Those shark-themed cloth diapers look really really cute ^^. I think that I’m good in terms of abdl stuff right now. My home is getting a little full of all my stuff. There’s a lot of diapers that I still would like to try out and take pictures with !! Half my closet is diapers and abdl stuff right now xD, I’m such a happy little.
Hello, thank you kindly for your Ask! I will try to answer it as much as I can ^^. I don’t mind personal questions.
Unfortunately I don’t want to link to my music from this blog, because the music is released under my real name ^^;;. I do the music for fun, though I wanted to associate it with my own identity.
I’m living in Belgium, but I’m Dutch. Almost the same, but still very different. In my pictures I tend to go for that Japanese otaku aesthetic, but it’s not who I really am. I dress more normally outside of this blog
(I am sorry, Mrs. Kittycat, that we could not be together longer. I miss you every day. Rest in peace).
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Ah oops, I’ve been a little inactive the last few days…
Thank you for your Ask, nonetheless. I’ve worn dozens of different diapers but nowadays I really prefer ABDL diapers like the Rearz Princess Pink, Littleforbig Baby Cuties, Little Dreamers, Bambino Cloudee, Rearz Lil Squirts Splash, etc. I’ve had some of my most intense orgasms in these diapers because they press all the right buttons for me in terms of ageplaying and being able to wet them.
Don’t feel intimidated by stuff for being ‘new’, though ^^. It’s all supposed to be for your enjoyment! I can have fun in regular incontinence diapers that don’t cost as much. I do keep a package of tena slip maxi/ultima in my closet for when I want to wear a simple diaper for a few hours. I’m not into pull-ups myself, but others do enjoy these a lot and they’re easy to get, as well. Occasionally I’ll put on a cloth diaper and wear it to bed, without wetting it. Wearing a cloth diaper with a plastic pants, sucking on a paci, wearing a cute pajama and sleeping with my shark plush makes me forget that I’m an adult !!!
I really like cats and keeping one as a pet. My late cat passed away in November 2019. It made me very sad to say goodbye, but it was in her best interest. After I moved to my new home, I tried to adopt a cat, but she got very ill immediately after I got her and I could not take proper care of her due to lack of time. I made the tough decision to give her back to the shelter, who found a new home for her with someone who did have enough time.
This leaves me without a cat right now. I would like to try again to adopt and house a cat as a pet. I feel that I will have to move again before I can properly house a cat. To move again, I will need a job with better long-term security, as my current job is fixed-term. It’s not that I can’t afford it, but there’s a clear difference between being able to afford something and making a well thought out decision.
When I go to bed, I wear a pajama, sometimes I wear a onesie underneath, sometimes a cloth diaper (only for comfort). Sometimes I’ll sleep with a dummy, though I’ve never been able to wake up with it still in my mouth. I always sleep with my shark plush, unless he’s in the laundry. It’s very sad when my shark plush is being washed, because he needs to dry for 1 or 2 days, which means that I have to sleep without him for 1 or 2 nights 😭
Anyway.. it makes me feel at ease to hold the shark plush in my arms when I sleep.. I think that’s the most important aspect ^^
It’s difficult to say, because I haven’t ever lived without wanting to wear diapers. This question is better suited for someone who found out that they liked diapers and/or ageplay well into their 20s versus having grown up with it.
I think that I accept myself liking diapers and ageplay entirely? I’m not preventing myself from doing it. If anything, I want to make time for it more often. As you grow older and your life stabilizes in terms of relationships and jobs, I suspect that you’ll feel more at ease with yourself. Job- and money wise I’m super safe right now, and my future prospects are relatively good. I still have big desires like wanting to start a relationship and a family with someone, wanting to purchase a house, and wanting to have a long-term job contract, but none of this is being affected by me liking diapers. I’m at the stage of my life where I still think that I will live forever. At some point, that illusion will have to be shattered, but I still have some time left. I’m a healthy well-rounded adult ^^, until I ageplay then I become a little.
For ABDL diapers, I especially like the Rearz Princess Pink, Rearz lil squirts Splash, Littleforbig little dreamers, Littleforbig Baby cuties, the Bambino cloudee, and the Bambino Classico. You can see me wear these on my blog, though I’ll attach a picture of the classico and the princess pink. I don’t think that I could easily choose between any of these. I love wearing all of these diapers.
The thing that is missing from my littlespace that I would like to have most is a crib. You can tell from many of my pictures that I value my bed a lot when it comes to ageplaying. If I had a crib that I could sleep in every day, I think that I would be really really happy.
Though, I dunno if I would actually get a crib ever. I do try to weigh my ageplaying desires with keeping my home look kinda normal for when friends visit. A few plushies here and there is kinda strange but still cute. Childish pajamas same thing. However, once you get into obvious baby stuff like toys, a crib, a highchair, then it really becomes an inherent unavoidable part of your home. You wouldn’t leave your vibrator on your nightstand when your mom is coming over, either x_x.
Initially I was a lurker on adisc, and also a Dutch-speaking forum. Though, I don’t find forums very useful because I feel that it’s a too ‘sterile’ place void of personality. Maybe these characteristics are a side-effect of trying to make those places safe for its members, i.e. not creepy. I’m not saying that the people on forums are such, I am saying that these are limitations of the platforms.
xD If I sign up under ‘coucherequin’ for a forum or website nowadays and post a message, I get a few PMs asking if I want to chat. Out of respect of my own time, and out of convenience, you can interact with me publicly and privately on tumblr and I’ll answer whatever message you send me in my free time ^^. Though, I simply cannot reply to every “how r u” or every “what u up 2 today” message, as I’d be chatting inane nonsense all the time. I feel that chit-chat is for getting to know a person from a blank canvas. Seeing that I have typed out an insane amount of blog posts already, you can read any or all of my blog posts to gauge where my interests lie. From there, a meaningful, lively and especially fun conversation can follow.
Anyway, so I lurked on forums for a while, then I lurked on tumblr for a while. For reasons that I don’t remember, I started posting messages and pictures to tumblr, which caught on and here we are ^^. Me showing you my diapered bum, and trying to make you happy!
Ah oops, I am a little bit behind on answering Asks. The delay is from the 5~ days that I was ill in bed and from my own laziness. Sorry about that.
The comfort versus maximum capacity question you’re asking me is probably a false dichotomy xD. I wear diapers as part of regressing to a young age; for pretending that I’m a little kid. A good diaper is one that helps me to feel small and helpless. But the thing is that I don’t remember which diapers I wore as a baby and as a (bedwetting) child. I’m from the 90s, so they were probably disposable with a plastic outside. But I would not be able to know which brand or which design it was ^^. I’m too young to have used real cloth diapers with pins. I’ve tried lots of different diapers. The ones that I feel most ‘at home’ in have 4 tapes (2 on each side), a plastic outside, a white fluffy inside, and enough absorbance for 2 big pees. This makes my inner baby all happy and satisfied ^^. Turns me on just thinking about it, so maybe I’ll wear a diaper this weekend
No I don’t think so. I’m a responsible adult; I pay my bills, do my household chores and keep myself healthy with good food. But ‘ageplay’ is a big part of my life in that you can see it in some of my clothing, in my home’s decorations, in what I watch, in my hobbies and in the amount of time that I spend having fun on tumblr. I wouldn’t say that it’s a box underneath my bed that gets opened once per week for an hour. I am coucherequin for real. I’m not fully convinced whether it’s a completely separate persona. But to ease the discussion; I don’t think that there’s anything physically or mentally wrong with me. I am not going to seek out a therapist to discuss this topic. I’m very resilient to stress and I can laugh at my own mistakes. Ever since I obtained my doctorate, I feel that I have become even more carefree. I do still deeply care about doing my work and my hobbies to the best of my abilities, but I now also realize that opportunities will come and go all the time. You’ll spill a lot of milk in your life ^^.
I do wonder what it’d be like if I wasn’t single. Maybe I would want to be less of a kid and more of an adult. Maybe that’s the reason why I’m single, anyway. Deep down my motivator is probably sexual arousal. Maybe if someone had sex with me and made me orgasm once every few days, I wouldn’t want to ageplay any more.. Who knows. If my body would stop producing hormones, maybe I would also stop wearing diapers.. But that’s a topic for a separate Ask.
I realize that there’s not that much variation between my pictures right now, because my house is a little small, but I’ll try my best to compensate it with different outfits and lots of different diapers ^^..
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I wear one diaper innocently until it’s full. So weird, I didn’t know I leaked so much into it !! Then I will get aroused and help myself either with the shark plush, with a vibe or both ^^. Afterwards, I feel kinda done with ageplay and I go to have a half hour long shower and then sleep.
xD Why am I so cute? I wonder if I am actually cute. I wear adult diapers, and pretend that I’m a baby.
I wonder about that second question… I mentioned it before that a partner who isn´t okay with me wearing diapers will be shown the door by me. It´s a very selfish thing to say of me, but it´s probably for the better.
xD If I take pictures of a fully-clothed me, the interest in those pictures is very low. For getting people interested in my pictures, and to attain my goal of inspiring people to try out certain diapers and ageplaying activities, I do tend to show a little skin. Though, I have never published lewd photos onto my tumblr blog.
When it’s just me and there’s no need to take pictures for this blog, I do wear pajamas over my diaper. It’s not that I hide my diaper, it’s to complete the outfit and to not be cold ^^. I used to live in the Netherlands, and nowadays I live in Belgium. Neither of these places have particularly warm climates, so for most of the year you do need to wear clothing to be comfortable! So yes, I do prefer to wear soft clothing over my diaper, to be more comfortable
I don’t remember why I went with the shark theme. I remember laughing a lot at the blahaj memes, where those shark plushies are sitting by office tables having high-profile discussions, and other funny unexpected scenarios. I got myself a blahaj plush and I ended up loving it. It’s the perfect shape and size for me, for hugging it while sleeping (and for humping it, oops). Somehow, the shark theme also became popular in Japan, and it eventually led to the creation of Gawr Gura xD, who I now have the uniform of. What a strange time to be alive.
A secondary form of appearance..? You even specified human, so I cannot say shark. I would eat so many people alive xD
I dunno. I’m generally quite happy with my body’s appearance. Due to my personality and also my career, I value my intelligence and abilities a lot more than my physical appearance. I may be a young investigator, but I am an author/ co-author on 10 peer-reviewed scientific articles right now. It may not be apparent what that means to you, but let’s say that my career is seemingly having a useful output. Both looks and intelligence will eventually fade away, and both these attributes can result in new content. I would not argue one is more important than the other, but I personally value intellectual and especially scientific output to be more valuable than content produced from appearances.
In a way, ‘coucherequin’ is my secondary form; like a persona. Of course, coucherequin is real, i.e. it’s me. Ageplay is something that I enter and exit, like what you described. That doesn’t answer your Ask, though. I doubt that I would want to temporarily shift into a different age, if that would involve me losing part of my mind. Though, I think that I’d look cuter if I could shift into a smaller version of myself ^^. My Dutch heritage made me a little tall. Through the magic of photography, I try to make myself look smaller and cuter than what I am. (Though I don’t edit my pictures with photoshop or anything like that). If I was able to become the smoller and cuter version of myself for real, this would all be a lot easier!!
Hm yeah I am back from my time off. I didn’t mention this cus I’m not some sort of celebrity xD. I’m back when I’m back, and I doubt anyone is bothered by my presence or absence. My holiday was spent together with a good friend, who slept over at my place. This meant that I continued to sleep with my shark throughout the time. Though, I wouldn’t want to (and didn’t) bother her with anything more than that. When my friend went home, I did diaper myself almost immediately oops. Am I addicted to ageplay? Who knows
I don’t mind answering stuff again. I have over 3000 blog posts on my Tumblr blog; I can’t expect anyone to read it all before interacting with me ^^. Also, years have gone by; I live and learn! My answers to similar questions may change from year to year as I learn about new things and go through difficult and fun activities! Stagnating your own development or solidifying your opinions too much is probably not a good thing.
The shark plush is BLÅHAJ from ikea. They have the large 1 meter one, which I have, and two smaller versions. You can either get it directly from them, or through a bunch of resellers on online shopping platforms ^^. Though, there are also similar shark plushies for sale. Supposedly, there are also larger shark plushies which were created based on blahaj, but I find them too expensive ^^;;
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Hm well when I apologize, usually it’s because I tent to take very similar-looking pictures and I rarely make any sort of selection of them. When I take 100 pictures of myself for this blog, maybe I’ll throw away a few of them, but I’ll post the 90 other ones xD. So it happens quite often that some of them will look quite similar, cus they’ve been taken consecutively
Regardless of that, most of my pictures are taken in my bedroom or in my livingroom or kitchen, there is not much variation between different “photo shoots”.. The main difference would be in the diaper that I’m wearing, and the outfit that I chose to wear ^^. I try my best to vary the outfit and the diaper, but apart from that there’s not much variation between photos
Hm well I was talking about the way that I live and work. Like cycling to work, carrying heavy delicate stuff, changing into medical outfits, performing micro surgeries, operating med machines. I’m glad that it works for you, but for active days I don’t think that wearing a diaper would be comfortable
I was the happiest little shark ^^. These were the last pictures that I took. Check out the rearz lil bella diaper to see if it suits you. I really liked it!
Hm well every diaper will leak if you wear it long enough, but probably you’re asking about unreasonable leaks like when you’ve barely used it..
The “rearz incontrol elite hybrid” leaked almost immediately on me. Also the “attends slip 9M” leak very quickly on me due to their poor thigh fit (it only has 1 tape on each time). The tena ultima slip can only take one pee and then they’re full, the cloth-backed Abena diapers (like m3 and m4) eventually let a little bit of pee through the fabric and into your clothing (do other cloth-backed diapers do this, too?). Cloth diapers are also only good for one pee, but that’s okay, you wouldn’t want to stay in a cloth diaper for a long time anyway
Hm what surprises me the most is that you can’t really be active when you’re wearing a diaper, without being uncomfortable or even leaking. I feel really bad for people who have to use diapers for their incontinence or other medical reasons (and I wouldn’t ever want to be incontinent myself). Please know that my tumblr blog isn’t a parody of your medical condition and I don’t wear diapers to make fun of anyone. I don’t do this out of bad faith or spirit ^^;;. I feel strongly attracted to wearing diapers, but the desire is gone for a while after I’ve worn one for a few hours. When I put on a diaper, I feel the strong urge to pee a little bit into it, because it gives me a big rush when I feel the wetness on my skin and then feeling the wetness disappear. Despite the weirdness, I don’t think that I am harming anyone when I’m publishing my pictures online. If you do feel that I should change something about my pictures, please tell me in a PM or in an (anonymous) Ask.
xD Well you could, but I am not wearing a diaper right at this moment :<. I should really take new pictures of my ageplaying soon. I haven’t taken any new pictures for some time, already, and I owe it to you to have new pictures..
Instead, I will send you two (old) pictures of me wearing a Rearz Incontrol with plastic pants on top ^^. I know how much some of you like wearing plastic pants over your nappy!
Thank you for wearing those nice plastic pants
Absolutely beautifull plastic pants on over your diaper, nappie, plastic pants are so lovely and the protection and look is amazing.
Please do wear plastic pants as often as possible, please, pretty please, 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗😍😍
Am I, huh? That’s really kind of you to say that !!
I hope that I can continue looking “adorable” for a little while longer.. I’m slowly getting old ^^;;; But it’s okay.. I’m happy with the way that my body looks like, and I’m grateful for being healthy. Health is such an amazing thing to have and to cherish.
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I’m not really familiar with real baby diapers, because I can’t wear them and I don’t buy them. Sorry, I can’t directly answer your Ask.
Medical diapers are cute in their own way, and ABDL diapers have their own lil charm and they’re designed really cutely ^^. I like it when a diaper is bulky from being wet, so that I notice the diaper pressing against me all the time and with every movement that I make. I can’t close my legs, I can’t cross my legs, the diaper is there and I’m responsible for it being so wet ^^. I’m no grownup, I’m just a lil helpless baby
xD hm okay. I don’t think that a plastic pants over a disposable diaper is of much use. A disposable diaper always leaks around your thighs, and a plastic pants doesn’t stop anything there cus it’s not like it’s actually watertight around your legs
Plastic pants were originally intended for cloth diapers. When I have a plastic pants on in my pictures, I am doing it for the aesthetics ^^.
Nice view in your plastic pants
Is it a nice view? Hm looking at this picture makes me realize that it is one of the last pictures that I took at my previous apartment ^^… I had already taken away some of my furniture; in the back of the picture you can see that the table which used to be there is no longer there. I kept my bed there until the very last day of course, cus I needed a place to sleep. It was quite stressful to prepare my stuff to move, and despite all my preparations some stuff still got damaged from the moving :/. Oh well, that is all in the past and we live in the present ^^
Hm so those red spots on my right leg are where I fell a few weeks ago. It has mostly healed, now ^^, though it has taken quite a long time. Sorry for having it in the picture
Thank you very much for saying those nice things about me.
I’m a total baby when I’m in the mood for ageplaying ^^. If I had to diaper someone and dress them up, I think that I’d get very very jealous and frustrated that it’s not me. I want to wear a diaper and a cute outfit and drink a lot of warm milk from a bottle and fall asleep with a full warm tummy while sucking on a paci and hugging my plushie ^^. And then wake up and pee myself, totally helpless. I couldn’t take care of someone else like that.
I was introduced to touhou several years ago by an online acquaintance. It was a coincidence / happy accident ^^. I liked the artwork, the music and the characters. Now, I have a few cosplays of touhou characters and the interest generally stuck around! If you ever visit Dutch, or Belgian anime conventions, the Touhou cosplayer might be me xD. And yeah now I also have a Gawr Gura cosplay that I’ll probably wear to anime conventions, too!
(but please don’t talk to random people asking about coucherequin , that’d be super weird)
Yes, there’s a few friends who know that I like ageplaying and some of them have seen my pictures or even my tumblr blog ^^
You know, ultimately ageplay is quite an innocent thing. You wear a diaper, use a dummy and a bottle, hug a stuffed animal, watch cartoons, wear cute clothing. You’re not hurting anyone, you’re not hurting yourself. You may find that some people think that using diapers is gross (even #1), but that is the only real criticism that I’ve heard over the years. Maybe it is a little strange at first, but I doubt that any good friend would think that it’s a big deal.
What is important is to know boundaries when it comes to friends. They don’t necessarily need to know your kinks nor the details of your kinks. Ageplay may not fully be a kink, but please treat is as one when talking about it with others. It’s not a topic that you talk about with someone who doesn’t know you very well
xD I don’t know. I’m not so sure I’m actually cute. But apparently I’m good at pretending
Great pictures. I do love the plastic pants peaking out from under your skirt.
uh huh ^^. and I like pretending to be a little kid, so it goes nicely together!
Verry cute. I see your nice plastic . I like that!
Hm yeah ^^. Lots of people really like the way that plastic pants look huh? I still don’t really get why, but I don’t mind wearing plastic pants in some of my pictures to please you! As long as I can wear a diaper, I’ll be a smol happy Little!
It is just the crispy noise and soft feeling of plastic pants. And I like wearing them in combination with diapers. I will appreciate your photos while wearing plastic pants just in that combination.
@garryta so you also wear plastic pants over your diaper, huh? ^^ Which ones do you have?
Did I really? ^^ It’s a really nice thing to hear; one of my blog’s purposes is to make others feel better and happier. Somehow, I am being successful at that !
I wonder what my end-game would be, anyway.. At some point I would be too old and ugly to continue publishing ageplay pictures of myself, and I would gradually disappear from the internet.. but hopefully I can still continue for some time to come
xD Well you could, but I am not wearing a diaper right at this moment :<. I should really take new pictures of my ageplaying soon. I haven’t taken any new pictures for some time, already, and I owe it to you to have new pictures..
Instead, I will send you two (old) pictures of me wearing a Rearz Incontrol with plastic pants on top ^^. I know how much some of you like wearing plastic pants over your nappy!
Thank you for wearing those nice plastic pants
Hm yeah ^^ , posing with plastic pants is fun cus so many people seem to like seeing plastic pants on me. As long as I can wear diapers, I will be a happy little baby, it is okay for me to wear a plastic pants over my diaper
Maybe it would be fun to sleep together with another adult baby and we would press our plastic pants together while we sleep in each others arms !! And occasionally our pacis would bump together. I would melt into a little puddle and not be able to think any more
I’m satisfied after a few hours of ageplay ^^. My motivation for wearing diapers is also gone for a few days after that. I do always sleep with my shark plush, though (that’s also ageplay, right?).
I’ve heard from others that they can wear diapers for days or weeks. I’ve never tried it myself, but it does not seem like something for me. Everyone is different, I don’t mind that others like this ^^. In fact, I’m glad that they do find this enjoyable! Maybe I would be reduced to an actual babybrain if I wore diapers for too long °^° !!
xD hm okay. I don’t think that a plastic pants over a disposable diaper is of much use. A disposable diaper always leaks around your thighs, and a plastic pants doesn’t stop anything there cus it’s not like it’s actually watertight around your legs
Plastic pants were originally intended for cloth diapers. When I have a plastic pants on in my pictures, I am doing it for the aesthetics ^^.
I’m sorry that I’ve been holding onto this Ask for so long. I should have answered it earlier!
I do really like diapers and ageplay, it’s really really genuine. I’ve liked this ever since I can remember, though my early memories are kinda blurry and probably not accurate. So I would not say that I “found” a source of joy, because it has always been there, like how you cannot find out that you have 2 legs.
What has changed over time is my devotion to it. In the past I did not have as many ABDL thingies to indulge myself into. Nowadays I can go all goo goo gaga and pee my diapers as much as I want xD
