bobbadadee:

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I may be at an anime convention called abunai right now 😊 (in my hotel room)

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I went to an anime rave party wearing a diaper underneath an abdl onesie and a poofy cosplay uniform 😳. I wonder if I was the only guest there wearing such a thing 😂

YES!!

🤗 🥰 🥰

(“Yes!” to celebrate your courage for going out – I’m sure you were not alone wearing a diaper. 🤭)

Please tell us more about this adventure.

… (& what’s next?)

Hm well maybe there were also at least 1 other person wearing a diaper… but I will never know. I got very sweaty, but I continued way past my bedtime !!

What’s next is that I have to post new pictures to my tumblr blog, because I’ve been kind of less active for months already… 

How deep is deep?

bobbadadee:

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bobbadadee:

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Have you ever watched Inception? Recursive story telling is a common trope in fiction, though not often appreciated because it’s difficult to follow for some.

What I mean by ‘recursion’ here is when a character describes a fictional character and setting, who itself is describing a fictional character and setting, and so forth. Once you are 2-3 layers deep, it becomes nearly impossible to follow for the majority of readers. The ability to imagine a complex or abstract scenario is probably uniquely human, which can help us to better understand the feelings of others (and thus live harmoniously in a group), but also allow for high-level planning of future events (improving our adaptation). Putting it like this, you can probably hypothesize that ‘sociopathic’ behavior is caused by the inability to imagine complex or abstract scenarios (especially related to the feelings of others), rather than by a willful intent to cause harm in others. Whether this ability is learned or developmental, I don’t know. I appreciate that I have never had difficulties understanding concepts or feelings, though I also look up to others who are able to go even ‘deeper’ than I can.

When I was an actual child, the one thing I feared about growing up was the concept that I’d be gradually unable to learn new things and new skills. I’m not sure where this fear came from; probably my observation that older people had such difficulty adapting to new developments, and my own limitations of not being able to learn a new language. Now I don’t think that this fear was fully grounded. Language development does change while we grow up; it becomes more difficult to learn a completely new language. Learning how to play a musical instrument also becomes more difficult. Though, in contrast, many other things become much easier to learn as we get older due to cumulative experiences. You’re no longer starting from scratch, you already have decades worth of observations in your head. If you remain open to learn new things, and don’t dismiss concepts outright, I think that you will be able to continue learning new things and new skills throughout your life. Herein, your starting point and development obviously affect your rate of learning. Due to working as a biomedical scientist for over a decade, I’m fairly good at working in a medical laboratory, and new techniques come to me as if I’ve done them for years already.

To go back to the question ‘how deep is deep?’. There’s a lot of ways to answer this, depending on context and depending on ‘how deep’ of an answer you want ^^

Thank you Dr. Your little side deeply contrasts with your professional side in intriguing ways that invite acceptance.

Thank you for sharing yourself with us. 🙂🤗

xD Must be strange to hear me say all these weird complicated things, while I’m also just trying to be a good baby.

But I’m not going to roleplay, it’d be too tiring I think. I’m just me and that’s it.

You ARE a good baby….🤗🥰 …

and, I believe, a good scientist.

Balancing both makes you truly outstanding. 🥰

I’m not sure about those claims xD. Maybe I’m actually awful at both… But I care and I try my best, and maybe that will make the difference.

Have you/would you experiment with diapers and other aspects, for example, diapers and bondage seem to go hand in hand?

I’d like to keep my littlespace as innocent as possible 💞. I know that diapers are a huge turn-on to some, but I wouldn’t want to mix it with other fetishes. I need to become more pure !!!

What I think works well with ageplay is to wear cute outfits and stuff like thighhigh socks… I should get more cutesy stuff for myself

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Your photos are so cute! Love how you use language.You mentioned you wet the bed growing up. How did you feel about wearing diapers at night back then? Were you embarrassed or did you like it? And how were you diapered at night — did someone diaper you or did you slip a pull-up on yourself?

bobbadadee:

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Thank you for the compliment 💕

I’m afraid that too few memories are left for me to grasp whether it was embarrassing to be put into diapers, or to know even who diapered me, or what kind of diapers they were. The memories that remain are about how I am in the bottom part of a bunk bed wearing pajamas and a diaper (I don’t know what kind of diaper), and everything felt complete.

I sometimes wear a diaper to bed now… and in the middle of the night I wake up with a full bladder. Not to train myself that it’s okay to wet the bed, I walk to my bathroom and wet my diaper ^^. It’s really surreal to wake up with a wet diaper (even if I did it consciously), and it’s the hugest turn-on ever for me. If I had a partner, they’d definitely find me at my weakest at that moment. You could do anything to me, probably even a kiss would make me come into my diaper.

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Insightful comment on your struggle with your inner baby.

I wish you could just use your diaper with less fuss & get a better sleep.🤗

I wouldn’t want to become reliant on diapers and wet them at night without realising. Diapers are for fun and I want the fun to be on my terms 🧡. I really love the sensation of peeing myself and feeling it disappear, and feeling the diaper swell up in response. (Sorry for being weird with this, but it’s just who I am)

How deep is deep?

bobbadadee:

requincouche:

Have you ever watched Inception? Recursive story telling is a common trope in fiction, though not often appreciated because it’s difficult to follow for some.

What I mean by ‘recursion’ here is when a character describes a fictional character and setting, who itself is describing a fictional character and setting, and so forth. Once you are 2-3 layers deep, it becomes nearly impossible to follow for the majority of readers. The ability to imagine a complex or abstract scenario is probably uniquely human, which can help us to better understand the feelings of others (and thus live harmoniously in a group), but also allow for high-level planning of future events (improving our adaptation). Putting it like this, you can probably hypothesize that ‘sociopathic’ behavior is caused by the inability to imagine complex or abstract scenarios (especially related to the feelings of others), rather than by a willful intent to cause harm in others. Whether this ability is learned or developmental, I don’t know. I appreciate that I have never had difficulties understanding concepts or feelings, though I also look up to others who are able to go even ‘deeper’ than I can.

When I was an actual child, the one thing I feared about growing up was the concept that I’d be gradually unable to learn new things and new skills. I’m not sure where this fear came from; probably my observation that older people had such difficulty adapting to new developments, and my own limitations of not being able to learn a new language. Now I don’t think that this fear was fully grounded. Language development does change while we grow up; it becomes more difficult to learn a completely new language. Learning how to play a musical instrument also becomes more difficult. Though, in contrast, many other things become much easier to learn as we get older due to cumulative experiences. You’re no longer starting from scratch, you already have decades worth of observations in your head. If you remain open to learn new things, and don’t dismiss concepts outright, I think that you will be able to continue learning new things and new skills throughout your life. Herein, your starting point and development obviously affect your rate of learning. Due to working as a biomedical scientist for over a decade, I’m fairly good at working in a medical laboratory, and new techniques come to me as if I’ve done them for years already.

To go back to the question ‘how deep is deep?’. There’s a lot of ways to answer this, depending on context and depending on ‘how deep’ of an answer you want ^^

Thank you Dr. Your little side deeply contrasts with your professional side in intriguing ways that invite acceptance.

Thank you for sharing yourself with us. 🙂🤗

xD Must be strange to hear me say all these weird complicated things, while I’m also just trying to be a good baby.

But I’m not going to roleplay, it’d be too tiring I think. I’m just me and that’s it.

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I enjoyed your recent post on your perfect little day.  Would you do more of them as you get the time?  Perhaps once a week or every two weeks, or whatever. Perhaps include a perfect little day with a challenge.An example would be your partner having to go to the store to get something significant for your birthday today.  This was to pick up a new “top of the line” crib that had been back-ordered; it would replace your old tiny one that was falling apart. If this wasn’t picked up today, it would be at least 12 months before a new one would again be available.   Your partner didn’t want to leave you alone at home so they insisted that you either go to the store with them or have the partner’s friend stay with you (or babysit you) for a couple hours until your partner got back from the store with your new dream crib. You knew and liked your partner’s friend, but you thought that this person didn’t know you were a little, much less wearing a diaper today under your cute birthday dress.  However, since this friend was your partner’s close friend, this friend was ABDL supportive and may not be surprised to find that you were a little and wearing a diaper. You had to choose one of these scenarios (go to the store with your partner or stay home and have a babysitter. How would you make your little day perfect in confronting this dilemma?   If this challenge is too much, what would you do to possibly compromise?…or just make up any challenge that you like for another perfect day. 😋🤤.(please don’t feel burdened by this ask; do it only if you have time and only if it will be fun)

Thank you for your Ask!

What I can distill from your Ask, is that you’re interested in ABDL stories. I find that they’re difficult to write well, without going into unnatural situations. I read stories written by others. Humiliation seems to be a huge trigger… You even suggest it in your ask; public diaper wearing, exposing oneself to a (somewhat) stranger.

What really triggers me when I read stories is unreasonable stuff, illogical events, plot holes, etc. … It doesn’t make sense to me why a crib would become unavailable for 12 months if it’s not picked up today. It’s a story element used to create urgency and it attempts to make that urgency sound logical. But I think that it’s kinda disrespectful of readers to assume that they’re just going to accept the plothole as-is. Readers are smart people, and they want a good realistic story… It can still contain improbable stuff, as long as they’re logical, I think.

In the background, I am writing an ABDL story about two friends who have a strong love interest for one another, where one of them is a full ABDL like me, and the friend being supportive but not fundamentally interested in it. I think that this is the most likely scenario when it comes to relationships where ABDL plays a role yet not both partners are into ABDL.

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Does the embarrassment of wearing diapers play any part in your fantasies? or would casual teasing between you and a partner be welcomed?

bobbadadee:

requincouche:

bobbadadee:

requincouche:

XD wearing diapers is supposed to be embarrassing?

I’ll answer the question for real. In a lot of abdl stories, embarrassment and public exposure seems to be a recurring theme, even beyond language barriers. By the latter, I mean that you also see it in Japanese abdl comics, and in Dutch abdl stories. So, it’s not exclusive to English abdl stories. That’s reassuring, right? Also outside of abdl, embarrassment seems to be a huge turn-on in certain situations.

As for why embarrassment and abdl would be linked… I can only hypothesize. Embarrassment is a strong emotion that allows us to remember stuff in huge detail for a long time. You tend to forget the mundane stuff, but you remember those really embarrassing things, as well as the really exciting memories. So I kinda hypothesize that the initial trigger that eventually leads to infantilism is probably related to a strong emotion such as embarrassment/humiliation. I can’t tell you what ‘causes’ abdl, because there’s probably a unique event for each one of us, though it converges to similar endpoints. My own hypothesis is that abdl is caused by a number of events where diapers co-occur with fear, anxiety, humiliation, embarrassment, anger and/or strong criticism from a parent or elder, specifically during a sensitive age window (probably 6~8 years age). The sexual element of diapers would then probably be established because of the intimate nature of getting diapered by an elder. Though, even diapering yourself at that age can probably cause the same link. People are usually out of diapers by those ages, so they likely don’t develop abdl. Continued bedwetting (and therefore use of diapers) or similar stuff probably increases the likelihood of making the association.

I’m not sure if I like embarrassment. I do like the ‘thrill’ of talking about embarrassing things. It’s hype exciting, and it makes me look forward to something. Though, if the topic of abdl is already disclosed to a partner, it’d probably lose its embarrassment quickly?? My ultimate fantasy is that I’d like to be treated as a helpless baby… Sleep in a crib wearing nothing but a diaper, onesie and socks, with a paci in my mouth. My food for the whole day would be thick infant formula given through a baby bottle, and I have to use my diaper. My caregiver plays with me, makes me color a drawing and watch cartoons, and changes my diaper. Before sleep, there’s a ‘special’ diaper change where I’m allowed to come in my diaper, but afterwards I need to sleep in my crib with a paci in my mouth and a big shark plushie in my arms 💞. I can’t even imagine how it’d feel to release a whole day of sexual tension into a wet diaper. Best feeling ever?

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The delightful fantasy that you painted is indeed enjoyable to imagine if there always remains some ‘safe’ embarrassment to overcome.  Of course, boundaries need to be respected.

There could also be equal or more incredible allure with no embarrassment with the thrill of surrendering to being dependent and vulnerable. 

I think this is just another way of saying what you did.

But it’s not a fantasy… It’s what I’d actually like to experience ^^. Is it that much to ask for? It seems innocent and cute, to me!! I’m not asking for anything outlandish, I think???

I think the desire to live your (our) fantasy is a necessary part of finding happiness. Embrace it, let it thrive, & make it fit in your (our) world.

I think we are singing the same song. 🫠

(PS. Don’t make your formula too thick, it will clog the nipple in your baby bottle. Of course, the hole can be enlarged…but not so big that your formula will dribble out if the bottle falls on the floor…or your crib mattress. 🤗)

My bottle is strong, it’s been well-used xD

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I would definitely say your shark is a lucky shark, and not just because of where he was in those photos. In the years that I’ve known you, I’ve seen the love you’ve given him. He’s had a very good life with you so far.

bobbadadee:

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bobbadadee:

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Thank you for this ask <3

I kinda wish that the shark was a little bit fatter. He got so flat from me sleeping on top of him almost every day

I like to pretend that he loves me. It kinda turns me on when he’s on top of me. Maybe one day I’ll give him a strap-on so that the shark can go inside me xD. But oops this is way too lewd. I just want to have innocent fun.

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“Innocence is moral goodness” & sharing with adults that you enjoy pleasuring yourself is not immoral. ….although announcing this to your parents could be embarrassing..🙄

I don’t know what your quote is referring to, what was it about?

Though, bdl is probably not something that you’d have to tell your parents, I think? I don’t think that it should harm anything, and maybe your mom would say “I always knew it”, but it’s just one of those things that they don’t necessarily need to know about. What do you think?

My quote was intended to just support your desire to have innocent fun, and that what you say is not too lewd, IMO. Sorry for being so vague.

I wish your shark was fatter. Perhaps you could put better stuffing in him and give him new life. I know there is something out there that would keep him fatter longer. 😥

My reference to “parents” was “tongue-n-cheek” humor…🙄. For me, with my parents, I think it would have been extremely embarrassing & non-supportive. However, my mom may have just shrugged it off as…“it’s just one of those things” (which she often did say). 🙂

Thank you for your support <3

Yes, there’s plushie stuffing that is for sale, specifically to fill up pillows and stuffed toys. It’d do my shark well if he got some new stuffing. but the thought of opening him up frightens me. What if I mess up and I can never sleep with him again??? I can’t replace him, he’s mine 😭

Well my mum knows, because she saw me throw away diapers a couple of times, and she’s seen some of my baby stuff on accident. I never specifically asked her anything about it, as I think it’s very awkward.. But I’m convinced that she would be supportive, if such a conversation ever came up. It’s my choice, it’s harmless, it puts my mind at ease. And somehow I think that there must have been plenty of clues in my early childhood… I’m not going to ask, too embarrassing 

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Huh, wow! A box of diapers arrived at my doorstep. It must mean that I need diapers… 😊😊

I was gifted these diapers by an anonymous person. There was a note attached, with a private message (which I won’t show here), and signed by a nickname. I don’t know whether I can share the message, or the nickname, so here is the hint which the person who sent it may understand:🐈.

Thank you so much for gifting me this!! I wear diapers, and post pictures onto tumblr even if I was never given anything in return. I don’t expect anything in return; I genuinely enjoy wearing diapers and ageplay, taking pictures, and I’ve gotten to enjoy showing other people my littlespace. That way, I can inspire you to try out your own littlespace, and see how far you wish to go. I made an amazon wishlist when someone specifically asked for this in a tumblr Ask. I didn’t want to be rude and decline this offer, so I went with it and made a short list… I hope that you can see my reasoning, and see that I have good intentions in what I do

I can’t wait to wear this and show you!! I wonder whether I can make them leak xD

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I’m a little bit late with this.. but I was very happy to receive an amazon wishlist gift containing 2 plastic pants 😍😍

It must have been a little bit strange for the person to pack this, to see an incontinence pants being used as a gift xD… But luckily there’s lots of different people out there, and some of them (me included) just happen to enjoy littlespace and ageplay !!! And there’s nothing wrong with littlespace. It is innocent, self-care and fun ^^

I’ve already worn these to bed, which is what I use plastic pants for, and they feel really soft and cute ^^. I’m so glad. Thank you Anonymous person for gifting these to me !! I am 99% sure who it is, but amazon does not show any names so it is an Anonymous gift

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Did you ever play World of Warcraft? I, for myself, didn’t play it much, I kinda don’t know the game, but I enjoyed it to wander around, especially in the starting areas, where it is more or less peaceful. A perfect world.

I’ve never played that game, I’m afraid. When I was younger, I played a really really cute online game called “Ragnarok online”. And when I was a lil older I also played Minecraft and Pokemon !!

I’m not that big on playing videogames, as I just don’t have enough time for it. But maybe one day, I will be able to enjoy it a lil more ^^

I would definitely say your shark is a lucky shark, and not just because of where he was in those photos. In the years that I’ve known you, I’ve seen the love you’ve given him. He’s had a very good life with you so far.

bobbadadee:

requincouche:

Thank you for this ask <3

I kinda wish that the shark was a little bit fatter. He got so flat from me sleeping on top of him almost every day

I like to pretend that he loves me. It kinda turns me on when he’s on top of me. Maybe one day I’ll give him a strap-on so that the shark can go inside me xD. But oops this is way too lewd. I just want to have innocent fun.

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“Innocence is moral goodness” & sharing with adults that you enjoy pleasuring yourself is not immoral. ….although announcing this to your parents could be embarrassing..🙄

I don’t know what your quote is referring to, what was it about?

Though, abdl is probably not something that you’d have to tell your parents, I think? I don’t think that it should harm anything, and maybe your mom would say “I always knew it”, but it’s just one of those things that they don’t necessarily need to know about. What do you think?

I’m really happily surprised right now !!!

When I checked my mailbox this afternoon, there was a package inside that I didn’t order myself… It was even kinda stuck inside my mailbox xD, cus those amazon packages are exactly the same size as my mail box oops. It was an anonymous gift, selected from my amazon gift list ❤️❤️

Thank you so much !!! It is a black onesie with a black skirt accompanying it. The shoulder part is a mesh. I’m a lil busy so I can’t pose with it myself right now, but I briefly put it on my shark for a picture xD. What do you think of it??? Do you have a onesie, yourself?

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Does the embarrassment of wearing diapers play any part in your fantasies? or would casual teasing between you and a partner be welcomed?

bobbadadee:

requincouche:

XD wearing diapers is supposed to be embarrassing?

I’ll answer the question for real. In a lot of abdl stories, embarrassment and public exposure seems to be a recurring theme, even beyond language barriers. By the latter, I mean that you also see it in Japanese abdl comics, and in Dutch abdl stories. So, it’s not exclusive to English abdl stories. That’s reassuring, right? Also outside of abdl, embarrassment seems to be a huge turn-on in certain situations.

As for why embarrassment and abdl would be linked… I can only hypothesize. Embarrassment is a strong emotion that allows us to remember stuff in huge detail for a long time. You tend to forget the mundane stuff, but you remember those really embarrassing things, as well as the really exciting memories. So I kinda hypothesize that the initial trigger that eventually leads to infantilism is probably related to a strong emotion such as embarrassment/humiliation. I can’t tell you what ‘causes’ abdl, because there’s probably a unique event for each one of us, though it converges to similar endpoints. My own hypothesis is that abdl is caused by a number of events where diapers co-occur with fear, anxiety, humiliation, embarrassment, anger and/or strong criticism from a parent or elder, specifically during a sensitive age window (probably 6~8 years age). The sexual element of diapers would then probably be established because of the intimate nature of getting diapered by an elder. Though, even diapering yourself at that age can probably cause the same link. People are usually out of diapers by those ages, so they likely don’t develop abdl. Continued bedwetting (and therefore use of diapers) or similar stuff probably increases the likelihood of making the association.

I’m not sure if I like embarrassment. I do like the ‘thrill’ of talking about embarrassing things. It’s hype exciting, and it makes me look forward to something. Though, if the topic of abdl is already disclosed to a partner, it’d probably lose its embarrassment quickly?? My ultimate fantasy is that I’d like to be treated as a helpless baby… Sleep in a crib wearing nothing but a diaper, onesie and socks, with a paci in my mouth. My food for the whole day would be thick infant formula given through a baby bottle, and I have to use my diaper. My caregiver plays with me, makes me color a drawing and watch cartoons, and changes my diaper. Before sleep, there’s a ‘special’ diaper change where I’m allowed to come in my diaper, but afterwards I need to sleep in my crib with a paci in my mouth and a big shark plushie in my arms 💞. I can’t even imagine how it’d feel to release a whole day of sexual tension into a wet diaper. Best feeling ever?

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The delightful fantasy that you painted is indeed enjoyable to imagine if there always remains some ‘safe’ embarrassment to overcome.  Of course, boundaries need to be respected.

There could also be equal or more incredible allure with no embarrassment with the thrill of surrendering to being dependent and vulnerable. 

I think this is just another way of saying what you did.

But it’s not a fantasy… It’s what I’d actually like to experience ^^. Is it that much to ask for? It seems innocent and cute, to me!! I’m not asking for anything outlandish, I think???

Do you have dreams, where you are wearing a diaper in normal daily life, and your friend/colleague/relative notices your diaper?

I don’t think that I’ve had such a dream before. That’d be kinda strange. I have dreamt of diapers in peculiar situations… I have some difficulty recalling dreams from the past. I think that I’ve had numerous dreams of wearing diapers to school and being found out.

What is your experience? Have you dreamt of diapers in any way?

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