XD wearing diapers is supposed to be embarrassing?
I’ll answer the question for real. In a lot of abdl stories, embarrassment and public exposure seems to be a recurring theme, even beyond language barriers. By the latter, I mean that you also see it in Japanese abdl comics, and in Dutch abdl stories. So, it’s not exclusive to English abdl stories. That’s reassuring, right? Also outside of abdl, embarrassment seems to be a huge turn-on in certain situations.
As for why embarrassment and abdl would be linked… I can only hypothesize. Embarrassment is a strong emotion that allows us to remember stuff in huge detail for a long time. You tend to forget the mundane stuff, but you remember those really embarrassing things, as well as the really exciting memories. So I kinda hypothesize that the initial trigger that eventually leads to infantilism is probably related to a strong emotion such as embarrassment/humiliation. I can’t tell you what ‘causes’ abdl, because there’s probably a unique event for each one of us, though it converges to similar endpoints. My own hypothesis is that abdl is caused by a number of events where diapers co-occur with fear, anxiety, humiliation, embarrassment, anger and/or strong criticism from a parent or elder, specifically during a sensitive age window (probably 6~8 years age). The sexual element of diapers would then probably be established because of the intimate nature of getting diapered by an elder. Though, even diapering yourself at that age can probably cause the same link. People are usually out of diapers by those ages, so they likely don’t develop abdl. Continued bedwetting (and therefore use of diapers) or similar stuff probably increases the likelihood of making the association.
I’m not sure if I like embarrassment. I do like the ‘thrill’ of talking about embarrassing things. It’s hype exciting, and it makes me look forward to something. Though, if the topic of abdl is already disclosed to a partner, it’d probably lose its embarrassment quickly?? My ultimate fantasy is that I’d like to be treated as a helpless baby… Sleep in a crib wearing nothing but a diaper, onesie and socks, with a paci in my mouth. My food for the whole day would be thick infant formula given through a baby bottle, and I have to use my diaper. My caregiver plays with me, makes me color a drawing and watch cartoons, and changes my diaper. Before sleep, there’s a ‘special’ diaper change where I’m allowed to come in my diaper, but afterwards I need to sleep in my crib with a paci in my mouth and a big shark plushie in my arms 💞. I can’t even imagine how it’d feel to release a whole day of sexual tension into a wet diaper. Best feeling ever?
The delightful fantasy that you painted is indeed enjoyable to imagine if there always remains some ‘safe’ embarrassment to overcome. Of course, boundaries need to be respected.
There could also be equal or more incredible allure with no embarrassment with the thrill of surrendering to being dependent and vulnerable.
I think this is just another way of saying what you did.
But it’s not a fantasy… It’s what I’d actually like to experience ^^. Is it that much to ask for? It seems innocent and cute, to me!! I’m not asking for anything outlandish, I think???
You mean each diaper, or how often I wear diapers?
I try to wear a diaper once per week, on either the Saturday or Sunday. Though, some weeks it is not possible. I will pee in the diaper until it’s full xD, or until I’ve satisfied the thing inside me that compels me to do this.
garryta: coucherequin: garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 Really? But aren’t there other plastic pants designs that you’d rather see me in? Please show me what you have … Continue reading →
garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 Really? But aren’t there other plastic pants designs that you’d rather see me in?
What do you mean by exciting? Sexually? Potentially embarrassing?
I’d rather keep my littlespace safe and without humiliation ^^, as that’s the way how I prefer it. From reading a lot of abdl-themed stories, I do understand that humiliation and (near) exhibitionism is a big turn on for some people… In stories and fantasies, this is fine. However, I would not want to get into real scenarios where others can see that I am wearing a brightly pink-coloured diaper with princesses printed on it xD. Maybe if I was wearing a regular incontinence diaper, at least no one would bother me after an exposure event. Though, it still wouldn’t sit right with me to expose others to such a scenario. Diaper fetishism has a really bad image, and I don’t want to contribute to making it even worse, you know? Through positivity and safety, I’d rather attempt to make ABDL seem much better ^^. You see? I want to inspire you and others to explore your littlespace, and inspire you to have a lot of fun being a little baby ! Only through repeatedly demonstrating that my littlespace is safe, warm, fun, not humiliating and not hyper sexualized, do I feel that I can convince others to try it for themselves
kirababy2: coucherequin: Plastic pants over my diaper ^^ for extra protection, and extra crinkles Yes! Please protect me, I make myself look so vulnerable in my pictures ^^…
sixliveoaks: garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 The poofy white ones. But that’s just me…. Do you think that they look more babyish? ^^ I kinda think that … Continue reading →
Hoi, bedankt voor je Ask! Luiers zijn onderdeel van m’n regressie tot babytje, samen met schattige kleertjes (vooral pyjama’s), onesies, fopspenen, flesvoeding, en knuffeldieren (m’n haai). Om het echter te maken, en ook omdat het me een prettig gevoel geeft, plas ik in m’n luier ^^. Al deze dingen samen geven me dan een heel ontspannen gevoel, waardoor ik eventjes alles los kan laten. Dit werkt alleen als ik me veilig en thuis voel. Op dit moment is dat eigenlijk alleen in m’n eigen slaapkamer het geval. M’n voordeur is op slot, m’n kamerdeur is op slot, de gordijnen zijn dicht, ik ben helemaal veilig en kan eventjes weer babytje zijn ^^. Ik heb wel eens geprobeerd om op andere plekken luiers te dragen, zoals onder een cosplay, maar dat geeft me toch een heel ander gevoel.
captainfishy1: coucherequin: Close up of the plastic pants I wore over my diaper ^^ You look fantastic in that outfit!!! Thank you ^^, I like wearing this purple floral-print shirt… It is breezy, so I can only wear it in … Continue reading →
garryta: coucherequin: Close up of the plastic pants I wore over my diaper ^^ This is really very nice Coucherequin. Such beautifull plastic pants! I like them! thank you for this reblog message ^^. My own fascination for plastic pants … Continue reading →
captainfishy1: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like the babyish print more!! ^^ Lots of people mentioned that they prefer the printed one. It is really cute!
These were the last pictures that I took… I was wearing a Crinklz aquanaut diaper. I liked it a lot. It accepted my two pees, and I was able to still play in it after that without leaking ^^. If … Continue reading →
I’m not sure which of those two I like most. The white ones have a little bit of cloth material inside, which make them more comfortable to wear. The colored ones have a really cute design, and are partially see-through so you can see which diaper (or panties xD) that I am wearing. If I had to wear diapers during the night for bedwetting, I would probably wear the white plastic pants on top. To me, it also feels like it would last longer. Did I ever tell you that I struggled a lot with bedwetting as a kid? Unfortunately, I don’t remember the details of it and what kind of diapers I wore for it.
garryta: coucherequin: Standing by my kitchen countertop ! I almost cold not see it, but you are wearing plastic pants! How sweet. Secretly i believe, tell me. You surprised me! xD you’re joking, you can definitely see it.
I realize that there’s not that much variation between my pictures right now, because my house is a little small, but I’ll try my best to compensate it with different outfits and lots of different diapers ^^..
