I’m not sure. I say 3, but it’s a mix of baby and young child. Cus I want to wear a diaper and drink from a bottle, but I still want to crawl and play with stuff and watch cartoons. Diapers, pacis and bottles are a big cue for my mind to slip away. A caretaker would have to spoonfeed me, put me to bed, brush my hair, and help me in the bath tub…
xD I just want to be taken care of, so that I am safe, warm, comfortable, and worry-free. Outside of the perceived ‘weirdness’ of littlespace, I really think that those desires aren’t so strange. Who wouldn’t want to be safe + warm + comfi + worry-free? I think that if diapers and other littlespace stuff were to be introduced to a naive adult in a positive way, they’d probably really enjoy the experience. It wouldn’t be the same as someone who grew up with it, but who knows. Maybe it all clicks together at that point.
I’m afraid that too few memories are left for me to grasp whether it was embarrassing to be put into diapers, or to know even who diapered me, or what kind of diapers they were. The memories that remain are about how I am in the bottom part of a bunk bed wearing pajamas and a diaper (I don’t know what kind of diaper), and everything felt complete.
I sometimes wear a diaper to bed now… and in the middle of the night I wake up with a full bladder. Not to train myself that it’s okay to wet the bed, I walk to my bathroom and wet my diaper ^^. It’s really surreal to wake up with a wet diaper (even if I did it consciously), and it’s the hugest turn-on ever for me. If I had a partner, they’d definitely find me at my weakest at that moment. You could do anything to me, probably even a kiss would make me come into my diaper.
These were the last pictures that I took, while wearing this diaper. It is called the Lil Bella, from rearz. It has a pleasant scent to it when fresh, and it fits me really well! You should try it, if … Continue reading →
Hello, thank you for the Ask! I am very frugal, and will use no more than 1 or 2 diapers. I use them until they are full, and then I go back to being an icky adult.
I kinda wonder how incontinent people do this. It has to produce a lot of waste?
Well… maybe not any question, but I am generally fairly open to discuss topics. The ones which I typically don’t answer are the ones which contain personal info (like an e-mail address or name) of the Asker. There is no way for me to change the text in an Ask, although I could screenshot it and blur out stuff. However, I wouldn’t want to appear that I’m editing people’s Asks, especially if it’s a non-anon Ask
No, this isn’t something that I would do. I don’t mean to offend anyone by saying this, but being diaper-dependent seems really inconvenient and maybe it even limits you in what you can do. Cus I’ve liked diapers for as long as I can remember, I’ve tried all sorts of things to see if I liked it. So, I have tried wearing diapers while clothes shopping, while at university, while with friends (who didn’t know). Although some aspects did give me a thrill of “oh no I’m wearing a wet diaper and no one knows!!”, it isn’t as fun as pretending to be a baby which would be much harder to do outside of my home.
When a diaper is worn underneath cute pajamas, while I am sucking on a paci and hugging a big plushie in bed, I feel happy and bliss. I know that I have an adult-sized body, but I’d like nothing more than to pretend that I’m still a little kid without any responsibilities or worries. Looking forward to each new day, where everything is bright, warm, and fun!!
I’m not sure how I feel about it. I know it’s me, but it doesn’t look like me. The angles used in the pictures aren’t ones in which I’d naturally see myself. The style of the photos isn’t what I’d use for non-abdl pictures, either. I’d never show myself this bare and vulnerable in any other situation. Sometimes I wish that the person in the pictures was someone else, so that I had someone to hug and put into a diaper.
First I’d ask whether the person offering this to me is serious.. It’s a lot of money and half of it would go to tax if I would accept it. It’s always best when you spend money on stuff which you find important, rather than on me. (I’m just a nobody, a person who you’ve just seen pictures of, on the internet). I’m a real person, of course, but I’m not offering any services or paid rewards or anything like that. I don’t have a patreon or onlyfans or anything like this. You’re free to follow me, interact with me, and ask me anything ^^. I like wearing diapers, I like taking pictures, and I enjoy making others happy! So I’d rather be my genuine self, rather than offer my pictures behind a paywall..
To answer the question seriously.. maybe not for that amount of money.. but I really need to purchase an apartment, rather than renting one. I also really need a new laptop, cus mine is almost dying xD, and my storage is nearly full with pictures and other important stuff. I do still need to get my driver’s license, though the reason I haven’t taken lessons yet is mainly cus I don’t have the time for it, rather than not having the money for it. For my photography hobby, I’d really like to have a studio lamp so that I can make all sorts of color effects. For ABDL I’d love to have a real crib and a nursery for myself ^^. Right now, my bedroom is my ‘nursery’, but a lot of it is just inside my head rather than it being real
I’m afraid that too few memories are left for me to grasp whether it was embarrassing to be put into diapers, or to know even who diapered me, or what kind of diapers they were. The memories that remain are about how I am in the bottom part of a bunk bed wearing pajamas and a diaper (I don’t know what kind of diaper), and everything felt complete.
I sometimes wear a diaper to bed now… and in the middle of the night I wake up with a full bladder. Not to train myself that it’s okay to wet the bed, I walk to my bathroom and wet my diaper ^^. It’s really surreal to wake up with a wet diaper (even if I did it consciously), and it’s the hugest turn-on ever for me. If I had a partner, they’d definitely find me at my weakest at that moment. You could do anything to me, probably even a kiss would make me come into my diaper.
Thank you kindly for the Ask ^^. Yes; my account was deleted so I had to start over with a new account. In my view I didn’t break any rules, but still I’ll try to be more careful with what I show and talk about. I’m still the same person, so you can expect me to respond in similar ways to questions and events.
I think that it is normal to consider abdl to be acceptable. It’s just something that I and others enjoy. I recognize that it can appear a little weird from an outsider’s perspective, but I suspect that this is mainly a learned response. E.g. movies and series use adult diapers and infantile attributes for comedic purposes. Though, among diaper kinksters, I think that the adult baby part is also a little weird. Each person into abdl will fall on a different spot on the abdl “spectrum”. I’m definitely on the far end, for wanting to be a helpless baby. Though even to me it’s still the biggest turn-on and nothing else in life makes me come more oops ^^;;. I’d want everyone else to get the same level of fun from abdl as I do!
Ja, klopt! Ik ben van oorsprong uit Nederland, alhoewel ik nu dus in Vlaanderen woon waar men ook (soort van) Nederlands spreekt. Ik typ m’n berichtjes in het Engels, zodat zo veel mogelijk mensjes mijn tekst kunnen lezen ^^. Eigenlijk is het gebruiken van een tweede taal heel erg vreemd. Woorden zoals luier, speentje, flesje, en knuffeldier dragen voor mij veel meer gevoelens, dan het Engelse equivalent. Wat vind jij ervan?
Ik denk niet dat ik de enige ben. Ik heb een lijstje met abdl content creators die actief zijn op tumblr, maar ik hou van hun niet bij welke nationaliteit ze hebben. Ik vermoed dat sommigen ook gewoon niet vermelden dat ze van oorsprong Nederlandstalig zijn (doe ik eigenlijk ook niet). Ik ben op de hoogte van het Nederlandstalige forum (https://abdlz.nl/), en ook het tumblr account @abdlnl . Daarnaast heb ik ook gezien dat er een Duitstalige en een Franstalige abdl gemeenschap is. Zo slecht is het dus allemaal niet, toch? ^^
No, I can’t wear diapers every day, there’s just no time for it x_x. Instead, I try to wear a diaper at least once per week, on a Saturday or Sunday ^^. This week, I managed to make time for it on Saturday!
I really don’t know, though. There’s so many really good abdl diapers that it is really difficult to decide which one I like best. There’s the Rearz Princess Pink, Littleforbig Baby Cuties, Littleforbig Little Dreamers, Rearz Lil Squirts Splash, Rearz Lil bella (pictured), Bambino Bianco, Bambino Cloudee… All of these I have worn at least once!
There’s still a lot of abdl diapers that I have yet to try ^^. Which diaper would you like to see me in, which one should I try next?
I’m sorry, as far as I can see my reasoning is sound and I am not easily persuaded, especially not without valid arguments. Yes, I enjoy taking pictures, ageplaying, and interacting with like-minded people to spread positive energy surrounding abdl. But there are many other things that I also enjoy doing, which have a much lower chance of being nuked out of existence ^^;;
I have taken new photos during previous ageplay sessions.. These photos remain unpublished for now until I decide what to do.
I do truly want to give it another chance. But each time I actually go to tumblr, I am reminded of the amount of time that I have sunk into the coucherequin blog, that is now all gone. It’s kinda sad and very discouraging, because starting over means that almost everyone is gone.
This is my lil pandora box xD. It only has a few diapers left, but I have more in other places, too! I can never go without diapers, Iād become insane
What I had going for in my original blog is that Iād document my adventures into littlespace by showing you first the diaper as I lay it down onto my bed, followed by me becoming progressively more silly while playing … Continue reading →
Thank you kindly for everyone who has been helping me to build back up my tumblr profile. I was very heartbroken to learn that everything was gone, and if I wanted to start over again Iād need to scream into … Continue reading →
I don’t think that diapers do anything for someone who isn’t into them. With that in mind, wearing diapers probably wouldn’t make them happier or increase their quality of life.
I asked my first partner whether she wanted to share a special intimate time with me, in exchange for doing the same for her. She agreed to that, and we overall had a great time ageplaying. Though, it was one-sided. Later, I asked a close friend whether she wanted to ageplay with me. It was really fun for me to see her like that, but she didnāt like it and asked that I donāt request it again. I recently brought ageplay up with a close (male) friend, and he thought it was strange. He was interested in seeing me in all those pretty dresses, but he also commented that seeing diapers on me did nothing for him.
This Ask brings up a deeper question, though. What compels me (and maybe you?) to want to wear diapers and do other baby stuff. The way that I look at it, ageplay is something that we can acquire during (childhood) development. I think that it is not possible to (fully) acquire it in adulthood. Through association, a partner can maybe begin to enjoy diapers when theyāre always used in a safe and romantic way. Though, I donāt have any experience with this. There is at least one person who has been DMāing me, who is not into diapers, but interested in other aspects of what I post.
I donāt think that I can fully answer your question ^^;;. For sure I can make anyone into ABDL happy by making them wear a diaper, especially if I put them into one! Do you think that I could be a caretaker?
bobbadadee: coucherequin: During my adventure, I will be protected by my shark and by a.. diaper! You surely will. Yes ^^, it will be a biiiig adventure, until I need to take a nap
Yes, softness and colors are really important for me. At times, the world feels cold, lonely and grey. To escape the big scary world, I have created my own: littlespace. It is a little fantasy land, existing between my ears, materializing itself in my bedroom. There, the world is not cold, lonely and grey. Instead, my little world is warm, comfortable and brightly colored. There’s cute outfits, fun activities, a SHARK, and baby thingies. Isn’t it just the best?
Thank you for sending me this Ask. It feels nice to receive an insightful question like this !
I have not thought about this situation before. I do have some activities that I do, such as this tumblr blog, which maybe would seem out-of-place in a relationship. For instance, the time that I spend taking pictures of myself could instead be spent with a partner! The time that I spend writing out messages could be spent watching a movie together. I can envision that a partner would also feel uncomfortable with some of the things that I do. After all, do I not seem like an e-thot, doing this blog? The question of whether a partner wouldĀ ājoinā in those pictures would entirely rely on their personality. Itād be unreasonable to demand it, anyway.Ā
As for what Iād want, regardless of whether the partner wouldĀ ājoinā, is to be loved. Doesnāt everyone want this? ^^ Nothing else matters, to me.
amandas-diapered-boy: coucherequin: Shark fits perfectly into my backpack ^^ Iāve heard of a monkey on your back, but never a shark on your back Iād take him everywhere, if I could!Ā
Thank you kindly for this Ask. You have a lot of choice, with regards to diapers, nowadays. Even among incontinence-geared diapers, you can choose between budget options and more expensive high capacity ones. Concomitantly, you can choose between plastic-backed and cloth-backed diapers, depending on what texture you prefer ^^. The various brands of incontinence diapers do have ‘designs’, in that there will either be (dotted) patterns printed on them, or the whole diaper will have a solid color. I assume that this is done specifically to make incontinence diapers not resemble baby diapers. Though, the helplessness of incontinence appears to be an aesthetic onto itself…
Once you decide that you’d like to try out ABDL-geared diapers, you will find out that your options are even broader! Among abdl diapers, you can choose between fancy designs, scented diapers, and even diapers modelled in a way to make them better resemble resized actual baby diapers. ABDL diapers share some of the same constraints as incontinence diapers, in that they cannot be too expensive or too impractical to wear. However, abdl diapers do not have any design constraints ^^. In fact, I love it when diapers resemble baby diapers, as they make me feel like one. That’s the whole point!
To answer your question; I prefer diapers with ‘fancy’ designs, that make me feel more like a baby. Though, I have also worn incontinence diapers and ones with simpler designs, in the past. In the two pictures below, I am wearing a Rearz Incontrol, and the one below it I am wearing a Lil Squirts Splash.Ā
kimimerc: Perfect š Thank you for the complimentĀ ā¤ļøā¤ļø If you want to, please send me an Ask, and I will try to answer it today ^^, it is my free day today!
I will answer it for this time ^^. I am wearing a Rearz Princess Pink, right now. I am melting into my littlespace, and melting a little bit into my diaper in the process. I’m still kinda horni, and I wish that I could put something inside me… but I need to focus on my happy littlespace ā¤ļø
I’m sorry, you’re talking about my coucherequin gmail address. I did attempt to answer all my messages some days ago, though the day after everything was back again. I wish that I was an octopus instead of a shark; able to work on many things at the same time.
I do appreciate the messages that I receive. I feel that I fail people for not being able to give a timely answer to all these messages ^^… Though, I make an exception for Asks, as I do my best to answer all of those (eventually). If you want me to answer something relatively urgently, you could always send me an Ask.
These were the last pictures that I took while wearing this diaper, the rearz alpaca overnight I really liked this diaper ^^, it didnāt leak and I had a lot of littlespace fun in it! It is colorful and comfortable. … Continue reading →
I buy diapers and abdl clothing from a webshop called ABDLfactory, they have another website called ab-dl-tb-shop, but this is the same shop/company. This shop sells a lot of different kinds of diapers and usually actually has their things in stock (not a given these days). There’s a shop called eurodl which I like because they sell bags of mixed diapers, which helps me to keep my photos a little bit varied.. Also I’ve bought abdl stuff from amazon, though they keep losing my packages and refunding me 3 months later so I can’t recommend that one xD.
Sending diapers by post over long distances is expensive, so you shouldn’t take my advice on any of this unless you happen to live in the Netherlands or in Belgium, because the shipping costs may be unreasonably high. It is better for you to find a shop that is active in your region. As for local shops… I have never seen a shop sell ABDL diapers, but I will happily go into the local baby store to buy bottles, cups, and other cute accessories for myself ^^. I hope that the shopkeepers will never find out that I am buying it for a BIG baby, namely MYSELF!
There’s a German webshop called saveexpress, which I still need to try. They seem to have a really big selection. I’ve always wondered what’s up with this shop. They seem to cater to incontinent people, but they also sell abdl diapers. I think that I would feel a little embarrassed to shop for incontinent supplies and baby-themed diapers in adult sizes… Realistically, though, incontinent people will quickly learn about the existence of ABDL, and they’ll just have to deal with. Maybe it is even encouraging or enabling to see young handsome women and men have fun wearing diapers, as a source of positive energy, instead of dreading it from start to finish. Nonetheless, I don’t want to bother anyone, so I will not specifically seek out people who are incontinent to ask them about this topic. ABDL can be seen as weird. To understand it, you need to read into a whole bunch of topics like safespace / littlespace, DDLG (caregiver dynamics), and diaper fetishism. My blog can’t provide the necessary information to understand ABDL, so it is best that I stay far away from a non-ABDL audience.
