I take all photos by myself, without help from others.
Please feel free to give me tips on how to improve my photos ^^. I think that my photos are kinda boring, as it’s always just me in my bed / bathroom / kitchen. I rotate outfits, and diapers, to add variation. Though, it’s not much variation, ultimately.
You’re talking about fictional characters? I’ve never thought about this before…
It’s difficult to imagine who would be into abdl, from their looks. I’ve never found a correlate. Do you think that something would give it away? I don’t think that anyone could see it in me, right?
The characters who I think would look really cute (I think) when agelaying are:
Cirno Misaka Mikoto (major bedwetting vibes) Gawr Gura (not just because I have the costume xD) D.Va (big ageplay vibes) Selene and Lillie (from Sun/Moon) Takimoto Hifumi (from New Game!) Kafuu Chino (from Gochiusa) Platelets (from Cells at Work) Hibiki (Kancolle)
It takes me around an hour. I’m always concerned that my pictures are boring, and that no one is interested in seeing them, as they’re mostly the same with little variation. I try my best to add variation, by wearing different diapers and different outfits… but it’s always just me in my bedroom on my bed
Your words help define you & add meaning to what you show us. 😔
Maybe that’s a good way to look at it ^^ @bobbadadee . As to not just be a picture blog, but show that I’m also a real person ^^. The person in the pictures is real, cus it’s me !!!!
It takes me around an hour. I’m always concerned that my pictures are boring, and that no one is interested in seeing them, as they’re mostly the same with little variation. I try my best to add variation, by wearing different diapers and different outfits… but it’s always just me in my bedroom on my bed
xD I assume that this Ask should be “How was your day?”. Maybe I’m just dumb for fundamentally not really understanding these kinds of chit-chat questions. Almost every day is the same when you start working full-time. Monday to Friday, it’s all the same to me. I wake up at around 7:30 am, I have breakfast with 2 slices of brown bread, covered with peanut butter and jam. I brush my teeth & floss, and leave my home by bike at around 8:30 am. At 12:30 I have lunch, and at around 18:00 I leave from work. Once every 2 days, I stop at the supermarket on my way home, to buy fresh vegetables, fruit, meat, and bread. I have dinner at around 19:00, I shower, and during the evening I have my free time. On the weekends, I wake up at around 10 am, and spend my days either with family, or resting ^^. It doesn’t occur often that I go out to ‘do’ something. Maybe I would be happier if my days were more varied, or maybe I wouldn’t be and I’m fine.
Thank you for sending me this Ask! I don’t think that I deserve all the kind words, though let’s see about that ^^.
Edit: Ah sorry, there was an additional paragraph that I had originally written, which was apparently not saved. I will try to write it again.
I do expect myself to be emotionally mature, I think. I have much still to learn, but I am also not 18 any more. I hope that I can continue to learn and grow, as I grow older in chronological age. (Also, I hope that I can continue to look a little bit young in appearance xD…). I need to learn to better understand others, to better anticipate what they want when they say something, and to be a better overall friend or acquaintance to all who I know ^^. No matter how old I will become, I also hope that I can hold onto my precious littlespace.
I’m afraid that I don’t feel that I can help others with their abdl acceptance issues. It never even occurred to me that what I do is strange. There was never a time that I wanted to stop wearing diapers. However, there were a few times when I wanted to stop sleeping with a plushie, because I felt that I was too old for one and it was embarrassing if I have guests over. Over time, I stopped thinking about this. I do feel it’s a little embarrassing that there’s a massive plushie in my bed, when I have guests over. So I do put the shark underneath my sheets. However, it’s not embarrassing enough to make me blush or feel genuinely bad. xD It’s strange, right? When I have guests over, I make sure to hide my vibe, but not the shark in my bed. In reality, no one would think it’s weird that I own a vibe or any kind of sex toy, whereas they may think it’s a little strange for me to own a huge plushie. Ah well. I will try to think of a more coherent answer to help others with ABDL acceptance.
As for masturbation and pornography.. It’s a precarious balance. Without pictures of myself in diapers, I don’t think that I can attract people to subscribe to my blog. I would like you to read my theories, my thoughts, and I’d love to interact with as many likeminded individuals as possible. Am I attractive or ‘sexy’? Personally, I don’t think that I am. No one has ever directly told me that they’ve climaxed to my pictures. I’m unsure what to think about it. Nonetheless, even if people have climaxed to pictures of me, I hope that I have still inspired enough others to make this worth my time.
Well I could, but probably I wouldn’t. I’m not a supporter of increasing my chances of exhibiting fetishes to strangers who are not on the lookout for such a thing. I realize that the question was asked in good faith, and that I do ‘expose’ myself to strangers on tumblr, though I’m not the kind of person to do this in public ^^. I’m sorry that I can’t live up to your question.
This Christmas, I wish for you to be happy <3. Not you, the Asker, specifically; but anyone who is reading this ^^. Please find the abundant happiness in your life, and be inspired by the beauty that you see all around you. Read a book, watch a movie, listen to music, do whatever it takes to gain back the vigor and motivation that you used to have. Our bodies age, though our motivation potential stays unchanged until the very end.
I am turning 31 soon (oh no), on January 3… But I won’t let it stop me from being myself. My body feels the same as 10 years ago, though right now I am a lot happier and I understand a lot more of the world around me. I feel more confident in my own skin, and I speak out more often. I want to continue to grow like that, while maintaining my health and fitness!
Though, my looks will probably continue to deteriorate as I age xD. My picture style, diapers and clothing will have to compensate for that.
It’s difficult to say, because I haven’t ever lived without wanting to wear diapers. This question is better suited for someone who found out that they liked diapers and/or ageplay well into their 20s versus having grown up with it.
I think that I accept myself liking diapers and ageplay entirely? I’m not preventing myself from doing it. If anything, I want to make time for it more often. As you grow older and your life stabilizes in terms of relationships and jobs, I suspect that you’ll feel more at ease with yourself. Job- and money wise I’m super safe right now, and my future prospects are relatively good. I still have big desires like wanting to start a relationship and a family with someone, wanting to purchase a house, and wanting to have a long-term job contract, but none of this is being affected by me liking diapers. I’m at the stage of my life where I still think that I will live forever. At some point, that illusion will have to be shattered, but I still have some time left. I’m a healthy well-rounded adult ^^, until I ageplay then I become a little.
For ABDL diapers, I especially like the Rearz Princess Pink, Rearz lil squirts Splash, Littleforbig little dreamers, Littleforbig Baby cuties, the Bambino cloudee, and the Bambino Classico. You can see me wear these on my blog, though I’ll attach a picture of the classico and the princess pink. I don’t think that I could easily choose between any of these. I love wearing all of these diapers.
No I don’t think so. I’m a responsible adult; I pay my bills, do my household chores and keep myself healthy with good food. But ‘ageplay’ is a big part of my life in that you can see it in some of my clothing, in my home’s decorations, in what I watch, in my hobbies and in the amount of time that I spend having fun on tumblr. I wouldn’t say that it’s a box underneath my bed that gets opened once per week for an hour. I am coucherequin for real. I’m not fully convinced whether it’s a completely separate persona. But to ease the discussion; I don’t think that there’s anything physically or mentally wrong with me. I am not going to seek out a therapist to discuss this topic. I’m very resilient to stress and I can laugh at my own mistakes. Ever since I obtained my doctorate, I feel that I have become even more carefree. I do still deeply care about doing my work and my hobbies to the best of my abilities, but I now also realize that opportunities will come and go all the time. You’ll spill a lot of milk in your life ^^.
I do wonder what it’d be like if I wasn’t single. Maybe I would want to be less of a kid and more of an adult. Maybe that’s the reason why I’m single, anyway. Deep down my motivator is probably sexual arousal. Maybe if someone had sex with me and made me orgasm once every few days, I wouldn’t want to ageplay any more.. Who knows. If my body would stop producing hormones, maybe I would also stop wearing diapers.. But that’s a topic for a separate Ask.
I don’t mind answering stuff again. I have over 3000 blog posts on my Tumblr blog; I can’t expect anyone to read it all before interacting with me ^^. Also, years have gone by; I live and learn! My answers to similar questions may change from year to year as I learn about new things and go through difficult and fun activities! Stagnating your own development or solidifying your opinions too much is probably not a good thing.
The shark plush is BLÅHAJ from ikea. They have the large 1 meter one, which I have, and two smaller versions. You can either get it directly from them, or through a bunch of resellers on online shopping platforms ^^. Though, there are also similar shark plushies for sale. Supposedly, there are also larger shark plushies which were created based on blahaj, but I find them too expensive ^^;;
I’m not really familiar with real baby diapers, because I can’t wear them and I don’t buy them. Sorry, I can’t directly answer your Ask.
Medical diapers are cute in their own way, and ABDL diapers have their own lil charm and they’re designed really cutely ^^. I like it when a diaper is bulky from being wet, so that I notice the diaper pressing against me all the time and with every movement that I make. I can’t close my legs, I can’t cross my legs, the diaper is there and I’m responsible for it being so wet ^^. I’m no grownup, I’m just a lil helpless baby
xD last time I wore bedwetting diapers, I was still an actual child. As an adult I never bought pull-ups because they don’t interest my abdl side. It’d probably be fun to wear a drynite and use a vibrator, because they’re much thinner, but abdl is much more to me than a strong orgasm in a diaper. It’s an interesting thing, though. Lots of abdl people are so strongly attracted to pull-ups. Maybe it’s because that’s what made them interested in diapers in the first place, who knows. I feel most “at home” when I can wear a diaper with tapes and a lot of fluff to pee into.
What is it that you like about the black-colored drynites? Mostly the design?
xD Hm I wonder whether it’s sharks or cats. Or maybe both? It’s not even that I like sharks that much, they’re just the right shape to hug in bed and just the right amount of weirdness to be funny. This is me wearing a Bambino classico v2 with thighhighs and hugging my shark:
itohseloh: coucherequin: itohseloh: so cute in wet diapers Nuh-uh °^° I am never wet!!! if you are never wet why are your diapers always so swollen and thick? … I don’t know!! But I am an adult, I don’t wet … Continue reading →
itohseloh: coucherequin: You’ve never seen me wear pants before, I think °^° . I was wearing a bambino diaper underneath my pants! I’ll change into something more ageplay-friendly cus black pants are not it No I don’t remember seeing you … Continue reading →
smolbailey: coucherequin: Aren’t I cute °^° Yes, adorable :3 Yay ^^ , I wanna be a super cute little baby wearing a diaper and a skirt or a cute frilly dress!
kimimerc: coucherequin: I missed wearing this skirt °^° Also you can see all the stuff that I transported from my apartment to my new temporary home.. I did unfortunately had to throw some things away cus it just wouldn’t fit … Continue reading →
itohseloh: Is someone crying because she wet her diaper? xD no I was covering up my face with my hands cus it can be time-consuming to edit the pictures to blur out my face. But if you want to, I … Continue reading →
itohseloh: coucherequin: I’m so sorry for this shark plushie.. humping it and rubbing it against my diaper gives me a ton of fun.. I’m pretty sure Shark likes what you do with him. well it’s a lifeless plushie. kinda sad … Continue reading →
kimimerc: coucherequin: I reveal my diaper to you ^^, a Bambino classico v2! Mmmm that’s so lovely too see Li Yeah, it was a really fun diaper to wear, I thought ^^ So unusual for me to show myself in … Continue reading →
I missed wearing this skirt °^° Also you can see all the stuff that I transported from my apartment to my new temporary home.. I did unfortunately had to throw some things away cus it just wouldn’t fit any more, … Continue reading →
kimimerc: coucherequin: xD 10 pictures of my shark helping me to open this diaper. Sharkie is the real coucherequin, after all Will look so much better on you😀 Hm I’m not so sure °^° , sharkie does look very good … Continue reading →
You’ve never seen me wear pants before, I think °^° . I was wearing a bambino diaper underneath my pants! I’ll change into something more ageplay-friendly cus black pants are not it
I had to choose between these two diapers: on the left is a Bambino classico V2, and on the right is a Rearz Princess Pink. They’re both SO adorable, but I chose to wear the Bambino cus I hadn’t worn … Continue reading →
