Is there anyone you know either in real life or through the internet that you either think would be happier if they wore diapers or would have a higher quality of life by wearing them? I’m especially curious if said person isn’t ABDL at all.

I don’t think that diapers do anything for someone who isn’t into them. With that in mind, wearing diapers probably wouldn’t make them happier or increase their quality of life.

I asked my first partner whether she wanted to share a special intimate time with me, in exchange for doing the same for her. She agreed to that, and we overall had a great time ageplaying. Though, it was one-sided. Later, I asked a close friend whether she wanted to ageplay with me. It was really fun for me to see her like that, but she didn’t like it and asked that I don’t request it again. I recently brought ageplay up with a close (male) friend, and he thought it was strange. He was interested in seeing me in all those pretty dresses, but he also commented that seeing diapers on me did nothing for him.

This Ask brings up a deeper question, though. What compels me (and maybe you?) to want to wear diapers and do other baby stuff. The way that I look at it, ageplay is something that we can acquire during (childhood) development. I think that it is not possible to (fully) acquire it in adulthood. Through association, a partner can maybe begin to enjoy diapers when they’re always used in a safe and romantic way. Though, I don’t have any experience with this. There is at least one person who has been DM’ing me, who is not into diapers, but interested in other aspects of what I post.

I don’t think that I can fully answer your question ^^;;. For sure I can make anyone into ABDL happy by making them wear a diaper, especially if I put them into one! Do you think that I could be a caretaker?

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Do you have any good spicy stories you could share about you and your shark?

The funny thing is that I’ve had a lot of dreams where I accidentally took the shark with me to random events. It’d be me, wearing my professional disguise (my adult clothes), carrying the shark in my hands. It doesn’t make much sense why I would feel embarrassed about this scenario and dream about it time and time again. Dreams are weird like that, right?

He can’t go with me into the big scary world; he needs to stay in my bed to ward off the scary scaaaries.

xD I probably should feel embarrassed about a lot of other things… Getting my diaper exposed in public, wearing childish outfits, accidentally wetting myself… There’s so many seemingly more straightforward things than taking a plushie outdoors.

Hm you asked me about ‘spicy’ stories. I once accidentally wet my bed and and half of it got on the shark. We took a shower together, and then he went into the washing machine, along with my bedsheets hihi. That was a lot of work and really annoying, but you have to look back at these things and smile.

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Do you think you’ll ever do more Touhou cosplay? (With or Without diapers!)

I’m going to Japan Expo Paris this July. Most likely, I’ll take a touhou cosplay with me. Though, I haven’t decided yet which one… I can choose between Tenshi, Miko, Utsuho, and Sanae, as these are the touhou costumes that I have ^^. Let’s see what happens, right?

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Would probably be a good idea to fill your blåhaj with some more stuffing, he does look a little limp. I’m 186 Cm tall so I do wish he was slightly bigger but he’s still pretty nice to cuddle with :D I named mine Jesper

Thank you for reiterating this ^^. My blahaj is very limp and needs more filling. I think that it’s the effect of washing him every few weeks, and sleeping with him every night…

You’re big! But blahaj is there for you ^^

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Do you accept gifts or donations for AB things. If so, how can this be done? I noticed an old site (donating “coffee”), is it still active? For European givers only?

If you tell me what it is, I could get it for myself ^^. I really like ageplay, after all..! My friend @cofftee has sent me gifts in the past, for which I am very grateful. I’d chat with him even without the gifts xD, but he knows it. If you send me a DM you can tell me what it is.

Concerning the Ko-fi.com/coucherequin thing.. I think that it is still active. Though, I stopped promoting it when I realized that it’s not like me to ask anything in return for what I love doing. My pictures are a window into my life, rather than a commercial or promotional product. I have a paying job, so I don’t think that I need to earn anything with abdl pictures ^^

No matter what you think of me, at the very least I want to be seen as authentic and real. Because I am!

You should work on your stories, and publish them on a story website for more exposure, I want to know what happens next!

Thank you for this Ask and for the motivation. I also owe this to @itmustbefun . I’m so sorry, I’ve had so little time the last few weeks that I just can’t open up the document to work on it. I do have a lot of ideas for storylines that I want to write out to evaluate if they fit the sort of feelings that I want to go for. It’s no secret that one of the characters is based on myself, right? xD I can think of a lot of scenarios, but I don’t think that I’m very creative when it comes to characters. She’s literally me (albeit with a few details different) and a dear friend of mine.

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Got my own Blåhaj recently, it’s impressive how much he improved my quality of sleep! I now understand why you love yours so much.

Thank you for this Ask, sorry for not answering Asks in quite some time… I’m glad to hear that you got yourself a shark plush, and that you are enjoying it in bed! To me, it feels like the shark plush was created for larger children and teenagers. It is still the right size for smol adults. (hm maybe if it was a little bit bigger… but I don’t mind)

Mine is really squashed from daily sleeping with him for the past 5 years… I wonder if I should put new filling inside. What do you think? 

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hey how your day?

xD I assume that this Ask should be “How was your day?”. Maybe I’m just dumb for fundamentally not really understanding these kinds of chit-chat questions. Almost every day is the same when you start working full-time. Monday to Friday, it’s all the same to me. I wake up at around 7:30 am, I have breakfast with 2 slices of brown bread, covered with peanut butter and jam. I brush my teeth & floss, and leave my home by bike at around 8:30 am. At 12:30 I have lunch, and at around 18:00 I leave from work. Once every 2 days, I stop at the supermarket on my way home, to buy fresh vegetables, fruit, meat, and bread. I have dinner at around 19:00, I shower, and during the evening I have my free time. On the weekends, I wake up at around 10 am, and spend my days either with family, or resting ^^. It doesn’t occur often that I go out to ‘do’ something. Maybe I would be happier if my days were more varied, or maybe I wouldn’t be and I’m fine.

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Is it more fun to wear the simpler pattern pamps than ones with fancy designs?

Thank you kindly for this Ask. You have a lot of choice, with regards to diapers, nowadays. Even among incontinence-geared diapers, you can choose between budget options and more expensive high capacity ones. Concomitantly, you can choose between plastic-backed and cloth-backed diapers, depending on what texture you prefer ^^. The various brands of incontinence diapers do have ‘designs’, in that there will either be (dotted) patterns printed on them, or the whole diaper will have a solid color. I assume that this is done specifically to make incontinence diapers not resemble baby diapers. Though, the helplessness of incontinence appears to be an aesthetic onto itself…

Once you decide that you’d like to try out ABDL-geared diapers, you will find out that your options are even broader! Among abdl diapers, you can choose between fancy designs, scented diapers, and even diapers modelled in a way to make them better resemble resized actual baby diapers. ABDL diapers share some of the same constraints as incontinence diapers, in that they cannot be too expensive or too impractical to wear. However, abdl diapers do not have any design constraints ^^. In fact, I love it when diapers resemble baby diapers, as they make me feel like one. That’s the whole point!

To answer your question; I prefer diapers with ‘fancy’ designs, that make me feel more like a baby. Though, I have also worn incontinence diapers and ones with simpler designs, in the past. In the two pictures below, I am wearing a Rearz Incontrol, and the one below it I am wearing a Lil Squirts Splash. 

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Do you mind to explain how do you diaper yourself? Are you laying down, imagine someone else is diapering you like a baby? Or are you doing it in an upright position? Like it is shown on the diaper packages? Or is someone putting you into diapers?Thank you for your blog and the effort :)

Thank you for sending me this Ask! You are actually reminding me that I want to buy a changing mat for myself. Currently I put a fleece blanket on the floor, spread out the diaper, and lay down onto it. It is really important that you fluff up your diaper before putting it in! Fluffing up a diaper means that you make the fluffy stuff inside the diaper less dense, by grabbing onto the diaper with two hands, and pushing your hands closer together, forcing the diaper into a U-shape. When you’ve done this several times, the previously densely-compressed fluffy stuff will be less compressed and even more fluffy, making the diaper overall more thick !

It is really important to put diaper cream on your skin ! It helps me to get into the mood, and usually it has a nice scent to it. ABDL is a special time, so feel free to apply a lot of cream! After you’ve taped on your diaper, you can also put on a plastic pants, to enhance further the babyish feeling. What I like to do is put transparent packing tape 2 or 3 times around my waist (on the diaper), to convince my mind that I am not taking off the diaper, and to provide a little bit extra tightness (I am too thin).

I am not pretending that someone is diapering me… that’s something which I will try next time ^^, thank you for the suggestion.

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Diaper check time !

I will answer it for this time ^^. I am wearing a Rearz Princess Pink, right now. I am melting into my littlespace, and melting a little bit into my diaper in the process. I’m still kinda horni, and I wish that I could put something inside me… but I need to focus on my happy littlespace ❤️

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What a super duper cutie you are!! Hope you e been doing well

Thank you kindly for this compliment 💖💖

I am doing well ^^. I am going to visit Budapest (in Hungary) soon, and I am looking forward to that! I should be reading into the history and culture of that city, a little bit more, to make sure that I am well-prepared. I wonder if I should take a few (non-abdl) diapers with me in my suitcase? I wouldn’t feel comfortable taking abdl diapers, in case that there’s a random baggage check; that’d be too humiliating, whereas incontinence diapers are okay I feel.

It’s ironic, right? For the same reason, I wouldn’t take my vibe with me when I am flying xD. I guess that people sort of expect that I have one? But still I don’t want them to know that I do. It’s sad that I will have to sleep without my shark plush for several days… but I will manage ! I can be a grown up for a few days, if I set my mind to it !

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Some time ago I wrote to you email, I don’t know if the email arrived at all and didn’t end up in spam, as usual ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I’m sorry, you’re talking about my coucherequin gmail address. I did attempt to answer all my messages some days ago, though the day after everything was back again. I wish that I was an octopus instead of a shark; able to work on many things at the same time.

I do appreciate the messages that I receive. I feel that I fail people for not being able to give a timely answer to all these messages ^^… Though, I make an exception for Asks, as I do my best to answer all of those (eventually). If you want me to answer something relatively urgently, you could always send me an Ask.

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Your posts, evenhanded, comprehensive, and patient responses distinguish you from many others partaking, following, or interested in this lifestyle. There is so much maturity, emotional intelligence, and broad acceptance in your responses. By sharing yourself, you add so much too many — whom I believe are struggling with acceptance of their unusual and uncommon predilections — that without you it would be just another wild fapfest.

Thank you for sending me this Ask! I don’t think that I deserve all the kind words, though let’s see about that ^^.

Edit: Ah sorry, there was an additional paragraph that I had originally written, which was apparently not saved. I will try to write it again.

I do expect myself to be emotionally mature, I think. I have much still to learn, but I am also not 18 any more. I hope that I can continue to learn and grow, as I grow older in chronological age. (Also, I hope that I can continue to look a little bit young in appearance xD…). I need to learn to better understand others, to better anticipate what they want when they say something, and to be a better overall friend or acquaintance to all who I know ^^. No matter how old I will become, I also hope that I can hold onto my precious littlespace. 

I’m afraid that I don’t feel that I can help others with their abdl acceptance issues. It never even occurred to me that what I do is strange. There was never a time that I wanted to stop wearing diapers. However, there were a few times when I wanted to stop sleeping with a plushie, because I felt that I was too old for one and it was embarrassing if I have guests over. Over time, I stopped thinking about this. I do feel it’s a little embarrassing that there’s a massive plushie in my bed, when I have guests over. So I do put the shark underneath my sheets. However, it’s not embarrassing enough to make me blush or feel genuinely bad. xD It’s strange, right? When I have guests over, I make sure to hide my vibe, but not the shark in my bed. In reality, no one would think it’s weird that I own a vibe or any kind of sex toy, whereas they may think it’s a little strange for me to own a huge plushie. Ah well. I will try to think of a more coherent answer to help others with ABDL acceptance. 

As for masturbation and pornography.. It’s a precarious balance. Without pictures of myself in diapers, I don’t think that I can attract people to subscribe to my blog. I would like you to read my theories, my thoughts, and I’d love to interact with as many likeminded individuals as possible. Am I attractive or ‘sexy’? Personally, I don’t think that I am. No one has ever directly told me that they’ve climaxed to my pictures. I’m unsure what to think about it. Nonetheless, even if people have climaxed to pictures of me, I hope that I have still inspired enough others to make this worth my time.

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What is(are) your favorite store or eshop for buying diapers, etc. and can you share your experience?

I buy diapers and abdl clothing from a webshop called ABDLfactory, they have another website called ab-dl-tb-shop, but this is the same shop/company. This shop sells a lot of different kinds of diapers and usually actually has their things in stock (not a given these days). There’s a shop called eurodl which I like because they sell bags of mixed diapers, which helps me to keep my photos a little bit varied.. Also I’ve bought abdl stuff from amazon, though they keep losing my packages and refunding me 3 months later so I can’t recommend that one xD.

Sending diapers by post over long distances is expensive, so you shouldn’t take my advice on any of this unless you happen to live in the Netherlands or in Belgium, because the shipping costs may be unreasonably high. It is better for you to find a shop that is active in your region. As for local shops… I have never seen a shop sell ABDL diapers, but I will happily go into the local baby store to buy bottles, cups, and other cute accessories for myself ^^. I hope that the shopkeepers will never find out that I am buying it for a BIG baby, namely MYSELF!

There’s a German webshop called saveexpress, which I still need to try. They seem to have a really big selection. I’ve always wondered what’s up with this shop. They seem to cater to incontinent people, but they also sell abdl diapers. I think that I would feel a little embarrassed to shop for incontinent supplies and baby-themed diapers in adult sizes… Realistically, though, incontinent people will quickly learn about the existence of ABDL, and they’ll just have to deal with. Maybe it is even encouraging or enabling to see young handsome women and men have fun wearing diapers, as a source of positive energy, instead of dreading it from start to finish. Nonetheless, I don’t want to bother anyone, so I will not specifically seek out people who are incontinent to ask them about this topic. ABDL can be seen as weird. To understand it, you need to read into a whole bunch of topics like safespace / littlespace, DDLG (caregiver dynamics), and diaper fetishism. My blog can’t provide the necessary information to understand ABDL, so it is best that I stay far away from a non-ABDL audience.

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Hiii sorry if this is weird lol but your content is so cozy and wholesome, it makes me feel really like, “safe”, is the best way I can describe it. I get stressed easily but it helps me feel all loosey goosey to read about your thoughts on littlespace stuff, or just things in general ^^

Thank you kindly for this message ❤❤️. At the top of my blog, it says that this is my “safespace” ^^. With that, I kinda intended to avoid getting negative messages, though it is also true in the other sense in that I try my best to show the fun and relaxation that I have in my littlespace !

Littlespace is my stress relief, I think. My work is kinda mega stressful, but I usually don’t feel stressed because there is a nice balance in my life of accomplishing stuff during the day and having a lot of fun in my free time, either with or without diapers ^^. It’s not only sexual fun, of course (which I try not to talk abour or show in my blog)… Littlespace is pure bliss for me when I am in my element. Sometimes I wish that I could be a baby forever.. but what my mind probably wants is to be babied for a day or two full-time by someone.

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Horny question, but would you ever let someone pee in your diaper, or use your diaper as their pail? (Like stuffing a balled up wet diap down the back of the one you’re wearing)

I’m a lil hesitant to answer hornii stuff, cus it’d probably lead to even more of such questions. I’m not oblivious to serving as fap material, but I’d rather not.

I’ve fantasized about a guy sticking his thing in the back of my diaper and flooding it… Also about being forcefully diapered into an already wet diaper (and locked into it with a chastity belt)… But these thoughts are too horni for my baby brain and I shouldn’t think about them >_< , I am a wittle bwaby and I am too young to do any of that!

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I wonder, have you ever did pee-fetish related things without a diaper ? If so, did you like it ?

Thank you for this Ask!

I’m not so sure about what you asked. I understand the commonalities between ageplay, diapers, desperation, and pee/omorashi. There’s stuff like omorashi omutsu which combines aspects of all of this. However, I don’t think that I would enjoy peeing myself while not wearing a diaper. I wear diapers to help me feel like a wittle bwaby

Others will experience ABDL in different ways. That’s fine. I hope that you can find out which aspects that you like most ^^. When I was first trying out diapers as a kid/teen, I didn’t have many of the “baby” luxuries that I have now. Consequently, I wasn’t sure what I was missing out on. It turns out that my inner desires are to be as real of a baby as possible. You see? It’s not about pee; it’s that I pretend to be incontinent while I’m in littlespace!

So, um… how bout them sharks?

My shark gets lots of love every day ^^, but judging from his facial expression I’m still not sure if he likes it!

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Your pics are all cute ofc, but I really like your style of writing and just how you put your thoughts into text. It’s really nice to read

Thank you kindly for the compliment ^^. For tumblr, I try my best to write in a way that seems kind, caring, and involved. I care about you, and I want you to grow and thrive. I’d love for you to wake up energized and full of motivation every day (and maybe wearing a diaper ^^). Ageplay recharges me so that I can handle another week of doing adult stuff. I’m already looking forward to when I’m going to sleep later today, cus I will wear a cloth diaper with a plastic pants, and sleep with my paci and my shark plush!

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I wish i could take sharkies place 😜

Are you sure about that, hun? ^^ He doesn’t get nicely treated by me, most of the time. He’s the best plushie that I ever had, because this shark is the ideal size and shape for an icky adult like me to sleep with. I’m around 1 meter 75 tall (I really wish I was smoller), while the shark is around 1 meter long. I should really add some new plushie filling to him, he has become quite flattened by sleeping with him so often… What do you think, huh?

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Hello ! Did your shark also wets the bed and need to wear diaper sometimes ?

The shark cannot wear diapers, he has a tail that gets in the way ^^. He spends the night in my arms, pressed against me ! The shark gets a lot of love, and I think that he gets photographed more than more other plush sharks

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On the scale of 1 to 10 of how cute you are, you’re definitely an 11

xD you’re saying that because I wear diapers. I’m kinda mediocre when I’m not wearing one. But it’s okay, I feel ‘complete’ when I am wearing a baby-themed diaper ^^, so cute and comfortable

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(A bit late) But congratulations on your PhD! That’s really impressive!!!

It’s been a long time since then, over a year ago ^^. Thank you, nonetheless. It’s increasingly strange to think back of this period in my life.

On the one hand, I contributed to various research projects, of which some have resulted in deliverables in the form of manuscripts. On the other hand, I devoted time to my own scientific development, technical skill, and my career. I feel more confident in myself, and I can tackle complex issues. Given that I already have some peer-reviewed publications to my name, it’s now up to me to either pursue an academic career, or leave academia to do something else entirely. Back in the beginning of 2020, I couldn’t really decide what I wanted to do, so I opted to try my chances as a postdoc. If it doesn’t work out, I can always ‘fall back’ to a non-academic job ^^, is what I thought.

Though, in the back of my mind I do think that contributing to research and development is ultimately more helpful to myself and to the world around me, versus a ‘regular’ production job. I don’t consider myself more or lesser than others, nor do I consider one job lesser than another. Notwithstanding, you’re reading this message because people in the past made all the necessary technological developments to make rich global communication attainable, possible and nowadays instantaneous. Whether you agree or disagree with me on this topic is completely moot and irrelevant when you daily enjoy the fruits of all the r&d happening around you XD.

So what will my future hold? If only I knew.

How would you react if a friend told you that he/she was curious about abdl and was trying out diapers?

It’d depend a lot how well I know this friend. There are certain friends who I would love to ageplay with, but also friends who I would rather not do something so personal and vulnerable with. There’s only a few of my friends who know that I am coucherequin…

It’s not the easiest topic to talk about, after all ^^;;

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if you’re gunna leave can you give us a heads up before you do? sad uwu

Don’t worry, I’m not an unreasonable person. When I said that I might leave in the future when people get too annoying to me, I might have been a little frustrated. I do love the attention that I get on tumblr, and I hope that I can make others happy with my pictures. It’s a balance, you see? I give and I take. Though, when I feel like I am giving much more than I can take, then tumblr would kinda be like a timesink.

I allow myself to watch YouTube videos or anime maximum 1 hour per day. All my other waking hours are spent either at work, doing my household, or working on my own projects (tumblr being one of them). With such a tight schedule, the things that I do will have to be worth it ^^.

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1. and 14.

1.) ⛺Are you scared of the dark?

Not of the dark, but I feel uncomfortable when my laptop is off 😭. I keep it switched on all the time, so that there’s a little bit of light and background noise in my room. Thereby, it also stays connected and I feel connected to the internet at all times. On my nightstand there’s also my phone, which is also always connected… Do you feel like this, too?

14.) 👑Do you ever feel bratty in Little space? If so, what do you do when you feel bratty?

Hm I hate this but when I am very sad, I drink a whole bottle of wine, wear a diaper, get really angry at myself for being so stupid/stubborn/annoying/whatever, cry my eyes out, pee myself, and fall asleep. I’ve only had to do this a few times, now. It does help, I feel. When I wake up again I feel like I can start over (after a shower XD).

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Are you going to wear diapers secretly around your fam during christmas

Hmm I thought about it, but probably not. For me, diapers are for ageplay, not really for casually wearing them as if I’m incontinent or something ^^;;. Though, I’ll probably bring my vibe with me to have some naughty ‘relaxing’ time in bed.

Also it’s kind of a pain to throw diapers away secretly at their home. It’d stress me out more than anything xD

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can you easily wet your dips? do you ever drink lots of water and pee lots?

I wouldn’t be able to wet my pants on command, but I can pee myself while wearing a diaper no problem ^^. It’s almost an instinct !

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Long-term Single here. There are definitely benefits to being single. I’ve gotten used to it, but I do miss cuddling and sharing time with someone. When I imagine cuddling you it’s the image of an adorable someone to cuddle that I like. 😊 I wouldn’t do anything Mr.Shark wouldn’t want! I’m a little scared of sharks 🙈

There’s a lot of benefits to being single. You don’t have to worry about your partner’s happiness, you don’t have to plan date nights out, or clean up after yourself. You don’t have to cook for two, or remember how your partner wants their eggs done. You don’t have to do anything, in particular. Though, you need to be a much stronger person when you’re by yourself, because there will be no one to take care of you when you need it most. Your friends are amazing, though they’re limited in how much they can help you; especially when they have a partner themselves.

You shouldn’t imagine cuddling me, though. It’d only lead to intense disappointment. I’m a random person you’ve seen pictures of on the internet. I don’t exist for real in your life. I am a real person, though, and I do exist in the lives of some people ^^. I try to be my happy self to my friends and family. And to some extent, my blog tries to make everyone happy.

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Hello there ! I just wanted to ask you : How do you feel about people pleasuring themselves while watching your posts ? They do exist, you surely know it, but does it make you uncomfortable ? Do you actually don’t care ? Or maybe you like this idea ? That’s for you to answer !

Hm well I dunno if people actually do this. I never show my face, so you’d be looking at only my thin frail diapered body. Is that okay? In any case, I don’t really mind. I hope that I can make others happy ^^, no matter how.

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How does sharky wear diapers with the tail in the way? 👀

He can’t wear diapers, unfortunately. I’ve seen people put a diaper on their teddybear and I think that’s really cute ^^. Fish can’t wear diapers. Even if they could, it would be weird. Instead of a fish, it’d be really really cute if I could put a diaper on someone cosplaying as Gura ^^. I have her outfit, so I could even dress you up as Gura before I diaper you!

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Do you ever wear diapers out of the house?

I prefer not to do this. I’ve done it a few times at anime conventions, where I wore a disposable diaper and a plastic pants under a cosplay dress, but that’s it. Diapers are for my ageplay. To go into my littlespace I need to be in the safety of my home, where there’s no danger and no worries ^^. In my home, I can do lots of baby stuff like wearing a onesie with soft thighhigh socks, hugging my big plushie, drinking milk from a bottle, and squirm around on my bed!

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You’re supposed to be learning how to keep your diaper dry! I think this calls for some spankings. 😜Not so fast mr. Shark, you’re up next for spankings. I know you encourage her!

xD I know that you are sending me this Ask in good faith, so I want to tell you a little background on what diapers now mean to me.

They’re absorbent undergarments, right? Worn by people who have trouble with incontinence. During my childhood, something must have triggered my fascination for diapers. I wet the bed as a kid until I was about 8 years old. Although I can’t remember the details of it, I did wear XS disposable incontinence diapers for it (tape-on, most likely). It’s likely that these events triggered my fascination for diapers. I’m unsure where my fascination for baby stuff comes from, but it is most likely linked to this period as well. I was also bullied in school during these ages.

I’m much older now and I enjoy wearing diapers for the purpose of ageplaying. Diapers are still items to me, but when I am wearing one they invoke a special kind of feeling. It’s an innocent thing that I do in my free time, in the comfort of my home. No one tells me to do it, and I don’t have to do it for health reasons. The desire sits on my mind, and grows the longer I don’t answer to it. I’m perfectly continent and healthy. Ageplaying is deeply relaxing to me. I try to reduce myself to an infantile mental age by wearing and using a diaper, wearing clothing that resemble baby clothes, sucking on a paci, drinking baby formulae from a bottle, hugging a plushie, watching cartoons. I’m not always successful at unwinding myself, but if everything sits right; I’m able to enter that warm bright fuzzy feeling. Although I’d rather keep this fully non-sexual… but my mind has associated these feelings with very strong sexual arousal. I postpone it as long as I can, but eventually my adult body takes over and I either use my fingers or a vibe to masturbate. The orgasms I have while wearing a diaper feel different from those without diapers. I’m not sure how to explain that. Every feeling is so intense, and it satisfies my desires much more. It’s like a spring that gets compressed to its smallest state, and is suddenly released.

I think it’d be cute to have you stand in the corner for awhile. You know, until you’ve wet your diaper pretty good.

xD you’re acting like I never wet my diapers. I’m so soaked each time I wear. My fish could almost swim in my diaper

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will we ever see a wetting video?

Probably not. My goal with this blog is to give you ideas and inspiration on how to explore your own little space, by showing you my relaxation and fun. You can fap to me if you like, but I don’t consider anything that I post to be porn per se.

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Betcha didn’t know this, but you’re an adorable baby :3

Am I adorable? xD I doubt it. I am good at pretending ^^

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What are some diaper brands you would recommend? What is the Brand you think that can hold the most?

There’s a few diapers that stand out for me right now. In particular I want to highlight the Bambino Cloudee, the Rearz princess Pink, Littleforbig Little Dreamers, and the Littleforbig Baby Cuties. These are all really good diapers for me in that they make me feel very little and helpless.

As for holding the most, I dunno. All of the ones I mentioned don’t leak on me even after 3 pees, and that is good enough for me ^^. By the third pee, my mind will have melted to that of a little baby, and my adult body is screaming at me that it needs its fun. My ageplay sessions don’t last all day ^^;;, usually around 4 hours, maybe 6 hours maximum. Do you do it for longer than 6 hours? Maybe if I had a parttime job, or more free days, I’d be able to relax more and give myself more time for my ageplay sessions.

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Beautiful person award! Once you are given this award you’re supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it’s sweet to know someone thinks you’re beautiful inside & out. 💕

xD thank you kindly for this message. Not to spam people’s askboxes, I think I’ll break the chain, but I am confident that the chain of messages can survive without me ^^

There’s something special about being called a beautiful person. 💕 it’s not about looks, it’s about being kind, right? If everyone could be kind, honest and genuine to one another, the world would be such a beautiful place. Let’s work on that, one person at a time. I will try my best to live by what I say.

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What is your favorite activity to do while feeling little?

Ageplay is one of the few times where I allow myself to be completely relax and watch cartoons, anime or do other silly happy things ^^. It’s like living out those free Sunday mornings again when you were a kid, but I’m wearing a diaper during that Sunday morning cus I used to be a bedwetter as a kid and maybe I’ve wet myself in my sleep ^^;; or something like that

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🤣 i live in America and can say we’re pretty much just McDonalds (fast food in general)

Nooo don’t say that. As far as I can tell, North American culture is very rich with landmarks, fauna, flora, unique local culture, and many other things. I understand that there’s a lot of stereotypical stuff like fast-food, big tech businesses and ugly unoriginal buildings and such, but I’m open-minded enough to look beyond those things ^^.

I’ve visited the USA once; I went to San Diego and although I stayed inside the city, I visited a lot of places. I attended a scientific conference at the SD convention center (same one where Comic con is held), I visited the SD zoo, the Natural history museum, the Fleet science center (there was an exhibition on Mythbusters with a lot of their originals props!!), and the USS Midway. Also while I was there I went to a few bars and restaurants ^^. It was super fun and I got to see a lot of interesting things. I can’t know for sure whether I will ever return to the USA, but I learned about some of its culture while I was there and now I can better empathize. 

Woah I just read the ask that said you made music. That’s pretty cool! Could we know where to find it? Also, I’m sorry if this is a personal question(please don’t answer it if it is!!), but where are you from? Your bio says that you’re currently staying in Belgium, but you don’t really look Belgian in your posts

Hello, thank you kindly for your Ask! I will try to answer it as much as I can ^^. I don’t mind personal questions.

Unfortunately I don’t want to link to my music from this blog, because the music is released under my real name ^^;;. I do the music for fun, though I wanted to associate it with my own identity.

I’m living in Belgium, but I’m Dutch. Almost the same, but still very different. In my pictures I tend to go for that Japanese otaku aesthetic, but it’s not who I really am. I dress more normally outside of this blog

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(I am sorry, Mrs. Kittycat, that we could not be together longer. I miss you every day. Rest in peace).

What diapers do you like to wear? I dont mind which brand but I wanted to know since im kinda new to this stuff (I sound so cringy…)

Ah oops, I’ve been a little inactive the last few days…

Thank you for your Ask, nonetheless. I’ve worn dozens of different diapers but nowadays I really prefer ABDL diapers like the Rearz Princess Pink, Littleforbig Baby Cuties, Little Dreamers, Bambino Cloudee, Rearz Lil Squirts Splash, etc. I’ve had some of my most intense orgasms in these diapers because they press all the right buttons for me in terms of ageplaying and being able to wet them.

Don’t feel intimidated by stuff for being ‘new’, though ^^. It’s all supposed to be for your enjoyment! I can have fun in regular incontinence diapers that don’t cost as much. I do keep a package of tena slip maxi/ultima in my closet for when I want to wear a simple diaper for a few hours. I’m not into pull-ups myself, but others do enjoy these a lot and they’re easy to get, as well. Occasionally I’ll put on a cloth diaper and wear it to bed, without wetting it. Wearing a cloth diaper with a plastic pants, sucking on a paci, wearing a cute pajama and sleeping with my shark plush makes me forget that I’m an adult !!!

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First of all, thank you for your nice blog and taking your time to answer our questions. Since you mentioned you like to watch animes. What are your 3 favorite animes? Have you watched Swort Art Online?

Thank you for sending me this Ask ^^. I’m glad that I am getting friendly and interesting questions. I tend to watch slice-of-life anime similar to Kobayashi’s Maidragon, New Game!, Girls’ Last Tour, and shows like that. They make way too many anime each season for me to sit down and tell you which one I liked so much I’d want to rewatch it xD. Why rewatch when there’s always something new to discover?

Sword art online is a very depressing and stressful anime, in my opinion. I watched the first episode and did not continue it.

Please send cookies.

xD I feel a little ashamed to say that I’ve never photographed a cookie before. I actually went to look into my photo archive, but could not find anything with cookies. I have occasionally photographed food, though. The pic below contains a Halloween-themed Éclair on top of a hand-painted boerenbont plate. xD I have such classic tableware

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What’s your 2nd favorite animal? Seems like sharks are your first 😋

I really like cats and keeping one as a pet. My late cat passed away in November 2019. It made me very sad to say goodbye, but it was in her best interest. After I moved to my new home, I tried to adopt a cat, but she got very ill immediately after I got her and I could not take proper care of her due to lack of time. I made the tough decision to give her back to the shelter, who found a new home for her with someone who did have enough time.

This leaves me without a cat right now. I would like to try again to adopt and house a cat as a pet. I feel that I will have to move again before I can properly house a cat. To move again, I will need a job with better long-term security, as my current job is fixed-term. It’s not that I can’t afford it, but there’s a clear difference between being able to afford something and making a well thought out decision.

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Have you thought about writing erotic abdl stories? And do you like painting your nails? If yes what color? I hope you have a great day

I have written abdl stories. They’re tagged under ’story’. You can see it here: https://coucherequin.tumblr.com/tagged/story (probably doesn’t work on the mobile app like most of tumblr x_x)

I do want to write more abdl-related stories, but I have trouble finding the time for it. I am a good writer, but it takes me time to get into the right mindset.

I bite my nails pretty badly and that makes them kinda ugly so I haven’t ever painted them. Thank you for wishing me a great day!

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I am planning on buying abdl diapers in a few days, and I would like to know : What diapers do you recommend the most ? I’m looking for something very comfy and absorbent

For ABDL diapers, I especially like the Rearz Princess Pink, Rearz lil squirts Splash, Littleforbig little dreamers, Littleforbig Baby cuties, the Bambino cloudee, and the Bambino Classico. You can see me wear these on my blog, though I’ll attach a picture of the classico and the princess pink. I don’t think that I could easily choose between any of these. I love wearing all of these diapers.

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What would be the first item (for your little space) you would get if money and space was of no concern? Anything goes: Babyish items, certain furniture, clothes, toys etc.

The thing that is missing from my littlespace that I would like to have most is a crib. You can tell from many of my pictures that I value my bed a lot when it comes to ageplaying. If I had a crib that I could sleep in every day, I think that I would be really really happy.

Though, I dunno if I would actually get a crib ever. I do try to weigh my ageplaying desires with keeping my home look kinda normal for when friends visit. A few plushies here and there is kinda strange but still cute. Childish pajamas same thing. However, once you get into obvious baby stuff like toys, a crib, a highchair, then it really becomes an inherent unavoidable part of your home. You wouldn’t leave your vibrator on your nightstand when your mom is coming over, either x_x.

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How did you get started in this community?

Thank you for this Ask !

Initially I was a lurker on adisc, and also a Dutch-speaking forum. Though, I don’t find forums very useful because I feel that it’s a too ‘sterile’ place void of personality. Maybe these characteristics are a side-effect of trying to make those places safe for its members, i.e. not creepy. I’m not saying that the people on forums are such, I am saying that these are limitations of the platforms.

xD If I sign up under ‘coucherequin’ for a forum or website nowadays and post a message, I get a few PMs asking if I want to chat. Out of respect of my own time, and out of convenience, you can interact with me publicly and privately on tumblr and I’ll answer whatever message you send me in my free time ^^. Though, I simply cannot reply to every “how r u” or every “what u up 2 today” message, as I’d be chatting inane nonsense all the time. I feel that chit-chat is for getting to know a person from a blank canvas. Seeing that I have typed out an insane amount of blog posts already, you can read any or all of my blog posts to gauge where my interests lie. From there, a meaningful, lively and especially fun conversation can follow.

Anyway, so I lurked on forums for a while, then I lurked on tumblr for a while. For reasons that I don’t remember, I started posting messages and pictures to tumblr, which caught on and here we are ^^. Me showing you my diapered bum, and trying to make you happy!

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Would you ever consider play dates in the future, or do you like keeping your in person little space to yourself?

I’m not sure what play dates are. You’re either talking about something similar to an actual date, a one night stand, or something like akin to ageplaying together for a day.

But I’ll assume this is really about ageplaying and not about any other possible meaning…

In that case, I really don’t know if I want to get involved in that sort of thing. I keep telling people in DMs that I’m a real person because I sometimes feel like I’m not being seen as one. I realize that I mostly publish pictures of myself to this blog, but I also try my best to let a personality shine through. It’s not only a diaper, it’s me wearing a diaper. I am telling you this because I feel that a ‘playdate’ centered around diapers or ageplaying would be exactly that. Where does my personality, my thoughts and feelings and intellect come in?

I can tell a boy to undress and lay down onto my bed. Take away all his manhood by tickling him and making him giggle. It’s you, you know? I’ll rub baby oil onto your skin, and apply powder to your crotch as you lay down onto a big baby diaper. You’ll get a dummy pushed into your mouth, and I’ll gently tape the diaper shut and tease you a little bit by slowly rubbing the front of the diaper. I’ll whisper sweet words into your ears, and prepare a bottle of formula for you. I’ll take my time to have you drink it slowly, as you lay against my chest. Afterwards, I’ll hug you tightly; one hand on your back and one on your head. I’ll kiss your forehead and tell you that you’ve done good, and that it’s naptime now. I’ll make you wear a onesie and also one of my cute pajamas! But before it’s time to sleep, I have one last present for you. My hand enters your pajama pants and firmly grabs the front of your diaper snugly. You must have wet yourself at some point, because your diaper feels a little swollen. Repeatedly my hand goes up and down; first slowly and gradually getting faster. I stick a dummy into your mouth again, and I interlock your hand with my other hand and hold onto you firmly. Your diaper is getting rubbed really intensely now. The wet padding is getting rubbed against your skin. You’re a good little boy, you know that? I whisper into your ear, telling you how proud I am of you. Excitingly you make an intense moan as you climax into your wet swollen diaper, you have your eyes shut. Oh oh you shot so much! Your diaper has absorbed all of your cum, so there is no cleanup to worry about. I give you one last kiss and wish you a good nap.

I realize that it’d be a dream come true if I were to do this with someone, or a nightmare, depending on who you ask XD…

But who am I in this? I don’t even know what I want xD

Are you able to have a relatively vanilla sex life or are diapers the dominant side of the sex you have?

xD that’s a very personal question.

I’d rather keep sex and diapers separate. Maybe it’d be nice to be diapered after sex to bliss out ^^ , but I’ve never done this. Who knows what will happen in the future!

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What do you think of cute collars? Do you have one or want one? Do you braid your hair?

You mean like pet collars? I don’t have any, and I’ve never thought about them.. What are they for?

I should learn how to braid my hair ^^;; It’d probably look a lot less messy

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What’s your favourite way to use wear, change fairly quickly or use it until it’s about to leak?

I wear one diaper innocently until it’s full. So weird, I didn’t know I leaked so much into it !! Then I will get aroused and help myself either with the shark plush, with a vibe or both ^^. Afterwards, I feel kinda done with ageplay and I go to have a half hour long shower and then sleep.

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Why are you so cute? And in a perfect world, would you wear a diaper under a wedding dress when you get married?

xD Why am I so cute? I wonder if I am actually cute. I wear adult diapers, and pretend that I’m a baby.

I wonder about that second question… I mentioned it before that a partner who isn´t okay with me wearing diapers will be shown the door by me. It´s a very selfish thing to say of me, but it´s probably for the better.

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This may be weird to ask, but how do you tape your diaper/what is the most comfortable way to tape your diaper in your opinion ? Because I really struggle doing that haha

I undress myself, put an unfolded and fluffed-up diaper on the floor, sit down onto the diaper, lay down onto my back, make sure that the front and back of the diaper are at equal height, then I first tape the bottom two tapes, then the top two tapes.

In the past I put the bottom tapes around my thighs, but I switched to putting them halfway the front of the diaper. I think that this leads to less leaks. The top tapes should go near the top of the front of the diaper!

When placing each second tape (of the bottom and top), I lift my bum and pull both sides together, so there’s a little tightness. If you’ve diapered yourself a few times, you’ll know where to play the first tape, to make sure that the diaper is perfectly centered on you ^^ !!

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How did the whole shark theme get started? Was it just because of the Blåhaj IKEA plush? Did you have an interest in sharks beforehand?

I don’t remember why I went with the shark theme. I remember laughing a lot at the blahaj memes, where those shark plushies are sitting by office tables having high-profile discussions, and other funny unexpected scenarios. I got myself a blahaj plush and I ended up loving it. It’s the perfect shape and size for me, for hugging it while sleeping (and for humping it, oops). Somehow, the shark theme also became popular in Japan, and it eventually led to the creation of Gawr Gura xD, who I now have the uniform of. What a strange time to be alive.

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You mentioned you were on holiday with a friend, but I see you are back now. Do you miss littletime even more when you are away from it for a while?!

Hm yeah I am back from my time off. I didn’t mention this cus I’m not some sort of celebrity xD. I’m back when I’m back, and I doubt anyone is bothered by my presence or absence. My holiday was spent together with a good friend, who slept over at my place. This meant that I continued to sleep with my shark throughout the time. Though, I wouldn’t want to (and didn’t) bother her with anything more than that. When my friend went home, I did diaper myself almost immediately oops. Am I addicted to ageplay? Who knows

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Do you use a pacifier or suck your thumb? I like to suck my thumb, either thumb. I love sucking my thumb in public and getting “caught”. Sometimes I like to wave with my fingers when I get caught.

I have a few adult-sized baby pacifiers. Some of them were given to me by a friend @cofftee , which I’m really grateful for! I’m not so into my thumb.. just reminds me that my hands are those of an adult xD. Sometimes I sleep with a dummy in, though I’ve never been able to wake up with one still in my mouth, they tend to fall out during sleep.

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Don’t be sorry about same type of photos. You’re an adorable baby shark

Hm well when I apologize, usually it’s because I tent to take very similar-looking pictures and I rarely make any sort of selection of them. When I take 100 pictures of myself for this blog, maybe I’ll throw away a few of them, but I’ll post the 90 other ones xD. So it happens quite often that some of them will look quite similar, cus they’ve been taken consecutively

Regardless of that, most of my pictures are taken in my bedroom or in my livingroom or kitchen, there is not much variation between different “photo shoots”.. The main difference would be in the diaper that I’m wearing, and the outfit that I chose to wear ^^. I try my best to vary the outfit and the diaper, but apart from that there’s not much variation between photos

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Have you ever had diaper leaks and are there diapers you recommend/don’t recommend for their leak protection ?

Hm well every diaper will leak if you wear it long enough, but probably you’re asking about unreasonable leaks like when you’ve barely used it..

The “rearz incontrol elite hybrid” leaked almost immediately on me. Also the “attends slip 9M” leak very quickly on me due to their poor thigh fit (it only has 1 tape on each time). The tena ultima slip can only take one pee and then they’re full, the cloth-backed Abena diapers (like m3 and m4) eventually let a little bit of pee through the fabric and into your clothing (do other cloth-backed diapers do this, too?). Cloth diapers are also only good for one pee, but that’s okay, you wouldn’t want to stay in a cloth diaper for a long time anyway

Hm what surprises me the most is that you can’t really be active when you’re wearing a diaper, without being uncomfortable or even leaking. I feel really bad for people who have to use diapers for their incontinence or other medical reasons (and I wouldn’t ever want to be incontinent myself). Please know that my tumblr blog isn’t a parody of your medical condition and I don’t wear diapers to make fun of anyone. I don’t do this out of bad faith or spirit ^^;;. I feel strongly attracted to wearing diapers, but the desire is gone for a while after I’ve worn one for a few hours. When I put on a diaper, I feel the strong urge to pee a little bit into it, because it gives me a big rush when I feel the wetness on my skin and then feeling the wetness disappear. Despite the weirdness, I don’t think that I am harming anyone when I’m publishing my pictures online. If you do feel that I should change something about my pictures, please tell me in a PM or in an (anonymous) Ask.

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You always appear to be quite reluctant when it comes to talking about “lewd” stuff. Why is that? Any specific reason, or just the wish for the blog to remain as sfw as possible?

Thank you for this Ask. It is a fair question, I am a lil reluctant to show lewd stuff. I’m not a porn blog and my pictures aren’t pornography.

This is my littlespace and how I relax in my free time. I am showing you pictures of it, in order to give you ideas to do the same ^^. I show you which diapers I like, ABDL outfits, cute pajamas, stuffers, skirts, plastic pants, cloth diapers, plushies, blankets, dummies, bottles, soft thighhigh socks, etc.

All those ABDL thingies are meaningless objects until they’re placed in a certain context. A sofa is but a seating area, until you start to associate it with relaxation movie time, family time and friends. A diaper is but an absorbent undergarment until you realize that you can wear it (by itself or together with other stuff) to feel relaxed or sexually aroused.

I don’t mind when someone faps to my pictures, though I’m not convinced that many do cus there’s so many others who are a lot cuter than me. I primarily hope that my pictures give you ideas to further explore your own littlespace!

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Have you ever worn a diaper under your cosplay costumes at conventions? Or are ABDL and cons two worlds you don’t wish to merge?

Maybe I have done that a few times °^°

Secretly, of course.

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How’d you get into Touhou? Cute Gura cosplay btw!

I was introduced to touhou several years ago by an online acquaintance. It was a coincidence / happy accident ^^. I liked the artwork, the music and the characters. Now, I have a few cosplays of touhou characters and the interest generally stuck around! If you ever visit Dutch, or Belgian anime conventions, the Touhou cosplayer might be me xD. And yeah now I also have a Gawr Gura cosplay that I’ll probably wear to anime conventions, too!

(but please don’t talk to random people asking about coucherequin , that’d be super weird)

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Love your style, you have the cutest jammies! Such a comfy blog✨💕🥰

Thank you for sending me this Ask and for complimenting me on my style <3. I’m really delighted to hear that you think my blog is comfy !!

Making others feel happy and more comfortable is a really good feeling. I’d wish happiness onto everyone, even those who hate me

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Is your hair color natural? It’s beautiful raven black.

It’s dyed hair. My own hair is brown. If you go back to my older pictures, you can see it ^^. But I’ll post two of those pictures here for you to see.

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In your fantasies, do you imagine having a mommy or a daddy? If so, which one of the two?

I honestly don’t know any more. I am a happy person, though simultaneously I don’t really see how anyone would ever like me in that way. I’m not sure if it’s a lack of trust on my behalf, too many previous dead-ends or just a general lack of interest for me to seek out a meaningful relationship. I know that the question didn’t come from a relationship POV, but I think that a mommy or a daddy often ends up becoming the partner in ABDL. Do you agree?

But you know. I made it a goal that my blog exists in part as a source of happiness to you. No matter the hardships we face, we have to find a way to be happy and be thankful for what we have ^^. Before you know it, it’s all gone.

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Magnets work because of something called virtual photons, these virtual photons pop into existence to deliver the forces of a magnetic field and then immediately pop back out of existence, photons are what are called excitations of the electro-magnetic field and this are the fundamental particles of that field(you may have heard of the Higgs boson giving things mass, no, interaction with the Higgs field gives things mass, crazy people at cern smashed things together so hard that the universe broke and made a higgs boson) but since we’re all just dumb babies the answer is magnets are cool

See? here is a good explanation of how magnets work °^° !!

In a superconducting MRI magnet, 50 kA worth of magical pixies are dancing around the coil and are making a BIG magnetic field.

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Thank you for sharing your passion for diapers. I think you are one of the few people who have enough courage to do this. You let others see a bit into your secret life and risk being identified and embarrassed. I can assure you that I do not intend to do that and I will protect your privacy. If I ask you a question, I will be happy to receive an answer, and if you do not want to answer me, I will accept it. (because of the limited size of this box I will send a additional question)

What did you mean, though? There’s lots of people on tumblr who share pictures of themselves wearing diapers. If I were to describe myself, I would say that I am maybe more involved in interacting with my readers and followers. I am a real person and I am very happy that others do see me as one. My Asks are always open and (occasionally with some delay) I will answer almost everything ^^

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Could you take some photos in pull-ups?

Well I could if I bought a pack of drynites, but I’m afraid that I’m not really into pull-ups. Probably, I will not take pictures of me wearing pull-ups any time soon. I agree that bedwetting pull-ups tend to have really cute designs. However, in my experience they tend to feel like thick underwear. The “I’m a helpless little baby peeing myself” feeling isn’t there when I’m wearing pull-ups. I think that it is also related to how easy pull-ups are to take off, whereas in a taped-on diaper you’re stuck in it until it is time to take it off.

I do look at other people’s ABDL pictures on tumblr and I do feel jealous of how cute they look in pull-ups. I think that I will stick to my BIG baby diapers with tapes for now, but who knows what will happen in the future 😊

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I’m pretty sure that you can find someone, to share your life with. You are really cute :3It’s definitely better than being lonely like me :(

You’re definitely right. The chances of me finding a partner are not zero. Maybe the inhibitor is myself, huh?

When the facts hit me, I do feel very desperate. I’m really sorry to hear that you also feel lonely. I try to think of positive things, of my friends and of my family. I chat a lot on Discord in various servers, I spend a lot of time in voicechat channels and I really try to engage with people in meaningful conversations that they remember. That’d also be my recommendation for you

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What is your opinion on second chances?

Thank you for this serious Ask!

Forgiveness is the best gift that you can give someone, in my opinion. You go to bed tired, with a headache, grumpy, upset, and you wake up fresh and full of energy ready to take on another day. Your body gives you new chances all the time. You wouldn’t like it if the bruise on your arm didn’t heal. Make the right choice; give others another chance. 

Poor sharky. He looks like he had a hard life. 😜 Do you think about changing sharky out with a guy or girl in the future?

Thank you for this Ask! Please do send me an Ask when you want to contribute something. 

I dunno if anyone would like me. I just have no idea how to start a serious relationship with someone. I’m quite socially awkward. It seems that I am good at writing blog posts and appearing socially well-adapted on the surface, giving the false impression that I am like that always. I’ve had relationships in the past but no one stuck around. I’m 30 now, so it’s about time I settle down with a long-term relationship or else potentially face long-term loneliness ^^;;. 

I FINALLY FOUND YOUR BLOG AGAIN!! I adore your content 🥺💜

Thank you very much for sending me this positive message <3

Can I actually ask? How do people find my tumblr blog? Is it because you see my pictures being reblogged by curators? Am I being discussed on other websites? All these years that I’ve been posting to tumblr, I really have no clue what happens after I click ’Post now’.

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Do you cum harder when you wear diapers and with sharky between you legs, than without the two?

This is private between my shark and me ^^

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Do you think diapers will play a part in any future relationship(s) you have? Or if they are vanilla would you try to hide it until the right moment to tell them

I’ll probably be a lil closed-minded bitch and show anyone who isn’t okay with my diapers the door :/. You don’t need to diaper me if you don’t want to, but it’s part of my life and it’s not going away just because you think that it’s weird.

The biggest question that I have for myself is whether I would continue with my tumblr blog, if someone is eventually crazy enough to be my partner. Would that be okay?

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Hiii!! What’s your favorite genre of music, an do you have a favorite artist, band, or song??

I like listening to piano music when I want to feel at ease. My fav artist is Ludovico Einaudi, when it comes to piano music. I do listen to all sorts of other music. I am a big fan of Nightwish. But I also listen to a lot of Touhou music ^^. If you don’t know what Touhou means in this context, then I can strongly recommend it !!

You have mentioned occasional ageplay with others. Do you find you enjoy that more than solo ageplay? I have tried it, and I find it never synchs up well. Maybe our lottle ages are too far off, or we just play different. Never satisfying unless one partner stays in a parent role.

I can’t answer this in detail. The few times I did this, it was kinda awkward. I’ll probably try it again if there’s an opportunity, but maybe it will be just as awkward :/ 

Comment more than an ask: I appreciate your comments on the problems of incontinence. I have been AB/DL for decades, but a mild spinal injury combined with age has left me with moderate incontinence issues. VERY difficult, and I don’t mind diapers. I cannot even imagine full incontinence, especially for someone outside the community.

Thank you for this serious Ask. I want to write a more elaborate answer this time, because I have a few minutes to spare.

I’m 30 years old right now, and I’ve been using the internet since I was around 12. I mention this because as a teenager I found the internet fascinating. In those years, forums were much more commonly used compared to right now (as opposed to new websites like Yahoo Answers, Quora, or even Discord). I looked up so many topics and keywords, sometimes just to see what was written on it. Occasionally I combined keywords like “diapers”, “masturbation”, “fingering”, “fapping”, “bedwetting”, and “incontinence”, (or the Dutch equivalent of those terms) just to see what was written about it on various forums. I thought it was questionable and kinda appalling to see that there was clear sexual roleplay (or roleplay soliciting) going on at forums involving incontinence, secondary school education, and magazines for teenagers. The roleplay soliciting usually involved some form of description involving “I was forced to wear diapers by my mom for bedwetting, but I ended up really liking it, is this normal, what should I do??” There is a slim chance that some of these messages were genuine. Though, especially now that I’m a little bit older, I suspect that these messages were most likely written by horny adults. Don’t get me wrong; there’s nothing wrong with being a horny adult among other horny adults XD. Stories can be a big turn-on, and there are dedicated platforms for exchanging erotic (ABDL) stories and for roleplaying. However, typing out horny (ABDL) messages on support forums for teenagers, bedwetting, or for incontinence is unacceptable, in my opinion. The former is problematic due to the presence of minors. The latter two is (in my opinion) problematic because it confronts people who have a medical issue with the fact that others enjoy diapers for non-medical reasons. Although that latter part is not bad per se, I suspect that it’s in the best interest of everyone that ABDL only minimally interacts with the bedwetting/incontinence people, to avoid any conflict. The reason that I have this opinion is that I would most likely not want to interact with anyone who has an amputee fetish, if my leg is amputated for medical reasons. 

Going back to the original point on incontinence; I want to be supportive when needed and otherwise not mention it. I suspect that adults who become incontinent probably at some point find out that ABDL is a real thing. It’s then their choice to read into it, or ignore it. I would not want to be incontinent, I would not wish incontinence onto anyone else. ABDL and incontinence can co-exist without ever interacting. Nowadays, the existence of ABDL-themed diapers underlines my opinion about this. How I understood it, incontinent folks prefer fabric-backed diapers. Plastic-backed diapers are mostly a fetish thing. So, the existence of ABDL-themed (plastic backed) diapers (to me) means that ABDL and incontinence has diverged their separate ways and are not reliant on one another. If a cure-all for incontinence was discovered tomorrow, and incontinence-oriented diapers would disappear, then ABDL would not necessarily be affected by this. If ABDL were to disappear, then incontinence-oriented diapers would also not be affected. Likewise, the design decisions in either only minimally affect one another. When it comes to AB stuff like onesies, adult pacis, I suspect that there’s even less interaction with the non-ABDL side as these products are uniquely made for ABDL. 

All in all, it’s my opinion that I shouldn’t purposely interact with non-ABDL incontinence folks, because I don’t wish to bother others. My ABDL blog should not interact with minors at all (and I don’t, AFAIK). If my presence on tumblr would bother others, then I should change the way that I write my posts. Right now, I think I’m doing okay in that my followers specifically follow me because they want to see my ABDL-themed pictures. Before I contact someone (on tumblr), I do check if they have 18+ in their description. That’s the least I can do

How much Money do you spend on diapers, onesies etc. per month? I find it really hard to justify spending money for things like that (and things that are solely for pleasure in general) since I don’t make that much in the first place… So I thought you might be able to share a little bit of life experience with the younger adults that follow you :)

I’ve learned to take “I don’t make that much” with a grain of salt. Especially when I see other people using crazy expensive phones and laptops. But anyway, what people actually mean when they say that phrase is that they don’t want to spend a lot of money on the topic that they were discussing. It’s perfectly understandable that someone has a 1500€ telephone, but thinks that the €2 dishwash soap is expensive. In reality, that’s absurd, but in human psychology I guess it makes sense. Money is a weird thing, you know. Some people will spend all their lives chasing it, and others spend all their lives swimming in it. If you think too much about it, maybe you’ll turn into a scrooge !

What I’m getting at is that ageplay is important to me. I don’t mind spending money on the things that I enjoy. I’m not going to use numbers to indicate what I spend on my little side. Instead, let’s say that I tend to use around 4-10 diapers per month, and my AB clothing (onesies, cloth diapers, plastic pants) are maybe 5% of my total wardrobe ^^. That last part, I do cheat a little bit. I tend to look for clothing that I can wear casually but are still kinda childish, and every soft pajama is an AB outfit to me. 

My advice is to prioritize, anyway. Life necessities go first; housing, food, your health, travel (to see family and friends), internet connectivity. Fun things should take second place to necessities. If I had less money available for abdl, I would probably only use cloth diapers instead of disposable ones.  

Hm yeah, as a side note, make sure that you’re an adult if you do follow me on tumblr. I don’t check who follows me, but it’s best that minors don’t interact with me. I’m not a pornblog, and technically I’m SFW, but I do tend to discuss 18+ topics occasionally. 

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If you could, would you like to be able to age play 24/7 or at least more often than not?

No, I wouldn’t like to wear diapers all the time. I really don’t want to anger anyone who is incontinent with what I’m about to write. I genuinely feel sorry for incontinent people, and I hope that they can find ways to improve their situation. I pray for their recovery in the long term.

Diapers are very inconvenient when you’re commuting, working a (semi-) active job and doing stuff around the house like hoovering or doing the dishes. My own work is semi-active in that I do a lot of walking, getting up from one place and sitting down at another, etc. Unfortunately it does make me sweat a lot during the day. I can understand that people want to extrapolate the brief moments of fun that they have with diapers to a whole day, and maybe for others this does work out. For me, it just wouldn’t be practical ^^…

That said, I would definitely like to ageplay a little bit more often. When I’m particularly busy, sometimes I could go 3-4 weeks without ageplay. If I had a little bit more control over this, I would like to have less working hours during the week, so that I can relax a bit more. Then I would definitely ageplay on a weekly basis ^^, and maybe I would even be able to take pictures every week! Right now, I don’t take pictures during every ageplay session. Sometimes, I run out of new pictures xD

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Does your shark have a name little one?

He doesn’t have a name at all, unfortunately. I do think it’s a him. He hugs me every night, and we’re a really close couple. Sometimes we do lewd things together and he makes me have an orgasm in my diaper 😳

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