If you could choose to have a secondary form of human appearance (you can choose every trait you can think of: sex, age, height, bodyshape etc.) that you can switch back and forth from whenever you choose to, what would you look like and why?

A secondary form of appearance..? You even specified human, so I cannot say shark. I would eat so many people alive xD

I dunno. I’m generally quite happy with my body’s appearance. Due to my personality and also my career, I value my intelligence and abilities a lot more than my physical appearance. I may be a young investigator, but I am an author/ co-author on 10 peer-reviewed scientific articles right now. It may not be apparent what that means to you, but let’s say that my career is seemingly having a useful output. Both looks and intelligence will eventually fade away, and both these attributes can result in new content. I would not argue one is more important than the other, but I personally value intellectual and especially scientific output to be more valuable than content produced from appearances.

In a way, ‘coucherequin’ is my secondary form; like a persona. Of course, coucherequin is real, i.e. it’s me. Ageplay is something that I enter and exit, like what you described. That doesn’t answer your Ask, though. I doubt that I would want to temporarily shift into a different age, if that would involve me losing part of my mind. Though, I think that I’d look cuter if I could shift into a smaller version of myself ^^. My Dutch heritage made me a little tall. Through the magic of photography, I try to make myself look smaller and cuter than what I am. (Though I don’t edit my pictures with photoshop or anything like that). If I was able to become the smoller and cuter version of myself for real, this would all be a lot easier!!

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Have you ever had diaper leaks and are there diapers you recommend/don’t recommend for their leak protection ?

Hm well every diaper will leak if you wear it long enough, but probably you’re asking about unreasonable leaks like when you’ve barely used it..

The “rearz incontrol elite hybrid” leaked almost immediately on me. Also the “attends slip 9M” leak very quickly on me due to their poor thigh fit (it only has 1 tape on each time). The tena ultima slip can only take one pee and then they’re full, the cloth-backed Abena diapers (like m3 and m4) eventually let a little bit of pee through the fabric and into your clothing (do other cloth-backed diapers do this, too?). Cloth diapers are also only good for one pee, but that’s okay, you wouldn’t want to stay in a cloth diaper for a long time anyway

Hm what surprises me the most is that you can’t really be active when you’re wearing a diaper, without being uncomfortable or even leaking. I feel really bad for people who have to use diapers for their incontinence or other medical reasons (and I wouldn’t ever want to be incontinent myself). Please know that my tumblr blog isn’t a parody of your medical condition and I don’t wear diapers to make fun of anyone. I don’t do this out of bad faith or spirit ^^;;. I feel strongly attracted to wearing diapers, but the desire is gone for a while after I’ve worn one for a few hours. When I put on a diaper, I feel the strong urge to pee a little bit into it, because it gives me a big rush when I feel the wetness on my skin and then feeling the wetness disappear. Despite the weirdness, I don’t think that I am harming anyone when I’m publishing my pictures online. If you do feel that I should change something about my pictures, please tell me in a PM or in an (anonymous) Ask.

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captainfishy1: coucherequin: See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife You look great in that diaper! Hm yeah I know. I really loved that diaper. It fit my body so well ^^ It’s called a Bambino Bianco. You … Continue reading

Have you ever told anyone you know that you enjoy wearing diapers? If so, how did they react?

Yes, there’s a few friends who know that I like ageplaying and some of them have seen my pictures or even my tumblr blog ^^

You know, ultimately ageplay is quite an innocent thing. You wear a diaper, use a dummy and a bottle, hug a stuffed animal, watch cartoons, wear cute clothing. You’re not hurting anyone, you’re not hurting yourself. You may find that some people think that using diapers is gross (even #1), but that is the only real criticism that I’ve heard over the years. Maybe it is a little strange at first, but I doubt that any good friend would think that it’s a big deal.

What is important is to know boundaries when it comes to friends. They don’t necessarily need to know your kinks nor the details of your kinks. Ageplay may not fully be a kink, but please treat is as one when talking about it with others. It’s not a topic that you talk about with someone who doesn’t know you very well

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What countries have you traveled to?

Most of my answer will be about the pre-covid world. Typing that is so freaking sad.

I’m not a big traveler. Still, I’ve been to lots of European countries. Netherlands (where I used to live), Belgium (where I live now), France (Paris, Normandy), Germany (München, North Rhine-Westphalia), Switzerland (Geneva), Austria (Innsbrück), Italy (Milan, Venice), England (London, Land’s End), Scotland (Glasgow), Sweden (Stockholm), USA (San Diego).

Hm relevant to this blog.. I’ve only really ageplayed in the Netherelands and in Belgium. Usually I don’t take any ageplaying stuff with me when I go on holiday. Do you take diapers with you when you’re on holiday? 

For pictures, it’d probably be a lot more interesting if I took diapers and AB clothing with me when I’m traveling, but it’d really be just for the pictures and not for my own enjoyment x_x. I also don’t take my shark with me when I’m on holiday.

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Did you have a good birthday???

Hello, thank you for sending me this Ask! My birthday was a few days ago on the 3rd of January.. Yes, I had a really good time ^^.  Maybe you saw that I got myself a box full of diapers and abdl stuff? But more importantly, I got to see my parents and sisters which I think is more important than anything else. 

Let’s see what this year will bring, huh? I’ll probably be wearing diapers every weekend, taking pictures of myself and exposing myself on tumblr ^^;;. Hopefully, I can continue making people happy with my ageplay sessions. 

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Are you a creative or a logical thinker? Do you think either one of those is better than the other?

Hm well I guess I’d be a logical thinker. Photography and making music is probably a creative process, but I think I’m approaching both in a logical way. I kind of assume that the people who claim they’re creative thinkers unknowingly are applying the same tricks and ground rules to (for instance) photography as those who learn about it in a logical way. If that makes sense? But don’t take this as a truth, I could be completely wrong ^^;;

I do wonder whether all my photo effort is appreciated? Are my blog posts liked because of how well the pictures are taken, or because of my body? … Maybe I shouldn’t be surprised if it was only the second option, though it’s difficult for me to believe

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Avent bottles are on of my all time favorites. Do you ever drink milk or formula on your bottle. Can we see a pic please :)

Yes, I agree. (also I answered this exact ask a few days ago, didn’t I?) The Avent bottles are better than random-brand bottles ^^. I do have two other random-brand bottles and I wouldn’t prefer them. The teat on the Avent is quite big, and the bottle itself fits nicely in my hand and even makes my hands feel smol because it’s a thick&short bottle (and not thin & long like adult water bottles). 

I do drink formula from my bottle sometimes ^^, or tea. I don’t think I’ve ever taken a picture of myself while drinking from a bottle. I’ll try to take a picture of that next time I ageplay. 

(also little fun fact. the camera I’m holding in the picture below, together with the lens and the flash, weigh around 1.4kg together, or 3.1 pounds.. When I’m taking these selfies, I’m holding the weight with 3 fingers xD.. I’m one of those people who never uses a camera strap)

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I hope you are doing well Little Requin!! I love your content and I hope you have a wonderful amazing weekend and week!! Take care my fellow uwu hooman!!

Thank you for sending me this Ask! I am doing well ^^. Thank you for saying that you like my contents, it makes me happy to hear that. I hope my pictures make people feel warm and fuzzy and I hope it gives you inspiration on cute-looking diapers and how to melt into your ageplay

Like when you’re wearing a cute-looking pyjama, but you’re also wearing a really thick diaper (like the Bambino Bianco) underneath  : 

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How many languages do you know? I don’t mean just fluent. I think I’ve seen you speak French and some Japanese. You are very linguistically talented!

Thank you for this Ask ^^. I mentioned it to you in chat before, your avatar looks a bit like a shark jumping out of the water with its mouth open, if you look at it from far away xD. But it’s not, it’s a planet with dust rings

Well I only really speak English and Dutch. And Limburgs, if you consider that a language. My friend helps me with French, whenever I need to write something in French. I’ve never used Japanese, maybe you’ve seen it in a reblog. Most of my blog is composed of my own-written messages, but I’ll occasionally reblog a message from someone else, especially if it’s art ^^. Though the diapered person is always me. I wouldn’t say that I’m linguistically talented. Some people tell me that I tend to talk the way that people write, when I’m speaking English. So what they perhaps mean is that it’s not very natural-sounding? Who knows. 

This is me wearing a bambino bianco, a very fun diaper:

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Do you like the idea that people fap over your pictures 😔

Well not particularly. For me, that’s not something which I would be proud of. But I can’t know whether my pictures are suitable for that. Regardless, I can’t tell people not to do that. I’m just showing you into my little world filled with diapers, sharks and costumes ^^

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Do you have trouble fastening the tapes on the front of your diapers? I know it varies with different kinds, but sometimes I can’t get them all the way around to the front. They end up closer to the sides. For the record, my butt is kind of huge so that must be part of the problem.

It’s a lil unfortunate that ‘small’ sized diapers are really small whereas ‘medium’ size is quite large (at least on me). I think this is what you’re referring to? I think the tapes aren’t supposed to be all the way to the front, but should really be more towards the sides for a nice fit. On the two pictures below, you can see that the top tapes on my diaper are all the way to the front. 

What I’ve noticed is that some people paste the bottom-tapes also on the front of the diaper. I don’t know how you’re supposed to put them, but I tend to fasten them in such a way that the diaper is tight around my thighs, if that makes sense? My thighs are kinda big so the diaper never quite sits flat on that part of me. It’s also usually where it leaks on me. 

applying a little bit of clear packaging tape makes the diaper fit more tightly and I like that feeling. Also it makes it impossible to take off the diaper without scissors so I’m stuck in it x_x. Hope this answer is helpful somehow

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coucherequin: See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife Very thicc diapers !!

Focus on the pictures you want to create. Don’t hesitate to experiment but if you do something and feel “nope this is not my thing” then don’t force yourself to do that thing again just because you think it would generate more followers or something like that.

Yeah of course ^^, I wouldn’t take pictures of scenarios just for the enjoyment of someone else. I’m not sure why I take these pictures, but all the pictures on this blog (which are labelled with ‘me’) were taken by me in unforced situations. No one tells me to take these pictures, no one pays me for these pictures, and I wouldn’t do something that I don’t want to do. Don’t worry!

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I dont know. Diapered French maid is a lot cuter than any other version 😋😊

Looks fun, doesn’t it? ^^ I love being a cute maid

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What do you think your favorite diaper is? Also what is your least favorite?

My favourite diapers right now are the Bambino Cloudee. And my second ones would be the Rearz Princess Pink. Both of these are super big and thick and fit me really well! The reason I like some diapers more than others is mainly due to how I feel about wearing them. When a diaper makes me feel like a little kid (or a baby/toddler) then my mind can really melt away and feel relaxed. This is most important for me about a diaper. If I can pee a few times in a diaper without it feeling weird or bulky (or leaking) then that’s a big advantage. The feeling is really reaffirmed when I can have a big and long orgasm in a diaper, but that’s just my adult body demanding attention from me ^^;;.  There’s many diapers that I like wearing. Browse my blog (and look at the older posts) to get an idea of the diapers that I really enjoy wearing!

As for my least favourite diaper, I’m not so sure. There’s one thin blue hospital-like diaper (not forma-care) that I really don’t like; but I don’t know its brand. I received a few of them once in a sample bundle but they were just unusable as an adult diaper. I’m not fond of the 2-tape Attends M9 because they just have a horrible fit around my thighs (partially because it’s only 2 tapes, so 1 tape per side). I would never buy a 2-taped diaper again. I’m also not that fond of abena’s cloth diapers cus they just end up leaking straight through the fabric and into your clothing. I’m really not sure what the deal is with that kinda cloth-like material. Any sort of pull-up or weird waist-band “wing” diaper is not fun for me; it doesn’t feel babyish for me. Therefore I also wouldn’t wear teen pull-up diapers like drynites/goodnites any more: they’re just too small and too thin and they feel like a bad excuse for a diaper. I want to feel like I’m wearing a BIG diaper, so the proportions of the diaper’s size to my body size imply that I am in fact a baby °^°

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I’d sell my soul to get a video of you wetting your dip

I think you’re joking but you shouldn’t say stuff like that ^^, a video of me peeing a diaper isn’t going to be very good. I can barely take interesting pictures, let alone videos. There’s lots and lots of really fun and good-looking people who are into wearing diapers on tumblr ^^. I can’t name anyone specifically, because I don’t want to single-out certain people and not mention others. But trust me, there’s lots of people that don’t only take better pictures than I do, they also themselves look a lot better and cuter

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Do you have a significant other?

I’m single, if that’s what you’re asking. I share my bed with a plushie (and my cat, if she feels like it). It’s sad, isn’t it? Or maybe it’s liberating. Who knows

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Very cute blog! Do you ever wear pull-ups? Would love to see you in those!

Thank you for this ask! °^°

I’m kinda puzzled. When I browse ABDL rebloggers, I see a ton of guys and girls wearing pull-up diapers. When it’s children’s pull-ups, they’re so tight it just kinda looks like a joke to me xD, like they’ve lost a bet with a friend. When it’s adult pull-ups, it really doesn’t look cute to me at all, and just reminds me of handicap . And the waist band has to be really big, too..

Let’s just say I’m not into pull-ups and prefer to wear real tape-based diapers. And then still, I need at least 4 tapes on my diapers. Diapers with 2 tapes (like Attends slip active M10) have a really bad fit on me.

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another +1 for a video. You don’t have to show anything more than you would in a picture

thanks for the support ^^, I’ll have another think about whether or not I can do videos.. Cus what I do struggle with is what I’d want to convey across a video. When I take a picture, I try to convey that I’m having fun and I’m relaxed. that allows for a lot of laying down. but seeing a person motionless in bed in a video is kinda boring, right? I would not want to convey sexual stuff in videos

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Hello. I love your blog! What’s your favorite diaper? I see a lot of Tenas in your pictures. I love those! Feel free to give me a follow back :)

Hii ^^ thank you for this ask! I’ve worn lots of different diapers, so it is difficult for me to choose. Some of the ones I liked best are the Bambino Bellissimo, the Bambino Bianco, but also lots of others like the Drylife super, or Molicare maxi slip.. Can you comment with your favs?

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Where did you get that maids outfit? Its so cute!!!

I think I got it on ebay.. just search for maid uniform or something similar to that ^^, there’s lots of them

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idistinguishedtidalwavebouquetus: coucherequin: See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife Cutest diaper butt maid ever. I just wanna hug her and tell her what a great job she is doing cleaning…. And then spill some juice on the … Continue reading

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idistinguishedtidalwavebouquetus: coucherequin: °o° I put on a cute maid uniform! See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife It’s a really cute outfit. Too bad the baby is too little to be maid^^ lol What do you mean … Continue reading

I see you have a nice camera. Do you go photograph things? If so what are your favorite things to photograph? (I was going to ask in pm, but I got too shy)

I had to save up really long, but yes I have a Sony A7..! It’s a fullframe mirrorless camera. For now I’m using the 28-70mm lens that came with it. It’s a lot of fun ^^. I only photograph people; family, friends, cosplay (anime) events, my cat, and myself. It’s kind of a waste I don’t get to take pictures more often.. but now that I think of it, I might as well be the only abdl ‘photographer’ using a fullframe camera XD, everyone uses their cellphone these days

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idistinguishedtidalwavebouquetus: coucherequin: Maybe I’m hiding a thing underneath my outfit °>° See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife I really love the maid outfit. It’s so adorable I like wearing it too, it makes me feel really … Continue reading

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I decided to wear this diaper, a Crinklz! I’ll post a few pictures that I took the next few days. In case you’re wondering, the nappy in the pictures was dry See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | … Continue reading

Well your content is very cute and I love the asthetic to it’s calming u know and safe to I like feeling that way to just keep up the awesome work

I’m glad you say it’s aesthetic and calming ^^.. Ageplay is very calming for me, and it makes me relax

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Where did you get that maids outfit? 😍😍

The maid costume was from aliexpress, I think.. Do you think it’s cute? It feels really cheap, but I do think it’s pretty cute. Although I also think I’m not feminine enough to be wearing a thing like that oops.

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I am not naughty.. I’m a good lil kid ^^ See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife

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Do you have any abdl eat wear(?). What I mean is like baby bottles, bibs, little cute plates and spoons and forks? Those kind of things for when you’re a hungry baby girl

I’d like that..  For playing little , I have diapers (duh) and cute pyjamas and kigurumis, but also decorated cloth diaper covers, pacifiers, bottles and a onesie! I did try infant formula (the powdered milk stuff) and food (like Olvarit and other mushy semi-liquid ready-made foodies). I like the taste of the infant formula, but I don’t ageplay often enough to eat it a package before it expires XD, cus you really have to eat it all in a week or two after you open it. The mushy food itself is not for me, it doesn’t make me feel little, maybe it’s just not sweet enough, which apple sauce is and that’s delicious. I do like Danone’s yogurts a lot and they make me feel super smol ^^.. but maybe nostalgia also plays a big part in that. Currently I don’t have any bibs or plates or cutlery.. Maybe that’s gonna be the next thing I buy for my little self. Thank you for asking me this!  

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I was “hugging” my shark xD See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife

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I’m on top of the shark °>° See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife

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If you look closely, you’ll see it ^^ See my archive | Coucherequin’s Instagram | Coucherequin’s blog | Fetlife