It’s difficult to say, because I haven’t ever lived without wanting to wear diapers. This question is better suited for someone who found out that they liked diapers and/or ageplay well into their 20s versus having grown up with it.
I think that I accept myself liking diapers and ageplay entirely? I’m not preventing myself from doing it. If anything, I want to make time for it more often. As you grow older and your life stabilizes in terms of relationships and jobs, I suspect that you’ll feel more at ease with yourself. Job- and money wise I’m super safe right now, and my future prospects are relatively good. I still have big desires like wanting to start a relationship and a family with someone, wanting to purchase a house, and wanting to have a long-term job contract, but none of this is being affected by me liking diapers. I’m at the stage of my life where I still think that I will live forever. At some point, that illusion will have to be shattered, but I still have some time left. I’m a healthy well-rounded adult ^^, until I ageplay then I become a little.
Ah oops, I am a little bit behind on answering Asks. The delay is from the 5~ days that I was ill in bed and from my own laziness. Sorry about that.
The comfort versus maximum capacity question you’re asking me is probably a false dichotomy xD. I wear diapers as part of regressing to a young age; for pretending that I’m a little kid. A good diaper is one that helps me to feel small and helpless. But the thing is that I don’t remember which diapers I wore as a baby and as a (bedwetting) child. I’m from the 90s, so they were probably disposable with a plastic outside. But I would not be able to know which brand or which design it was ^^. I’m too young to have used real cloth diapers with pins. I’ve tried lots of different diapers. The ones that I feel most ‘at home’ in have 4 tapes (2 on each side), a plastic outside, a white fluffy inside, and enough absorbance for 2 big pees. This makes my inner baby all happy and satisfied ^^. Turns me on just thinking about it, so maybe I’ll wear a diaper this weekend
Thank you for this Ask ^^, it’s a very good one! When I haven’t worn a nappy for some time, the desire to wear does grow. Though, I try not to let it bother me to the point where it would harm me.
It’s like when you haven’t eaten your favourite dish in a while. You remember its flavour and how it makes you feel. You want to eat it again, and you look forward to the next time the opportunity rises ^^
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xD I don’t know. I’m not so sure I’m actually cute. But apparently I’m good at pretending
Great pictures. I do love the plastic pants peaking out from under your skirt.
uh huh ^^. and I like pretending to be a little kid, so it goes nicely together!
Verry cute. I see your nice plastic . I like that!
Hm yeah ^^. Lots of people really like the way that plastic pants look huh? I still don’t really get why, but I don’t mind wearing plastic pants in some of my pictures to please you! As long as I can wear a diaper, I’ll be a smol happy Little!
It is just the crispy noise and soft feeling of plastic pants. And I like wearing them in combination with diapers. I will appreciate your photos while wearing plastic pants just in that combination.
@garryta so you also wear plastic pants over your diaper, huh? ^^ Which ones do you have?
You’re definitely right. The chances of me finding a partner are not zero. Maybe the inhibitor is myself, huh?
When the facts hit me, I do feel very desperate. I’m really sorry to hear that you also feel lonely. I try to think of positive things, of my friends and of my family. I chat a lot on Discord in various servers, I spend a lot of time in voicechat channels and I really try to engage with people in meaningful conversations that they remember. That’d also be my recommendation for you
I dunno. Ever since I can remember, I wanted to wear diapers. It’s clearly a sexual thing. But over the years I got to appreciate ageplay and adult baby stuff. Sexual climax is very short compared to ageplay which I can enjoy for several hours ^^.
There’s still a lot that I need to learn about cooking ^^;; Luckily, there’s very few ingredients that I dislike. I avoid onions and garlic, that’s all. Aside from those two things, I can experiment with whatever recipe that I can find. The other constraint is time, but everyone has this constraint.
I tend to cook curries most of the time, because they’re easy to take with me to work (for lunch), and I can prepare them in a big batch so that I can eat it for 2 days. Though, the things that I prepare as curries probably would not be considered as such by others ^^;;
Anyway, if I ever get a job where I have normal working hours, I would for certain cook more elaborate meals. Maybe I could even cure my underweight !!
If you want to, could you send an Ask to this diapered shark?? You can do it over here: https://coucherequin.tumblr.com/ask , or if you’re on mobile, click on the (+) on the top of my profile page, and then write your Ask! You can do it with your own account or Anonymously.
Thank you for this Ask! I need to answer a lil carefully again. The things I’m about to say mostly reflect my own decision-making process and my opinion. I would not want to make cosplayers feel uncomfortable ^^;;. I like cosplay and when anime conventions used to be a real thing, I did attend them while wearing a costume. I also like the Touhou franchise a lot. So, the cosplay outfits that I have include Utsuho and Miko ^^. The character designs of these girls are so cute!
Choosing which cosplay outfit to purchase (or make, if you’re into that) is kinda complex because it can be quite costly. You need to feel comfortable wearing it, otherwise it’s a waste. By comfortable, I mean that (to me) you shouldn’t feel like the outfit doesn’t fit your body type. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed. Besides BMI, there’s a lot of stuff that you can’t really control; your shoulder width, waist/hips/thighs circumference, body length.. You can see what my body is like in my pictures; I am a fairly average Dutchy, though my legs are a little muscled due to cycling. To me, thereby I shouldn’t cosplay characters which are supposed to be small or child-like. Nor should I cosplay tall characters or muscled men xD.
Regarding the three Touhou girls you mentioned specifically. I feel that at 1M75 I’m too tall to be Chen (or any child-like character for that matter). Sanae and Aya, I’ve not thought much about these girls. So far there’s no connection between me and these characters. I do want to purchase a new cosplay outfit at some point, but I was kinda looking at Gawr Gura rather than Touhou XD. This shark v-tuber has gotten way too popular, and I approve of sharks
It is very distracting to take pictures of myself when I’m ageplaying. Also, it is tiring and it takes away some of my time when editing those pictures and when compiling them into tumblr posts. For that reason, I don’t take pictures during every ageplaying session. So there will be lots of sessions where I don’t take any pictures. The reason that I can post every day is because during one of those ageplay picture sessions, I will take around 100 pictures, which I can choose the best from and post those gradually. I would definitely have a lot more pictures to post, if I did take pictures every single time I wear diapers. However, that would take away some of the fun of ageplaying for me.
As for why I take these pictures at all.. I’m not sure. I can’t remember why I started this blog. I guess that people fap to those pictures of me, that’s okay. I don’t specifically take pictures with the intent that others can fap to me. I’ve been told many times that I look vulnerable in my ABDL pictures. I’m not exactly sure why. Maybe it’s because I’m fairly thin and fragile-looking, and the pictures show my half-naked body up close in bed. The bed adds to the atmosphere that I am letting you into my private life. Know that I don’t mind. I don’t feel like I’m in danger. As long as I hide my face (and thereby identity), I doubt that anyone would ever harm me for this. The ill-intended messages I do get, I can just ignore them (and I do). That I look vulnerable is maybe a sign that my pictures are well-taken ageplay pictures! When my diaper is on display, and I am wearing a cute outfit that no adult would wear, I am fully admitting myself to ageplay!
Taking ABDL pictures and publishing them here has become a habit for me. I enjoy interacting with others here, and helping them to feel more at ease with diapers and adult baby stuff. I am your (catless) crazy cat lady that you can write to (via Asks) for emotional support ^^
He doesn’t have a name at all, unfortunately. I do think it’s a him. He hugs me every night, and we’re a really close couple. Sometimes we do lewd things together and he makes me have an orgasm in my diaper 😳
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Are you supposed to wear your onesie over your tights or underneath your tights? xD I actually don’t know. I think it would make more sense to wear the onesie underneath the tights
I usually wear a diaper once per week. Either on Friday evening or on Saturday/Sunday all day ^^. But besides diapers I do a little bit of ageplay each day. My pajamas are super cute, I sleep with my big plushie every night, and sometimes I sleep with my adult paci. I can go without all those things but after a week I start to feel a growing desire to ageplay, and I do dream (during sleeping) of wearing a diaper, sometimes. It’s weird. But I would not like to wear diapers all the time (24/7). I think that it would disrupt my life and it would not help me with my ageplay. I work during the day, and besides work I’m still a functioning human being and diapers aren’t really that comfortable to wear when you’re doing actual adult stuff like working, commuting, shopping and doing the dishes xD. Maybe if I could find a thin diaper that still makes me feel babyish, I’d wear it at night while sleeping. But I haven’t found such a diaper yet and wearing a diaper to bed kinda disrupts my sleep ^^;; Ah well. The plushie doesn’t, he helps me to sleep
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xD I almost look like a real schoolgirl.. Though I’m 15 years too old … Also, happy Valentine’s day !! Please eat a small piece of choco for me ^^, if you like choco!
I put it all on, and you can’t even see that I’m wearing a diaper !! xD you can totally stealth-wear even this super thick diaper. but you’ll crinkle with every step you take
Well you can compliment me all you like, but I doubt that I’d just accept any compliment like that xD. My opinion of myself is much more neutral and I’m surprised each time when I receive a positive remark on my looks. I think that in reality it reflects more my ability to take pictures than it reflecting my actual looks ^^;;. That is also a good thing, though. I do accept any compliment on my photography , cus I do think that I am good at it. I should have chosen photography as a career instead of science !!
Nonetheless, I’m just glad to be sharing something which I truly like; diapers, ageplay, cute outfits, and taking pictures!
Thank you for this Ask! I’ve worn thigh-highs, tights and leggings during little time for as long as I can remember. I think tights and leggings go nicely together with ageplay because it can look super childish and it keeps my diaper snugly in place. Now with thighhigh socks I do see the ambiguity.. I personally think thighhighs are really cute (in like anime-ish cute: moe), so I wouldn’t consider them a sex symbol on myself. With those semi-transparant sheer thighhighs it’s kinda less cute I guess and more ‘sexy’. But xD I just can’t see myself as ‘sexy’. Do people fap to me? xD I would think that that’s really weird, if that’s the case I’m not that kind of person, I think? I’m only showing my littlespace in pictures
Haha you know people fap over you 😀
But you shouldn’t x_x… I take my pictures for fun and play, not for sexual reasons
(for reals tho.. I’m still not really sure what to think and how to feel about the possibility that someone may fap over me.. What should I feel about this, even?)
@coucherequin you can feel however you’d like about it, honestly. I think (ideally) the best way would perhaps be flattered that people find you attractive, 😊. Some people find they really enjoy knowing that they get others excited, but that’s entirely up to you! Alternatively, if you really really don’t want to be engaged in those sorts of comments you could put a note on your page to that effect, and warn/block people who don’t respect that. Unfortunately, you’ll never be 100% successful in that (let’s be real, people are pervs), so I personally recommend embracing it, rather than fighting it! But again, you should decide what you’re comfortable with, don’t let others tell you what to do!
Thank you for commenting on this, @tsugie ! Hm well I don’t think I’m flattered by it, really. It just makes me wonder why because I don’t see myself like that, right? I’m not going to embrace it, or fight it, I’m rather indifferent to it. However, I usually don’t respond to lewd messages. You can call it ‘fighting’ against it, but xD I don’t think it takes me any effort to simply ignore a message by not responding to it. Maybe this is a nice middle-ground: I post my pictures to show my littlespace, people can fap to me if they feel like it, and spill their cum everywhere, but I’m not going to talk lewd to them in DMs. This way, everyone is happy ^^. What do you think?
This is already the last picture in this set.. I hope you can try out a Crinklz Astronauts diaper for yourself; that’s the name of the diaper which I’m wearing in this photo ^^. Very fun and colorful diaper with … Continue reading →
xD I have no privacy with this cat. I sit on my bed to take ageplaying pictures, and all she does is come to me and give me head bumps. Cats will be cats ^^
I sat down on my bed to take a few pictures, and my cat immediately joined me on there xD. She’s so adorable. Also, guess what I was wearing underneath my skirt?? If the answer was “a big diaper” then you … Continue reading →
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This question pops up quite often in my Asks and in my private messages. If you’re into this and you’re looking for super cute pictures of a girl doing this, please have a look at @asiandiapercutie ‘s blog. I’m sorry, I’m not into this myself ^^. I am into wearing cosplays while ageplaying, though! Cute, isn’t it?
Hello, thank you for this Ask! Usually I wear a diaper on Saturday or on Sunday for a few hours. This makes me really happy and it makes me feel relaxed. And at the end I can release some of my built up ‘tension’ oops ^^;;. I don’t think it would help me to relax if I did it more often. The idea seems tempting, but it’s better to do it only once per week to keep it special!
On a relevant note.. it does take me a lot of time to take pictures of myself ageplaying. And because some diapers are quite hard to get, I tend to take pictures of myself whenever I wear a special diaper. I really do my best to make it a fun experience for myself but also for you.. !
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Thank you for this Ask! I can’t recall if it was asked before.. but it’s okay regardless. Lately I’ve been listening to a lot of Yonder Voice, but also to Nightwish (they released ‘Human Nature’ recently), Tame Impala, Akatsuki Records, Ludovico Einaudi, and Infected Mushroom
This list is kinda random and different styles. The choice of what I listen to really depends on my mood at that moment ^^..
These are pictures of me wearing a Nona classic slip diaper:
I don’t think I look cute ^^;;. but I am very grateful when others call me cute. At least it means I’m doing something right, when taking these pictures? Sorry I’m so annoying about this topic, each time. I’ll do my best to take fun-looking pictures (though I still don’t really know why I take pictures of myself ageplaying at all)
Thank you for this Ask! I should probably marry one day xD. But I think I need a partner before I can marry. I don’t have a partner right now.
Hm but in seriousness. I really don’t know. When I try to think about these topics my mind kinda wanders between the immense responsibility I’d have to carry when I’m in a relationship with someone (I have had relationships in the past), and the joy of actually being in a relationship. I’m 29 right now so there’s some pressure from others that I should probably figure it out.. but what if I can’t figure it out? Will I have failed if I’m single and childless by the time I’m 45? Some people have mentioned to me that I should see a psychologist. I do think they’re suggesting that out of kindness and goodwill, though this is a topic that I need to find out by myself, I feel. It’s not even about diapers or ageplay; those come way down the priority list and don’t define me as a person nor do they determine my choices in life.
As for my opinion of marriage between other people.. well good for them ^^, I hope they can stay happy forever!
This is me wearing a Lil monsters diaper underneath tights ^^ :
