You wrote: Hm what surprises me the most is that you can’t really be active when you’re wearing a diaper, without being uncomfortable or even leaking.Have you tried Tena Slip Active -diapers? At least for me, they (boosted with Abena’s large booster) allow quite active day, like spending full day in city and walking more than 10 km during the day. After day, when coming back to hotel, there were no leaks in the extremely full diaper.