I’m not sure if I can help. Friends and family never really ask me questions about abdl. What is the problem, though? If someone did ask me about it, and I didn’t want to answer them, it’s up to me to say that I don’t want to talk about that topic cus it’s private. I pretend to be a baby, but I’m still an adult in charge of my own thoughts, time and what I share with others.

If you wanna talk about it in private, feel free to send me a DM on tumblr. Or if you wanna, you can ask me for my discord handle in a DM (I can’t promise that I’m any faster on discord compared to tumblr, though at least it has a better overview)