Hello, it seems that there’s a lot of messages always piling up in my DMs, which I take forever to answer. I’m really sorry about this. I do try to answer everything, eventually. If you want a quicker interaction, that also usually gives a longer answer, you can send me an ASK. Either that, or you can ask for my discord handle (if we know each other well enough) ^^. 🦈🦈🦈
Thank you for this Ask. I’m afraid that I cannot help you very well with this question, as I’m not that experienced with relationships. (I have only been in a relationship for a few years, and currently I am not). The best advice I could give you is to always try and give more than you take. In this context, it’d mean that you have to set up the situation in such a way that you’re giving your partner the incentive to ask you about your fetish, rather than it being the other way around.
Thinking back of my ex… Telling her about ageplay was kinda like that. I carefully and kindly asked her if there was a deeply hidden fetish that she’d love to do with me. I failed a number of times, as she felt too embarrassed to tell me about it. The hesitation comes from a fear of nonacceptance, I think. It’d help if there is already a deep level of trust between you two. After a few times, maybe because the mood was just right, and promising that I’d never tell anyone, she told me what it was. It was intriguing to me, and we talked with genuine interest about it for hours. Naturally, it followed that she also asked the question to me. As a mutual tease, I pretended that I wouldn’t be able to tell her, because it is too embarrassing ^^… Of course I did tell her that I was into ageplay. It was always my intention to do so. She hadn’t heard of it before. Consequently, we talked about it all night. The next time that we were both really horny, I asked her if I could participate in the fetish that she told me about. What followed was a really stimulating evening for her and maybe her most intense orgasm ever. I didn’t mind doing it, as I was mostly happy to see her be so super horny. As time went on, she asked me the same question and we alternated between these things. Giving and taking; always give more than you take ^^.
16.) 🚀Other than stuffies, what other Little toys do you have? Cars? Tea Set? Red Wagon?
One day I’ll have my nursery room, with my own crib and all the other baby thingies that my heart desires. For now, my ‘crib’ is my bed, my diapers, onesies, soft fleece socks, pajamas, my shark plush and fleece blankets. I have several adult dummies, and several baby bottles to drink from. In terms of toys, I don’t have anything in my own home, unfortunately. I used to play a lot with legos, building and rebuilding the same few boxes that I had. I do still have the legos, though they’re in my old room at my parents’ home. (XD also I think all the kits got mixed up into one big box… oops. Good luck following the instructions now!)
20.) 🍼Do you drink milk? What kind?
I like drinking chocolate milk, both from a regular drinking glass, as well as from a baby bottle. I also like drinking infant formulae, specifically from a bottle. I’ve never drank formulae from a glass, before (😂). Formulae makes me feel very little. It tastes different from milk, and when you first taste it (as an adult), it can even be a little off-putting. I do recommend that others who are into littlespace give a bottle and formulae a chance. I realize that formulae comes in huge packages (usually 800 g), enough to make 6 liters of formulae… I’m not a full-time baby, but I’m still a really big baby. I make myself 3 or 4 bottles of formulae, so my tummy feels all warm and fuzzy ^^. It’s a lot of milk, and I kinda feel sleepy afterwards. In my ultimate caretaker-baby fantasies, I’d be bottle-fed several times throughout the day !!
xD I don’t fully understand this post, but it sounds like something good happened to you.
You know, what if we’re not actually self-conscious, but more like self-preserving? We protect our bodies instinctively, and when we grow up to become an ‘adult’, we also protect our ego and our arbitrarily-chosen habits and opinions. Do you truly have free thought if your opinions and habits became yours for reasons that you can’t even remember? Why do we even protect our opinions and habits? Are those opinions/habits defining us? If enough of your opinions and memories change, are we still the same person?
If I gave up diapers for good, and threw away my shark plush and all the ABDL stuff that I have, would I still be coucherequin?
I’ve only ever worn Attends m8, the ones with only 1 tape per side, and I didn’t like those. Afterwards, I didn’t try other diapers from Attends. Maybe I will, in the future ^^
In terms of incontinence diapers, I like the Abena M3/M4, the bright blue Forma-care X-plus, Betterdry, the pastel-blue Molicare maxi slip, and the Seguna comfort slip maxi. These were all really fun to wear, and I hope that I get to wear them again!
Also.. What would you do if your body looked like mine?
I prefer not to do this. I’ve done it a few times at anime conventions, where I wore a disposable diaper and a plastic pants under a cosplay dress, but that’s it. Diapers are for my ageplay. To go into my littlespace I need to be in the safety of my home, where there’s no danger and no worries ^^. In my home, I can do lots of baby stuff like wearing a onesie with soft thighhigh socks, hugging my big plushie, drinking milk from a bottle, and squirm around on my bed!
xD I know that you are sending me this Ask in good faith, so I want to tell you a little background on what diapers now mean to me.
They’re absorbent undergarments, right? Worn by people who have trouble with incontinence. During my childhood, something must have triggered my fascination for diapers. I wet the bed as a kid until I was about 8 years old. Although I can’t remember the details of it, I did wear XS disposable incontinence diapers for it (tape-on, most likely). It’s likely that these events triggered my fascination for diapers. I’m unsure where my fascination for baby stuff comes from, but it is most likely linked to this period as well. I was also bullied in school during these ages.
I’m much older now and I enjoy wearing diapers for the purpose of ageplaying. Diapers are still items to me, but when I am wearing one they invoke a special kind of feeling. It’s an innocent thing that I do in my free time, in the comfort of my home. No one tells me to do it, and I don’t have to do it for health reasons. The desire sits on my mind, and grows the longer I don’t answer to it. I’m perfectly continent and healthy. Ageplaying is deeply relaxing to me. I try to reduce myself to an infantile mental age by wearing and using a diaper, wearing clothing that resemble baby clothes, sucking on a paci, drinking baby formulae from a bottle, hugging a plushie, watching cartoons. I’m not always successful at unwinding myself, but if everything sits right; I’m able to enter that warm bright fuzzy feeling. Although I’d rather keep this fully non-sexual… but my mind has associated these feelings with very strong sexual arousal. I postpone it as long as I can, but eventually my adult body takes over and I either use my fingers or a vibe to masturbate. The orgasms I have while wearing a diaper feel different from those without diapers. I’m not sure how to explain that. Every feeling is so intense, and it satisfies my desires much more. It’s like a spring that gets compressed to its smallest state, and is suddenly released.
This is a short post concerning PMs. I accept all PMs and Asks on this blog. I have never blocked anyone. However, please be kind to me ^^;;. I don’t know what to think or say when I get pictures of dicks or pictures of just a diapered crotch, or any picture of you at all. In addition, I don’t know what to respond when I get a message saying “how are you”, “how was your day” or any variant on that question, so I can’t reply to that. Thank you for your understanding… Hopefully we can have a lot of fun!