garryta: coucherequin: garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 Really? But aren’t there other plastic pants designs that you’d rather see me in? Please show me what you have … Continue reading →
garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 Really? But aren’t there other plastic pants designs that you’d rather see me in?
I don’t think that diapers do anything for someone who isn’t into them. With that in mind, wearing diapers probably wouldn’t make them happier or increase their quality of life.
I asked my first partner whether she wanted to share a special intimate time with me, in exchange for doing the same for her. She agreed to that, and we overall had a great time ageplaying. Though, it was one-sided. Later, I asked a close friend whether she wanted to ageplay with me. It was really fun for me to see her like that, but she didn’t like it and asked that I don’t request it again. I recently brought ageplay up with a close (male) friend, and he thought it was strange. He was interested in seeing me in all those pretty dresses, but he also commented that seeing diapers on me did nothing for him.
This Ask brings up a deeper question, though. What compels me (and maybe you?) to want to wear diapers and do other baby stuff. The way that I look at it, ageplay is something that we can acquire during (childhood) development. I think that it is not possible to (fully) acquire it in adulthood. Through association, a partner can maybe begin to enjoy diapers when they’re always used in a safe and romantic way. Though, I don’t have any experience with this. There is at least one person who has been DM’ing me, who is not into diapers, but interested in other aspects of what I post.
I don’t think that I can fully answer your question ^^;;. For sure I can make anyone into ABDL happy by making them wear a diaper, especially if I put them into one! Do you think that I could be a caretaker?
bobbadadee: coucherequin: During my adventure, I will be protected by my shark and by a.. diaper! You surely will. Yes ^^, it will be a biiiig adventure, until I need to take a nap
Yes, softness and colors are really important for me. At times, the world feels cold, lonely and grey. To escape the big scary world, I have created my own: littlespace. It is a little fantasy land, existing between my ears, materializing itself in my bedroom. There, the world is not cold, lonely and grey. Instead, my little world is warm, comfortable and brightly colored. There’s cute outfits, fun activities, a SHARK, and baby thingies. Isn’t it just the best?
I’m going to Japan Expo Paris this July. Most likely, I’ll take a touhou cosplay with me. Though, I haven’t decided yet which one… I can choose between Tenshi, Miko, Utsuho, and Sanae, as these are the touhou costumes that I have ^^. Let’s see what happens, right?
diaperedpinoy24: coucherequin: garryta: coucherequin: So many pictures of me wearing plastic pants ^^ Verry nice. Please continue. Of course I will ^^, I try my best to have a new post every day… I have done so for years now! … Continue reading →
I’m sorry if I disappointed you. I try my best to be friendly to everyone ❤️. I’m convinced that you’re a kind and loving person. I hope that you can enjoy the coming weekend wearing a diaper and a cute soft pajama ^^
I can’t wait to see you again soon
Yeah ^^, I should take new photos soon… But not this weekend. I really need to rest and be in babyspace all day, without a camera or other distractions. I should get new diapers, too!
Thank you for this Ask and for the motivation. I also owe this to @itmustbefun . I’m so sorry, I’ve had so little time the last few weeks that I just can’t open up the document to work on it. I do have a lot of ideas for storylines that I want to write out to evaluate if they fit the sort of feelings that I want to go for. It’s no secret that one of the characters is based on myself, right? xD I can think of a lot of scenarios, but I don’t think that I’m very creative when it comes to characters. She’s literally me (albeit with a few details different) and a dear friend of mine.
Thank you for this Ask, sorry for not answering Asks in quite some time… I’m glad to hear that you got yourself a shark plush, and that you are enjoying it in bed! To me, it feels like the shark plush was created for larger children and teenagers. It is still the right size for smol adults. (hm maybe if it was a little bit bigger… but I don’t mind)
Mine is really squashed from daily sleeping with him for the past 5 years… I wonder if I should put new filling inside. What do you think?
bbdddb: coucherequin: These were the last pictures that I took of myself, while wearing this diaper. I was wearing a “super seni” incontinence diaper ^^. It felt really nice and cute to wear this diaper. Though, I felt anxious peeing into … Continue reading →
xD I assume that this Ask should be “How was your day?”. Maybe I’m just dumb for fundamentally not really understanding these kinds of chit-chat questions. Almost every day is the same when you start working full-time. Monday to Friday, it’s all the same to me. I wake up at around 7:30 am, I have breakfast with 2 slices of brown bread, covered with peanut butter and jam. I brush my teeth & floss, and leave my home by bike at around 8:30 am. At 12:30 I have lunch, and at around 18:00 I leave from work. Once every 2 days, I stop at the supermarket on my way home, to buy fresh vegetables, fruit, meat, and bread. I have dinner at around 19:00, I shower, and during the evening I have my free time. On the weekends, I wake up at around 10 am, and spend my days either with family, or resting ^^. It doesn’t occur often that I go out to ‘do’ something. Maybe I would be happier if my days were more varied, or maybe I wouldn’t be and I’m fine.
Thank you for sending me this Ask. It feels nice to receive an insightful question like this !
I have not thought about this situation before. I do have some activities that I do, such as this tumblr blog, which maybe would seem out-of-place in a relationship. For instance, the time that I spend taking pictures of myself could instead be spent with a partner! The time that I spend writing out messages could be spent watching a movie together. I can envision that a partner would also feel uncomfortable with some of the things that I do. After all, do I not seem like an e-thot, doing this blog? The question of whether a partner would ‘join’ in those pictures would entirely rely on their personality. It’d be unreasonable to demand it, anyway.
As for what I’d want, regardless of whether the partner would ‘join’, is to be loved. Doesn’t everyone want this? ^^ Nothing else matters, to me.
amandas-diapered-boy: coucherequin: Shark fits perfectly into my backpack ^^ I’ve heard of a monkey on your back, but never a shark on your back I’d take him everywhere, if I could!
These were the last pictures that I took of myself, while wearing this diaper. I was wearing a “super seni” incontinence diaper ^^. It felt really nice and cute to wear this diaper. Though, I felt anxious peeing into it as … Continue reading →
^^ I peed one time into this diaper… It did not leak, which made me really glad! I peed into it while I was on my bed, so it would have been a little unfortunate if I leaked into my … Continue reading →
Thank you kindly for looking at my older pictures! I’m sorry for posting quite a lot, making it difficult to navigate my tumblr blog. On your computer, you could go to https://coucherequin.tumblr.com/archive to have a better overview of my older posts
The Tykables little rawrs were really nice to wear ^^. They look a lot like they’re modelled after actual baby diapers. I should get more of them, I’m not sure if I still have any…
I may move houses again towards the end of this year, or the beginning of next year, so it’s better if I don’t accumulate a lot of stuff in my home ^^;;. Diapers do tend to take up some space, when you buy them as a full package.
kimimerc: Perfect 😀 Thank you for the compliment ❤️❤️ If you want to, please send me an Ask, and I will try to answer it today ^^, it is my free day today!
Thank you for sending me this Ask! You are actually reminding me that I want to buy a changing mat for myself. Currently I put a fleece blanket on the floor, spread out the diaper, and lay down onto it. It is really important that you fluff up your diaper before putting it in! Fluffing up a diaper means that you make the fluffy stuff inside the diaper less dense, by grabbing onto the diaper with two hands, and pushing your hands closer together, forcing the diaper into a U-shape. When you’ve done this several times, the previously densely-compressed fluffy stuff will be less compressed and even more fluffy, making the diaper overall more thick !
It is really important to put diaper cream on your skin ! It helps me to get into the mood, and usually it has a nice scent to it. ABDL is a special time, so feel free to apply a lot of cream! After you’ve taped on your diaper, you can also put on a plastic pants, to enhance further the babyish feeling. What I like to do is put transparent packing tape 2 or 3 times around my waist (on the diaper), to convince my mind that I am not taking off the diaper, and to provide a little bit extra tightness (I am too thin).
I am not pretending that someone is diapering me… that’s something which I will try next time ^^, thank you for the suggestion.
What do you mean by exciting? Sexually? Potentially embarrassing?
I’d rather keep my littlespace safe and without humiliation ^^, as that’s the way how I prefer it. From reading a lot of abdl-themed stories, I do understand that humiliation and (near) exhibitionism is a big turn on for some people… In stories and fantasies, this is fine. However, I would not want to get into real scenarios where others can see that I am wearing a brightly pink-coloured diaper with princesses printed on it xD. Maybe if I was wearing a regular incontinence diaper, at least no one would bother me after an exposure event. Though, it still wouldn’t sit right with me to expose others to such a scenario. Diaper fetishism has a really bad image, and I don’t want to contribute to making it even worse, you know? Through positivity and safety, I’d rather attempt to make ABDL seem much better ^^. You see? I want to inspire you and others to explore your littlespace, and inspire you to have a lot of fun being a little baby ! Only through repeatedly demonstrating that my littlespace is safe, warm, fun, not humiliating and not hyper sexualized, do I feel that I can convince others to try it for themselves
Thank you for sending me this Ask! I don’t think that I deserve all the kind words, though let’s see about that ^^.
Edit: Ah sorry, there was an additional paragraph that I had originally written, which was apparently not saved. I will try to write it again.
I do expect myself to be emotionally mature, I think. I have much still to learn, but I am also not 18 any more. I hope that I can continue to learn and grow, as I grow older in chronological age. (Also, I hope that I can continue to look a little bit young in appearance xD…). I need to learn to better understand others, to better anticipate what they want when they say something, and to be a better overall friend or acquaintance to all who I know ^^. No matter how old I will become, I also hope that I can hold onto my precious littlespace.
I’m afraid that I don’t feel that I can help others with their abdl acceptance issues. It never even occurred to me that what I do is strange. There was never a time that I wanted to stop wearing diapers. However, there were a few times when I wanted to stop sleeping with a plushie, because I felt that I was too old for one and it was embarrassing if I have guests over. Over time, I stopped thinking about this. I do feel it’s a little embarrassing that there’s a massive plushie in my bed, when I have guests over. So I do put the shark underneath my sheets. However, it’s not embarrassing enough to make me blush or feel genuinely bad. xD It’s strange, right? When I have guests over, I make sure to hide my vibe, but not the shark in my bed. In reality, no one would think it’s weird that I own a vibe or any kind of sex toy, whereas they may think it’s a little strange for me to own a huge plushie. Ah well. I will try to think of a more coherent answer to help others with ABDL acceptance.
As for masturbation and pornography.. It’s a precarious balance. Without pictures of myself in diapers, I don’t think that I can attract people to subscribe to my blog. I would like you to read my theories, my thoughts, and I’d love to interact with as many likeminded individuals as possible. Am I attractive or ‘sexy’? Personally, I don’t think that I am. No one has ever directly told me that they’ve climaxed to my pictures. I’m unsure what to think about it. Nonetheless, even if people have climaxed to pictures of me, I hope that I have still inspired enough others to make this worth my time.
These were the last pictures that I took while wearing this diaper, the rearz alpaca overnight I really liked this diaper ^^, it didn’t leak and I had a lot of littlespace fun in it! It is colorful and comfortable. … Continue reading →
I’m sorry if I disappointed you. I try my best to be friendly to everyone ❤️. I’m convinced that you’re a kind and loving person. I hope that you can enjoy the coming weekend wearing a diaper and a cute soft pajama ^^
Thank you kindly for this message ❤❤️. At the top of my blog, it says that this is my “safespace” ^^. With that, I kinda intended to avoid getting negative messages, though it is also true in the other sense in that I try my best to show the fun and relaxation that I have in my littlespace !
Littlespace is my stress relief, I think. My work is kinda mega stressful, but I usually don’t feel stressed because there is a nice balance in my life of accomplishing stuff during the day and having a lot of fun in my free time, either with or without diapers ^^. It’s not only sexual fun, of course (which I try not to talk abour or show in my blog)… Littlespace is pure bliss for me when I am in my element. Sometimes I wish that I could be a baby forever.. but what my mind probably wants is to be babied for a day or two full-time by someone.
Thank you kindly for the compliment ^^. For tumblr, I try my best to write in a way that seems kind, caring, and involved. I care about you, and I want you to grow and thrive. I’d love for you to wake up energized and full of motivation every day (and maybe wearing a diaper ^^). Ageplay recharges me so that I can handle another week of doing adult stuff. I’m already looking forward to when I’m going to sleep later today, cus I will wear a cloth diaper with a plastic pants, and sleep with my paci and my shark plush!
Thank you for your kind wishes and thoughts for all of your followers…..may they be lavishly returned. 🤗
(cloth diapers & p-pants…..nice. found leaking rare ….hopefully for you too)
Lavishly returned? I’d be happy already if I stopped receiving silly/horni messages xD. This blog occasionally feels like me doing my best to seem as happy and positive as possible, and only receiving silly things in return. But maybe it was my fault for having certain expectations, to begin with. Thank you for your message <3
It must have been when I was 6 or 7 years old. From what fragments that I can remember, and from what my parents told me, I wet the bed until I was about 8 years old, and I wore diapers for that. I’m not sure what kind of diapers they were… Judging from my abdl preferences right now, they were most likely not cloth diapers. As a kid, it took me some time to figure out that it was diapers that I craved so much… but right now I couldn’t be happier when I’m ageplaying. It makes me feel complete, and at home ^^. What does it do for you?
kirababy2: coucherequin: Plastic pants over my diaper ^^ for extra protection, and extra crinkles Yes! Please protect me, I make myself look so vulnerable in my pictures ^^…
garryta: coucherequin: Don’t you think that a onesie completes the real baby look? ^^ Yes I do. You look like a real nice little baby 🙂 It makes me so happy when I look like a baby on pictures ^^… … Continue reading →
sixliveoaks: garryta: coucherequin: Which plastic pants do you like to see on me? ^^ I like them all 😜 The poofy white ones. But that’s just me…. Do you think that they look more babyish? ^^ I kinda think that … Continue reading →
Hoi, bedankt voor je Ask! Luiers zijn onderdeel van m’n regressie tot babytje, samen met schattige kleertjes (vooral pyjama’s), onesies, fopspenen, flesvoeding, en knuffeldieren (m’n haai). Om het echter te maken, en ook omdat het me een prettig gevoel geeft, plas ik in m’n luier ^^. Al deze dingen samen geven me dan een heel ontspannen gevoel, waardoor ik eventjes alles los kan laten. Dit werkt alleen als ik me veilig en thuis voel. Op dit moment is dat eigenlijk alleen in m’n eigen slaapkamer het geval. M’n voordeur is op slot, m’n kamerdeur is op slot, de gordijnen zijn dicht, ik ben helemaal veilig en kan eventjes weer babytje zijn ^^. Ik heb wel eens geprobeerd om op andere plekken luiers te dragen, zoals onder een cosplay, maar dat geeft me toch een heel ander gevoel.
Sometimes I wonder whether this blog is helpful to others, and/or helpful to me. It takes some of my time, and some of my energy. I appreciate your interactions, though I am afraid that I cannot answer every “how are you”, and “how are you doing” question that I get, as it’d swamp me in inane messages on a daily basis ^^;;. Is it disrespectful of me to say this, you think? I search for meaningful conversations and depth every time, though this often leaves me disappointed with superficiality. It’s not your fault. It is my fault for not opening up enough to demonstrate topics which interest me
I briefly wore my kigurumi pyjama ^^… It is very comfy to wear, but I did not take additional photos in it, because I thought that it kinda looked boring, and my pictures are already a little bit boring. It … Continue reading →
