone (I have had relationships in the past), and the joy of actually being in a relationship. I’m 29 right now so there’s some pressure from others that I should probably figure it out.. but what if I can’t figure it out? Will I have failed if I’m single and childless by the time I’m 45? Some people have mentioned to me that I should see a psychologist. I do think they’re suggesting that out of kindness and goodwill, though this is a topic that I need to find out by myself, I feel. It’s not even about diapers or ageplay; those come way down the priority list and don’t define me as a person nor do they determine my choices in life.
As for my opinion of marriage between other people.. well good for them ^^, I hope they can stay happy forever!
This is me wearing a Lil monsters diaper underneath tights ^^ :
I’m kinda wondering whether you’re asking me about streaming a video game, or streaming ageplaying or something like that. If you asked me about ageplaying then I’m afraid that I couldn’t do that. Ageplay is a personal time for me and it sounds like a lot of work to set up a stream xD. As for video games.. xD I’d be a very boring person to watch. I’m not good at any of the games that I play and my personality sucks. I’m really sorry this answer isn’t what you were hoping for…
Here are two up-close-and-personal pictures of me in bed with my shark:
I think you’re asking me this in light of some public scenario? I’m not into humiliation or exhibitionism, I’m afraid. I don’t think that I would enjoy wearing a diaper in public, especially not if it was obvious to everyone that I was wearing a diaper ^^;;;. Hm but really, a see-through dress? Wearing leggings without a skirt or shorts on top? XD No one would wear that in public, even without a diaper. I’m afraid to disappoint you, I mostly wear jeans or skinny jeans and a shirt or a blouse when I’m outside. You would never be able to tell from my public appearance that I’m a diaper-wearing dork.
I like wearing diapers in my bedroom so that I can feel like a little kid. It’s difficult to explain what compels me to do this, but the desire to ageplay and especially to wear diapers is there and it doesn’t subside until I’ve done it. But also sleeping with a plushie (my shark xD) and a pacifier (once every few nights) already satisfies some of my desire to ageplay.
Sorry for not answering your question with what you were hoping for.. I do wanna keep this blog as non-sexual and non-fetishist as possible, apart from the diapers.
I’m glad that you recognized that, though I’m not sure how? Around 10 years ago a friend introduced me to the music of it and it grew on me, I think? I like the characters, the music and a lot of the fan-made works. Nowadays it’s kinda impossible to browse the internet and not come into contact somehow with touhou.. though if you don’t recognize it, you’ll never see it. It’s a fun internet secret, otherwise, though nowadays quite a part of my life and my fun
I’m in the mood to answer Asks, but I don’t have any Asks right now.
Could you send me an Ask, please? ^^
How long will that diaper stay dry once its taped on you?
Not very long °^°. Sometimes I’ll start ageplaying when I actually need to go and then once I’m wearing it I immediately go. But other times it’ll take a little while. As for other juices, well that’s private xD
Sorry I don’t discuss this on my blog ^^;;. I only discuss sharks and my littlespace:
Aww! All those animals need homes! I want one of each please!
Hm well they’re plushies, not animals. But if you want a shark plushie, ikea has plenty of them ^^
Look what I found while I was out today! A whole school of shark friends 😀
xD I love seeing lots of those sharks together. It looks so silly. The local ikea here has gigantic racks for the sharks and for the other plushies. I have no idea how many of these get sold on a weekly basis, but I have a few non-abdl friends who also have a shark plushie like that at home. It’s almost time for mine’s monthly swim in the washing machine
Thank you for this Ask! I’ve worn thigh-highs, tights and leggings during little time for as long as I can remember. I think tights and leggings go nicely together with ageplay because it can look super childish and it keeps my diaper snugly in place. Now with thighhigh socks I do see the ambiguity.. I personally think thighhighs are really cute (in like anime-ish cute: moe), so I wouldn’t consider them a sex symbol on myself. With those semi-transparant sheer thighhighs it’s kinda less cute I guess and more ‘sexy’. But xD I just can’t see myself as ‘sexy’. Do people fap to me? xD I would think that that’s really weird, if that’s the case I’m not that kind of person, I think? I’m only showing my littlespace in pictures
hm I wrote an answer to this Ask but my laptop restarted itself to update while I was gone.. x_x. I really wish I could disable that feature while I’m working on stuff. I’ll try to write my message again. Thanks for this Ask, though. I’ll answer it without forwarding it to other people, if that’s okay? Five things that make me happy, in no particular order, would be:
1. Learning about mammalian biology (sorry that’s really specific, welp). Really anything about it, any detail, any mechanism, and any possible underlying reason why it is how it is. It’s kinda silly, because I’ll never be able to get any reasonable grasp of even any minor subpart. But what is there to live for if you can’t dream big?
2. Making others happy. Someone else’s smile is worth more than mine, right? Seeing friends and family can make me very happy. I don’t even have to do anything together with them. Seeing them and talking with them can be enough for me ^^
3. Otaku stuff. Watching anime, reading manga, listening to the music, going to the conventions, cosplaying, talking to people about these things, being a weird weeb. I think these things are very fun and they make me happy.
4. Organizing and making things tidy ^^. Sorry I’m running out of ideas cus it’s late and I’m a lil tired as I’m writing this. My apartment was kinda messy visually but you’ll have to trust me that once in a while I did organize all my stuff and put everything in the right places
5. Diapers? In the big picture they’re really not that important.. but ageplaying does make me happy so.. there it is. Ho-hum. I admit, I like diapers.You caught me red-handed
it’s true, I have some issues with self-esteem. I don’t think it’s related to me liking diapers and ageplay. Maybe it’s just my way of looking at life? Though despite that, I’m generally a happy person. I’ve been single for a long time, but I don’t really care that much about it, I think. I would really like to talk to interesting people more than I do now, though. I seem to attract mostly the “how are u” and not so much real conversations, but perhaps it’s my mistake to expect more than chit-chat.
I’m against medicalization of human behavior, though. I would not go to a psychologist for having low self esteem. To me, that sounds absurd. I learned the hard way that it’s best not to be critical of psychologists. I’m still kinda skeptical, you know? I’ve always solved my own issues. The concept that someone could help me with a deep personal issue, in a very limited time, sounds totally bizarre to me. I personally consider the placebo effect to be a major contributor in the efficacy of psychologists. But again, I’m careful with this.. if a psychologist helps you, by all means don’t listen to me ^^
Thank you for this Ask! I do really enjoy getting Asks and I will answer (almost) all of them in due time ^^
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Je kunt een luier strakker maken door een laagje plakband om je middel te plakken ^^. Jaaa een licht kleurtje vind ik ook mooier dan een blanke luier. Dit is de “MyDiaper Pink” :
I missed wearing this skirt °^° Also you can see all the stuff that I transported from my apartment to my new temporary home.. I did unfortunately had to throw some things away cus it just wouldn’t fit any more, … Continue reading →
Ik een luier ontwerpen? XD. Dat gaat nooit goedkomen. Qua ontwerp vind ik luiers met een licht (pastel) kleurtje heel erg leuk. Een luier hoeft voor mij ook niet heel dik te zijn; gewoon ongeveer tena maxi slip dikte ofzo, net genoeg om er 2 of 3 keer in te plassen. Voor mij moet de buitenkant van een luier wel van plastic zijn, want de stoffen-buitenkant luiers die ik tot nu toe gedragen heb lekken na een tijdje een beetje door de stof heen? Dat vind ik vies want dan trekt ‘t ook langzaam in je kleren. De Bambino Cloudee is eigenlijk precies wat ik bedoel; die luier heeft een plastic buitenkant en is zó leuk en schattig dat ik wel kan smelten °^°. Alhoewel ik niet kan smelten wordt die luier toch nat van mij, gek of niet? Ik weet niet waardoor dat komt
I think I like Okonomiyaki most. I can’t prepare it myself, however. At home, I mostly eat rice and vegetables. I’ll be the last person to get sick from fatty food, considering how thin I am
